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Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by pole80: 8:28pm On Jan 12, 2009
My ex and I broke up 7 months ago. He dumped me. We were going through a lot when we were together so I unloaded my emotional baggage on him and so did he, and we fell apart. Now he wants me back. He said he's been thinking about me ever since we split, he just needed sometime to himself to figure things out on his own. I don't know what to do. I was so surprised when he called because we never spoke after we broke up. I think everyone deserves a second chance, but I've never broken up with someone only to get back together. I'm so confused. Has anyone been in my position before? What did you do? Any thoughts?
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by jaybee3(m): 8:35pm On Jan 12, 2009
follow your heart/gutt instinct cos no one can confidently tell you what to do as we aren't in ya lives and we don't know u guys in person to be able to judge
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by pole80: 8:44pm On Jan 12, 2009
@jay bee
Have you ever gotten back together with an ex?
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by jaybee3(m): 8:48pm On Jan 12, 2009
not really but i'm still friends with them
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by blackmann(m): 8:55pm On Jan 12, 2009
like jaybee said, follow ur heart, but make sure u use ur head too before deciding. Sometimes emotional stress make couples dpo some irrational things, but 7 months is a long time. i guess he tried seeing other girls, but couldn't get the thot of u out of his mind. just don't make a mistake u'll later regret.
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by pole80: 9:03pm On Jan 12, 2009
I've never been dumped before, and although I still have feelings for him. I'm not sure if this is a case of my ego vs. my emotions, Hmmm,
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by HOLLASLYD(m): 9:07pm On Jan 12, 2009
You only,know the reason why you guys split before.so you are in the position to decide wether to get back together or not
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by pole80: 9:09pm On Jan 12, 2009
@Hollaslyd

Have you been in my position before? Did you take your ex back?
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by amebono14: 9:42pm On Jan 12, 2009
i wouldnt be surprised if dis is monicaa again
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Jan 12, 2009
No. Don't go back to your vomit.
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by tope2000(f): 9:57pm On Jan 12, 2009
amebo no.1:

i wouldnt be surprised if this is monicaa again

Lmao . . . . i op not cheesy
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by amebono14: 10:02pm On Jan 12, 2009
tope2000:

Lmao . . . . i op not cheesy

i think she is d one jare,let her come and deny it and i will go look up their ip address grin grin grin
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by follypimpi(m): 10:03pm On Jan 12, 2009
Is not all bout goin bck to ones vomit,@times splittin with ur ex mkes u louts value each other and let u realize u really complete each other.Well jst tke ur time to mke ur decision,dont b in a rush tho.

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Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by tope2000(f): 10:04pm On Jan 12, 2009
amebo no.1:

i think she is d one jare,let her come and deny it and[b] i will go look up their ip address[/b] grin grin grin

lmao grin grin
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by bronxdog: 10:07pm On Jan 12, 2009
@Poster

Go for him, for all you know, he might have grown bigger in his dik or even learnt better tactics in sex - you dig? never say no girlfriend.
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by pole80: 10:35pm On Jan 12, 2009
@bronx_dog

I think you have the wrong mindset, this has nothing to do with sex. This is love. Please be serious with your response. Thank you.
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by Treetop20(m): 10:37pm On Jan 12, 2009
give it go
you'd never know
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by BOSS7: 10:50pm On Jan 12, 2009
bronx_dog:

@Poster

Go for him, for all you know, he might have grown bigger in his dik or even learnt better tactics in sex - you dig? never say no girlfriend.

Stop polluting people's thread with your retarded junk. Fool. Just like your dad cheated on your mum to have you, now you want to cool off by annoying people. Idiot.
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by Monicaa: 11:48pm On Jan 12, 2009
amebo no.1:

i wouldnt be surprised if this is monicaa again

What is this? I can see u r obsessed with me grin grin, Everyone is now Monicaa to you. tongue


@Poster
Same thing happened to me, only that mine was only for @ most 2months or so, now he's begging but of cause I cant go back @ least not 4 now not because I dont love him but the issues that surrounded the problem we had so my dear, it's all up to you, what you feel for him, if it's genuine or the other way round.
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by amebono14: 11:51pm On Jan 12, 2009
Monicaa:

What is this? I can see u r obsessed with me grin grin, Everyone is now Monicaa to you. tongue



make we hear word,na so u come wt anita1,then come post again after a few hrs,d same here

na today tongue
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by tope2000(f): 11:52pm On Jan 12, 2009
amebo no.1:

make we hear word,na so u come wt anita1,then come post again after a few hrs,d same here

na today tongue

lmao. . . . u r a case grin
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by amebono14: 11:59pm On Jan 12, 2009
tope2000:

lmao. . . . u r a case grin

no mind me jare

now i believe say na all this fine fine girls dey do like mumu for relationship,but the ugly ones like u and me r so intelligent that is why we hardly get heart broken grin grin cheesy cheesy  but u see those fine ones,na mumu and ode them be,they exchanged their senses for beauty cheesy cheesy
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by Monicaa: 11:59pm On Jan 12, 2009
@ Poster

Also please clarify to this obsessed fan of mine amebo no.1,  that there are a lot of people out there with similiar issues n not only Monicaa.
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by Treetop20(m): 12:02am On Jan 13, 2009
i doubt the poster is monicaa
monicaa is a cute girl
cheesy
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by amebono14: 12:02am On Jan 13, 2009
Monicaa:

@ Poster

Also please clarify to this obsessed fan of mine amebo no.1,  that there are a lot of people out there with similiar issues n not only Monicaa.

grin grin grin grin pole80 oops sorry monicaa im in loff wt u grin grin grin
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by amebono14: 12:03am On Jan 13, 2009
Treetop20:

i doubt the poster is monicaa
monicaa is a cute girl
cheesy

na monicaa ojare

na today grin grin
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by Monicaa: 12:04am On Jan 13, 2009
amebo no.1

u r a waste of time for me, if u like go to the nearest babalawo, heaven or wherever u wanna n get ur answer. It's people like u that this forum useless, directing it off point/topic, Nonsense.
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by tope2000(f): 12:06am On Jan 13, 2009
amebo no.1:

no mind me jare

now i believe say na all this fine fine girls dey do like mumu for relationship,but the ugly ones like u and me r so intelligent that is why we hardly get heart broken grin grin cheesy cheesy  but u see those fine ones,na mumu and ode them be,they exchanged their senses for beauty cheesy cheesy

Gbam grin
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by Nobody: 12:06am On Jan 13, 2009
na wa o . . . amebo, how can you yab a sweet chic like monicaa? Stop am o.  grin
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by amebono14: 12:06am On Jan 13, 2009
Monicaa:

amebo no.1

u r a waste of time for me, if u like go to the nearest babalawo, heaven or wherever u want to n get ur answer. It's people like u that this forum useless, directing it off point/topic, Nonsense.

thank u ma,thank you ma,i wonder why its disturbing u,if u r not guilty of d crime i accused u offf

madam pole80 oops sorry monicaa,why do i keep slipping my hands sef,how silly of me angry angry
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by amebono14: 12:07am On Jan 13, 2009
davidylan:

na wa o . . . amebo, how can you yab a sweet chic like monicaa? Stop am o.  grin

grin grin grin aje ni eeee cheesy ,wetin i do naaa,i no yab am ooo,i was only trying to tell d truth,cos i was told in my sunday school dat "children of God dont lie" embarassed sad cry
Re: Ex-boyfriend Wants Me Back, Should I Give Him A Second Chance? by Monicaa: 12:08am On Jan 13, 2009
amebo no.1:

na monicaa ojare

na today grin grin


U would waste ur time listening to this thing, oops i meant person amebo no.1, This isnt me ok.

Since i made a post of boyfriend issue for who knows how long, i didnt know it would bring a stalker,  For those who wanna believe this isnt Monicaa.

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