pastorKosiso:
Did you later marry the sugar mummy?

in my eyes then she looks ugly and heavily endowed down there, so she didnt meet my criteria, but i regret not taking her serious, if i see her again i might take responsibility

I don't know....

But it is very wrong for a woman to like a guy and not walk up to him to start a conversation....

They stewpid things giving green-light, staring at the guy in a scaring manner, robbing their body on the guy if she gets close enough, dropping something on the floor in front of the guy then bending over to pick it...


Most "Nigerian" women have inferiority complex issues...

10th time now this stup¡d topic is making frontpage. Do nairalanders really have nothing to do with their time?

Its a yes or no question...no long thing,if i was going to marry her eventually i will accept her proposal but if its just one of dem knack knack chics wit no future plans then i will politely say no,and knack one last time for the road

There is nothing wrong with that IF the lady is ready to take the responsibilities of the man but if the lady in turrn expects the man to brring the moni for the brideprice....mmmmmmmm

Funny!

She go propose reach like 10 tyms be that

Where
Is amadioha




If I hear say she do that eh

no hit and run ooo

kwenu:


in my eyes then she looks ugly and heavily endowed down there, so she didnt meet my criteria, but i regret not taking her serious, if i see her again i might take responsibility

Thats not a good idea.if she try it,she will loose respect even if they settle down together..

People differ so does opinions. To me I can propose to a man but I chose not to because it negates what God said in his holy book "he who finds a wife" and not the other way round.

Seun:

Obviously, a wife is not bush meat. That is a terrible analogy. Your wife is not your prey (unless you're some sort of predator or cannibal)


In reply to that, a naija lady can simply say, "that's irrelevant". I can't imagine any disagreement where who asked who first actually matters .

@bolded .. I have seen a case where a couple had misunderstanding, and d husband told wifey to pack her things and go dat after all he didn't wed her in church or court marriage. Dat since it was only traditional marriage dey did, all he will do is go to her father and collect bride price he paid its dat easy .
Now dis lady was being reasonable cos d man didnt have money 4 wedding and she begged her parents to accept only trad marriage till her guy can afford others .

Now tell me, in dis case, if it had been d lady who toasted/proposed, what would have come outta d man's mouth??

Even in cases where its d man who came to toast, ask, beg and even ask pple to beg u to accept him , he will still carry his matrimonial home and vows and go to dump dem in BTW some public toilets' legs and treat u anyhow..... Not to talk of d case where a lady did d toasting and/or proposing

DuchessLily:


Read my post dat u quoted again. I stated my take on this matter there (dat is aside d religion aspect)

hmmm.... congratulations.

gabinogem:
hmmm.... congratulations.

Thanx

It's more fun when the guy does d wooing.
Ladies are terrible toasters,they lack the skills & tricks.

Islamically, it is right!

I don't agree with that. If she can't give him dying signs let her forget it.

Does nl recycle d same posts every year

Not bad at all

Sound Sultan once said "If u love somebody walk up to am tell am u love am oo, cux no crime no crim @ all"

DuchessLily:
Table don turn be dat..

But I don't support dat we babes should take DAT step, no matter how BOLD or REAL anyone thinks d babes who do dat are, its just not proper

Naija guys especially would take her for granted

If there is any disagreement in d relationship, I naija guy might say. " after all I didnt or never came 4 u, u did

Biblically, it is he DAT findeth a wife....., not she DAT findeth a husband

kennygee:
Bold but not a good idea, not all men are mature about it.

If una fight, e fit carry am insult you if e dey immature.

miss lagbaja of nairaland

Mattpopson101:
Sound Sultan once said "If u love somebody walk up to am tell am u love am oo, cux no crime no crim @ all"

he was only singing to make more money. I bet ya, he will not advice his sister to do DAT, neither will u

As for me i see no crime, but Naija guys will just take advantage. Seen white girls expressing her feelings to my guy. Now they both are married

DuchessLily:


he was only singing to make more money. I bet ya, he will not advice his sister to do DAT, neither will u

More than wrong! Instead of that increase your prayer tempo for God to make him do it. Show your desperation in prayers so that you will have your respect.

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I see we going too far... what bout the wooing? If a man can woo the lady. What stopping him from proposing? Smh






Only if it the lady that woo him then..... but then again she can't woo u and still expect her to propose naaaaw

I dont think it is right, but If a lady sees a guy she likes or is interested in having perceived him to be a husband material she can pray about it and give him a strong green light by reason of the way she conducts herself so it becomes obvious to him that she wants him even without proposing to him.The guy would make a move or ignore which means he is not interested then she can move on.

imsuboi:
How does this post stop that serial loser Buhari from losing again on March 28th?

what exactly ur problem is?

atakamus:
There is no problem with that. The write up is long. I suspect mama peace proposed to my oga at the climax. Since it is so, let the women start proposing after all they claim that what a man can do, a woman can do better.

chai u wicked Ooo but it looks so if we examine it critically :-0 :0

There is nothing wrong with that.is only here in nigeria that our things are always differgwsent.

kastonkastrol:
is cool.... is high time women start doing the toasting.. The girl i will eventually marry will be the one that will toast me, take me out on dinner dates and finally propose to me...

Ok. Don't complain when ure asked to do the dishes, cook, clean, wash nappies, buy food stff and grind pepper.
Infact, she'll impregnate u too...

what if the guy is a color blind type such that instead of seeing green he saw red?