I and my girl has been dating for almost 3 years now, it's been cool, nice and loving., am the type that is somehow busy i mean, go to work as early as 5:30 am and come back 9 pm  monday till friday and most of the weekends as well somehow busy. i have never touched ****** her because i respect her so much and i wish to marry her in the near future, SUDDENLY she started behaving somehow,  i hear news about her having another boyfriend, it was hard 2 believe because i trust her, and unfunately for her i caught her red handed , i was shocked, SO NA TRUE!!!,,  .i was very sad and angry, well life continues, i never called her nor pick up her calls, she tried every means to get to me which proved abortive except for a day she saw coming on the way @ night, she quickly grab me and started apologizing begging me in the name of God that all she did was a mistake, well.i accepted the apology and promised that she will never see that guy again. The funniest part was that the other guy came to interview me that who am i to this girl (my girlfriend), i replied, the guy started messing up the girl in my presence saying all sort of things to her, he said AFTERALL HE HAS REACHED THE PROMISE LAND OF THE GIRL FILLED WITH MILK & HONEY, i was shocked in my heart, so this girl has been giving out what i have been preserving all this years, i said to my self that i have to also REACH THE PROMISE LAND UNDER MUST, which i did and enjoyed so much *********** (no be my fault o ), life continue,  to cut the long story short, she has started going out with this same guy, which she know that i am aware, i abandoned her for like 2 months and she is back again pleading for the same course. PLEASE WHAT SHUDI DO,  MY QUESTIONS,
1. what prompted her to have another boyfriend
2. why did she go back to that guy,
3. why is it that she doesn;t want to lose me, ?
4. sHUD I ACCEPT HER BACK & CONTINUE TO BANG HER,

the reply to your questions are

1. you were too busy to use your dick so she had to look for a free one

2. cos the guy f**k pass you, _{how u for sabi do when u dnt use it}

3. cos u are sooo damn stupid.

foolish agbaya poster

Lol . . .   
First thing - I'm happy you finally REACHED THE PROMISE LAND  cus you'ld had been hella pissed if u didnt get none after all those years.
Second thing - The dude you caught her with is the one u know about, ladies are smarter when it comes to cheating so personally i would advice you to let her be.

Alaye2008:

1. what prompted her to have another boyfriend
2. why did she go back to that guy,
3. why is it that she doesn;t want to lose me, ?

1. The main reason a lady would cheat on a dude is if she is not getting everything from her present boyfriend e.g good sex, financial help, quality time spent together etc
2. You were still lacking something from my 1st answer
3. She is getting something from you, if you have nothing to offer her - she wont want to be with you

if she is still going out with the other guy, just forget about the girl. because, come what may if u marry her she will still go out with him. marriage is not all about beauty but trust and respect.

continue ur life search for ur real wife,

what makes IT the promise land,

I think it's totally overblown,

First of all,i'm happy you finally reached the promised land! For a while back there,i wondered what you were still doing in egypt!
1. You were too busy, you weren't satisfying her monetary needs,sexual needs e.t.c
2. You are still not satisfying a need.
3. There's definitely something that the other guy isn't offering that you are.
4. Hell yeah! Continue to teabag her until you find a better girl then drop her like a bad habit!

What do you expect.the girl got some sexual needs.for 3 years,give me a break.she gotta find someone to reach the promise land.for your question.the answer is yes continue banging her till you tire.she think say she go de disappear de reappear for your life.

i was shocked, SO NA TRUE!!!,,

_goat

Kpele,
If I were u, I'd move on.

U noticed no girl responded on this thread,if it;s abt a dude now they wld hve attacked us.

shie be
if na Guy de cheat na
dem nor go let persn hear word

it meant to be,dont fink about it.you wil even find another peron better than her

follypimpi:

U noticed no girl responded on this thread,if it;s about a dude now they would hve attacked us.

LOL . . . Just noticed
This thread would be on page 20 if it was the other way around

[b]ACCEPT HER BACK & CONTINUE TO BANG HER, [s]but dont make the mistake of marrying her coz she's used to giving it to you and the other guy[/b[/s]]

@ sparta:
you mean i shud continue to bang her, thats so funny, thanks for your comment as you are first female to respond to this thread, warms hugsssssss

although this post is dull,

i just want to draw our attention to something that seems more rampant now than in the past.
" OUR WOMEN ARE NOW THE CHEATS".
women seem to be having thier way more easily now than guys?

wetin dey happen. has the table turned?
do we now have play girls?

@ sparta:
you mean i should continue to bang her, thats so funny, thanks for your comment as you are first female to respond to this thread, warms hugsssssss


Anytime bro, Its not in a woman's place to sleep around!

pls accept her nd continue 2 use ur dick real hard till u re sick of p, y, she's not worth it,

@POSTER

A vitreous woman,who can find?For her price is far[color=#990000][/color] above the rubies.The truth is that many ladies,I mean too many ladies cheat on their men.Even the married ladies,so you shouldn't be surprise to know that your girl friend wasn't faithful to you,rather you should be happy that you were able uncover her 'her and seek' games on time,as she's not worthy to be called your wife from your explanation.Let me reiterate it again,that she doesn't merit the least of your attention for anything in the world.

HOLLASLYD:

What do you expect.the girl got some sexual needs.for 3 years,give me a break.she gotta find someone to reach the promise land.for your question.the answer is yes continue banging her till you tire.she think say she go de disappear de reappear for your life.

The bitter truth is everybody cannot be bad,although you weren't providing the sexual satisfaction she needed,there should have been a dialogue between the both of you and a conclusion should be reached.Forge ahead with your life,certainly there are good ladies out there that are worth your precious time,not a 'commodore in bed',who can give it anywhere at anytime.[color=#990000][/color]

im sure she is really confused and dont know who she want,
all i can say is that u r in a better position to to know what to do.
i tried giving my ex-guy a second chance after been caught red handed in the bedroom and guess what happen?
he cheated again
so guy it up to u to decide wat u will do and if u do u'l need to LEARN to trust her and also to FORGET wat happend which i know would be a every d very difficult task,
that is if she is truely repentant.

Goodluck

Kpele, I'm sorry that happened to you. You must learn from this situation and step your game up, PERIOD. Not saying that you should change the person that you are, but make time for your girl ), talk to her, see what she needs (not your ex, she doesn't derserve this treatment). Look for a girl that want to do the same for you. Sometimes we are so busy with our lives/careers/family, we tend to forget and put are loved ones on the back-end not even noticing it although you/we mean no harm, that's life.

I agree with the other posters, you have something that she can't quite let go yet. Females like your ex-girlfriend mess everything up for REAL WOMEN like myself. Continue to to give it to her, with NO EMOTIONS ATTACHED. The best remedy to get over an ex is get underneath another sugarbunch. But before you get serious with another female, make sure that you are over ex, completely. Make sure u can almost meet the new girlfriend needs. Everyone is not perfect and GOOD LUCK!!