I Survived only two there .. How many did you survive?

i survived two... only to be killed by the pankere and igbale

The ones I survive nor dey there

Turn garri
Koboko
Pkankere
Guava branch
Hot backhand slaps
Bottom of cooking pot
And many more.

I don't understand

pinkycute:
I don't understand

Parents use then to beat kids who needed some form of discipline. If a child does something wrong, mom or dad will flog or hit with one of those

Ooh thanks for explaining!!..
Now I understand but quite unfortunately I never experienced such

delishpot:


Parents use then to beat kids who needed some form of discipline. If a child does something wrong, mom or dad will flog or hit with one of those

pinkycute:
Ooh thanks for explaining!!..
Now I understand but quite unfortunately I never experienced such

Unfortunately ke? Pkease you were fortunate i. I wish I did not experience any too. I was a very good child but my mom thought otherwise. An event as simple as forgeting to take in clothes or some clothes when it rains will bring out the cane, forgeting to wash my socks, will bring out the cane, being carried away by play and forgeting to greet moms friend, will bring out the cane. I lived in fear. It destroyed me. But in my late 20s I decided to take charge of my life. I know she did what she did cos she did not know any better not out of hate. She wanted the perfect child. But who amongst us is perfect?

Smh your list is quite scary how did you survived all those stuff

delishpot:
The ones I survive nor dey there

Turn garri
Koboko
Pkankere
Guava branch
Hot backhand slaps
Bottom of cooking pot
And many more.

pinkycute:
Smh your list is quite scary how did you survived all those stuff

I ask myself same. and I skipped some o.

Africa mom's with their unfriendly disciplines chaii

Well, I hope that has make you a better person and a strong man too

delishpot:


Unfortunately ke? Pkease you were fortunate i. I wish I did not experience any too. I was a very good child but my mom thought otherwise. A crime as simple as forgeting to take in clothes or some clothes when it rains will bring out the cane, a crime such as forgeting to wash my socks, will bring out the cane, a crime as easy simple as being carried away by play and forgeting to greet moms friend, will bring out the cane. I lived in fear. It destroyed me. But in my late 20s I decided to take charge of my life. I know she did what she did cos she did not know any better not out of hate. She wanted the perfect child. But who amongst us is perfect?

Was I the only one flogged with wires?

delishpot:


I ask myself same. and I skipped some o.

pele

Now that you know that those methods are not good, please, don't use it on your kids o.
Thank God we now know better, we now know that kids should not be exposed to violence and abuse.

@op, nails pinching and carrying of grinding stone while kneeling down.

If really those stuff you mentioned above, were use on you!. Then I have no doubt of you being a strong and fearless person by now

Not like me))) am scared of many things

delishpot:


I ask myself same. and I skipped some o.

pinkycute:
Africa mom's with their unfriendly disciplines chaii

Well, I hope that has make you a better person and a strong man too

it did not. Naturaly I was a good person. Never stole, never cheated was obidient was dependable never drank never had bad friends, never even went to visit friends, i loved to read, loved nature was baby sitting ny sibblibgs and was ready to share with the less fortunate. I learned more by what I saw her do than what she tried to force me to do. So yes, her actions ( she was a good advicer, she was good at sharing, she was reliable, she was hard working, she was kind to tge needy. Our house was like a camp, any needy person could come and be fed and have a litening ear and some words of encoragement from mom and dad. Those were the teaits that I took from tHem. that was how I learnt that kids learn from how the parent behaves and lives normaly and not what the parent insists the child does.

I'm a survivor.

Wires

Ooh babe, I hope you didn't sustained any marks on ur body

misscastle:
Was I the only one flogged with wires?

pinkycute:


If really those stuff you mentioned above, were use on you!. Then I have no doubt of you being a strong and fearless person by now

Not like me))) am scared of many things

not really o. Me I be gentle man. I no like wahala. Like I said, I never was naturaly troublesome. I can pack out of a place to let peace reign. My mama tell me say................I nor gree sabi tear cloth.........on the other hand ............ ok, I don hear! sabi stop blood shed.

No weapons used in our household.They used their hands.I was raised by Mr & Mrs E-Honda

misscastle:
Was I the only one flogged with wires?

fuvk! Wire?! Mehn your folks are something else o

None.

Wowwwww that's cool....

delishpot:



it did not. Naturaly I was a good person. Never stole, never cheated was obidient was dependable never drank never had bad friends, never even went to visit friends, i loved to read, loved nature was baby sitting ny sibblibgs and was ready to share with the less fortunate. I learned more by what I saw her do than what she tried to force me to do. So yes, her actions ( she was a good advicer, she was good at sharing, she was reliable, she was hard working, she was kind to tge needy. Our house was like a camp, any needy person could come and be fed and have a litening ear and some words of encoragement from mom and dad. Those were the teaits that I took from tHem. that was how I learnt that kids learn from how the parent behaves and lives normaly and not what the parent insists the child does.

delishpot:




not really o. Me I be gentle man. I no like wahala. Like I said, I never was naturaly troublesome. I can pack out of a place to let peace reign. My mama tell me say................I nor gree sabi tear cloth.........on the other hand ............ ok, I don hear! sabi stop blood shed.

i never grow finish and all of them don hit me Even Undertakeer's rest in peace

You remind me of those days I was ugly and stubborn, any day that pass by without being a victim of one of those object either by my parent, uncle and aunt is a better day.




Hmmm, now I see the usefulness of those object, with it I become responsible by force.











Special thanks to my dad that do not take any shi't from me

misscastle:
Was I the only one flogged with wires?

You re not alone.....

@op, all of d above nd many more...

delishpot:
The ones I survive nor dey there

Turn garri
Koboko
Pkankere
Guava branch
Hot backhand slaps
Bottom of cooking pot
And many more.

u re a survivor bro... ur immune system go strong die

None, but one dreaded stuff like dat, awo ese, i think its an animal skin. It has a special drawer where my pale always keep the stuff. Any time he comes back from work and we here the sound of that drawer, in our litle minds, we'll be like: yee, our own done beee.

My aunt has one punishment like that, , she'll tell u in yoruba, (lo kan ogiri niko) go and start knocking d walls and i want to be hearing d knocks wherever i am. Ull knock until ur knuckles are weak and ull be feeling sores. My yonger ones were always getting shouts and rakings from from us after the knocks. Funny old times.

My mum was fond of using my dad's belt. (Police belt) and the iron belt can paralyse the body within 1sec.

We eventually got used to it and it also made me stronger.

Iyalasisi:
u re a survivor bro... ur immune system go strong die

Lol. Yes o. E strong die. Thanks to Good food