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10 Signs He Wants To Marry You by harmeyd: 1:32pm On Mar 09, 2015
10 Signs He Wants to Marry You: Put Him to the Test:
Do you think your man might be considering popping
the big question? Here are some signs he wants to
marry you and will be buying that ring soon. It’s no
secret, women have strong intuition and we can usually
sense what our partner is thinking. If you suspect he’s
thinking about marriage, you are probably right.
Sometimes it’s hard to tell what men are thinking
though, especially when it comes to commitment. If he
is doing any of these 10 things, you might be closer to
walking down the aisle than you think. If you have been
dying to know if he’ll take the plunge but don’t want to
make him feel pressured, just look for signs he wants
to marry you. The proof is in the pudding. These 10
signs can help you navigate where you stand in his
mind, even without him telling you. If he is doing these
things you can be pretty sure he’s taking the
relationship seriously. No one likes to be with a guy
who won’t commit, so don’t! If he is dragging his feet
and not treating you like a queen, find someone who
will. 1. Investing in your future Has he offered to help
you buy a car or pay for higher education? Maybe he’s
offered to pay off your debt or help you consolidate
debt. If he is starting to look to the future when your
finances will be joined, chances are he’s not going to
think twice about making investments that will benefit
your future life together. If he asks for your opinion
when making big purchases, it is a good sign he sees
you both enjoying his new purchases together. If he
has got you a really nice piece of jewelry lately, he
might be testing the waters so to speak in order to see
your response. Remember, guys don’t want to be
rejected when they pour their heart out and their
entire life is on the line with the power of your one
word: ‘yes’ or ‘no’. Why not get a house magazine, a
travel magazine or a parenting book. I mean don’t freak
him out, but give him signs that you’re ready so he can
feel more comfortable. As you do the pre engagement
dance, you will start to change as you think about what
your life together will be like and what you want it to be
like. When you begin planning, he will also begin to
pick up on the signs, so that’s a good thing. 2. Planning
vacations together Here’s a sign that he’s taken a strong
interest in you. If he’s planning vacations with you and
his family or closest friends, he’s taking you pretty
seriously. Even if it’s just the two of you but you can tell
he is really trying to impress you, get to know you and
get closer, it’s a pretty big sign my friend. Okay,
planning in general is a sign he’s up to something. Have
you noticed if he has been more frugal lately, is he
saving up to buy you a ring maybe? Did he plan a
vacation to a romantic location where he might be
thinking of asking you? Is he buttering you up like a
thanksgiving ham so he can stick you in the marriage
oven? Sounds delicious, doesn’t it? 3. He wants to work
out your differences When a guy goes the extra mile to
try to improve communication and maybe suggests
couples therapy, this is a sign he wants to make it
work. If he is making an effort to see your perspective
or has curtailed some of the behaviors that get under
your skin, maybe he is growing up and planning your
future as a happy couple. If he has softened up
recently, he might be warming up to the idea of
forever. Is he letting go of things that used to really
make him mad? In that case, he must be doing some
deep thinking. If he has made an effort to be nice to
your friends that you know he doesn’t like that much,
he is probably trying to impress you. When a man,
simply put, starts acting like a man and less like a child,
it’s definitely on purpose. A man cannot act without
motivation and if he’s been looking in the mirror
recently and getting in touch with his inner truth, you’ll
know something is up. If you’re reading this article and
things are ringing a bell, congratulations, he might be
about to change your whole life. It might be time to
break open the champagne and call Aunt Mindy pretty
soon (she’s the one you never talk to, but feel
compelled to call just to tell her you’re getting
married). 4. He can’t get enough of you Does he invite
you over every night? Has he talked about moving in
together? Has he been spending an inordinate amount
of time with you? Chances are he is smitten and
thinking about the next step. If you’ve been together for
a while, at least six months, chances are he’s thinking
about it, even if he hasn’t mentioned it. If he keeps
choosing to hang out with you over his friends, he
might be ready to take the plunge. If he is showering
you with compliments and seems really happy, this
man is most likely very satisfied with you and thinking
about that big decision. Has he put pictures of you
everywhere, in his wallet and at his office? Does he call
you and text you a lot? Does he ask to have dates and
surprise you with fun things? When a guy is really
excited about you, he won’t be able to stop. They aren’t
that good at hiding it. 5. He introduces you to everyone
he knows Here’s a big sign. Has he introduced you to
all of the people that are important to him? This
includes best friends, coworkers, and family. If he’s not
ashamed of your relationship and he’s making sure
everyone knows you guys are an item, chances are
you’ve got yourself a committed man that will be on his
knee in not too long. You’ll pick up on how he’s
behaved in the past; maybe you’re the first one he has
introduced to everyone. Guys are usually very cautious
about bringing girls into the circle of trust. But when
you’re in, it’s a big sign he loves you. Pay attention to
how he introduces you. What did he say, does he
compliment you, and is he proud of you? Does he hold
your hand in front of them? This man wants to literally
hold onto you until death do you part. 6. Meeting the
parents Guys are funny creatures. Some of them will
bring their parents on their first date (yes I’ve seen this
happen), some guys will introduce you to their parents
within the first week of dating, and some guys are
more protective and wait for a while. Whatever the
case may be, if he’s introduced you to his parents, this
is a sign that he’s serious about you. If he had cold feet
about meeting your parents and suddenly warmed up
to the idea like it was no big deal, this man’s mind has
changed. Is he asking to meet your parents and
siblings? Is he asking what your parents like, trying to
get to know them and get on their good side? Is he
trying to score brownie points? If you’ve never been
married before, you might not even realize what you’re
walking into when a man gets serious about the
relationship. Don’t think he’s just being nice because
likes you. A man will not embrace a woman’s family
unless he’s thinking they are going to become his
family. 7. Looking at houses Has he become obsessed
with looking at houses recently? If so, he might be
thinking about wedding bells my dear. Usually guys
don’t buy houses with girls they aren’t serious about. If
he’s looking at them with you, he’s probably planning
on living in one with you. Is this getting you excited?
Getting nervous? Has he started talking about furniture
or mortgages? Has he been obsessed with figuring out
the job that will offer you both a great lifestyle? Has he
been talking about or looking over “figures” a lot? He’s
got nuptials on his mind if he’s plotting to nest. 8.
Talking about children Yes, this is a big one too. If he
keeps bringing up how he wants to be a dad or what a
great mom you would make, his mind is in the future
and he sees you guys starting a family. If you have
noticed him commenting on babies or talking about
friend’s kids, this man’s primal instincts are kicking in;
he’s looking long term. Now, if you’re shopping, and he
takes a turn into the kid section, you can almost
guarantee his mind is scheming. Has he bought any
self-help books recently? When men are thinking about
becoming fathers, they often try to better themselves
and prepare. For that matter, when they are getting
ready for marriage, they will often do that as well.
Maybe he dropped a bad habit, cleaned up his diet,
started an exercise plan or made an effort to get a
better paying job. If he has become more responsible
lately, he might be thinking about settling down. 9. He’s
really open with you When a man becomes vulnerable,
it’s a good sign. If he has suddenly begun to share
embarrassing moments, feelings, and other sensitive
things, he might really have serious plans with you.
When a man trusts you, he behaves differently. He lets
his guard down and is more of his goofy self.
Remember to be sensitive to him as he opens up, so he
doesn’t feel like you’re going to attack him if he does let
his guard down. Try not to judge him, and see him as a
fellow human that is learning life lessons and doing the
best he can. 10. He’s extra attentive Have you noticed
him being extra nice to you recently? Has he been
noticing when you change your hair or complimenting
you on your outfits? Has he offered to take you out to
dinner and gotten you flowers. Maybe he’s stopped
leaving a mess in the living room or made sure to put
down the toilet seat. When a man starts being a
gentleman and stops being a boyfriend, he’s thinking
seriously about something. Has he become more
supportive of your ideas or asked you about your
goals? Why is he evaluating your five year plan? What is
he trying to figure out? If you sense that your guy is
trying to see if your goals line up, this guy is sizing up
wife material. If he’s not doing any of these things, it
doesn’t mean he isn’t serious about you. Only you can
know for sure. If you’re wondering, I don’t think there’s
anything wrong with just asking. If you do want to
marry this man, you want to be able to be open about
your feelings anyway, right? If you’re so curious, just
see what his thoughts are. What if you never asked and
you spent years with someone just trying to ‘read the
signs’ and not wanting to scare him off. Maybe he’s not
looking for marriage and you can save yourself the
heartache early on. Don’t pressure him by saying
something like ‘when do you want to get married?’ but
see if it’s something he’s considering. Open and candid
relationships have the best chances of making it. Don’t
be afraid to speak up and be open. When you feel his
energy turned towards you, you will know something is
up. If he is remembering what you say, listening
intently and cancelling fantasy football with his buddies
so you can have a movie night, this man has a ring on
his mind. If you know someone who could benefit from
this article, do them a favor and pass it along. I would
love to hear feedback from you amazing women, and I
thank you for being a part of the Aquavibes Blog
community. FOR YOUR MARRIAGE, LOVE AND
RELATIONSHIP ADVICES..

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Re: 10 Signs He Wants To Marry You by CloneX: 1:34pm On Mar 09, 2015
Are paragraphs that expensive that you can't afford them?

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Re: 10 Signs He Wants To Marry You by Hazardd(m): 1:37pm On Mar 09, 2015
o boy, you attend primary school at all...
Arrange this your copy and paste wella na sad
Re: 10 Signs He Wants To Marry You by adanduka: 1:49pm On Mar 09, 2015
Pleaseee edit wella.
All but No 4 embarassed
Re: 10 Signs He Wants To Marry You by iceberylin(m): 1:50pm On Mar 09, 2015
Cant see nothing sad
Re: 10 Signs He Wants To Marry You by Nobody: 2:02pm On Mar 09, 2015
This is good. So chiboy was about to propose before I ran away? shocked
Re: 10 Signs He Wants To Marry You by Nobody: 2:05pm On Mar 09, 2015
NONE of the above undecided
Re: 10 Signs He Wants To Marry You by maryam6(f): 2:16pm On Mar 09, 2015
dovelike:
This is good. So chiboy was about to propose before I ran away? shocked
funny babe, u gat me rolling.
Re: 10 Signs He Wants To Marry You by Nobody: 2:23pm On Mar 09, 2015
maryam6:
funny babe, u gat me rolling.
grin. But I think the OP is giving guys a new way to deceive girls into thinking that they want to marry them.
Re: 10 Signs He Wants To Marry You by Nobody: 2:23pm On Mar 09, 2015
Am coming
Re: 10 Signs He Wants To Marry You by snowhyt(f): 3:17pm On Mar 09, 2015
paragraphing would do this post some good.
@op, i have a frnd who's a big time player and he does all these for his balls (girl friends) including introducing them 2 his family members (his parents are even tired of him) and yet he has no intention of getting married 2 any of them.

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