gentle1010:
I'm 29, in love and have been dating a lady of 25, we met during our NYSC, we love each other and plan to get married. The problem here is that I've not gotten a job but I've been making little money through my hard work as a technician, both in computer and electrical, I got her a small job where she earns 20k, rent house for her and still manage to give her small small money for her up keep. I give her all the natural respects a woman deserves. The problem now is that she doesn't respect me, she take me for granted, doesn't care about how I feel. If she offend me and I try to talk to her about that, she'll ignore me to the core. I'm confused, I don't know what is happening and I've built my life all around her. Please advice me on what to do

Cutehector:
Take her to a nice restaurant, buy her a good food or u can take her somewhr nice, den later bleep her and just after, tell her to get out of ur house.

Cutehector:
Take her to a nice restaurant, buy her a good food or u can take her somewhr nice, den later bleep her and just after, tell her to get out of ur house.

handsomeness:


Calm down. Calm down

OGAofBOSS:
Rape Alert 101!

Cutehector:
quiet.

Cutehector:
what insolence she chop winch? After all d guy did for her, if na me I go gang rape am. Nonsense.

handsomeness:

Hahahahahaha
Guy, but sincerely, do you think the girl is after the money? Abi ungrateful?

gentle1010:
I'm 29, in love and have been dating a lady of 25, we met during our NYSC, we love each other and plan to get married. The problem here is that I've not gotten a job but I've been making little money through my hard work as a technician, both in computer and electrical, I got her a small job where she earns 20k, rent house for her and still manage to give her small small money for her up keep. I give her all the natural respects a woman deserves. The problem now is that she doesn't respect me, she take me for granted, doesn't care about how I feel. If she offend me and I try to talk to her about that, she'll ignore me to the core. I'm confused, I don't know what is happening and I've built my life all around her. Please advice me on what to do

Cutehector:
Take her to a nice restaurant, buy her a good food or u can take her somewhr nice, den later bleep her and just after, tell her to get out of ur house.

izaray:
Cha!!!...See advice, bros u bad oohh

Cutehector:
she is highly ungrateful.

georgementday:
Are u sure she is not seein someone else?

Cutehector:
she is highly ungrateful.

izaray:
Dis guy d vex, bros calm down ok, dat's woman for you. U can never predict dem, no matter how she claimed to be nice to her man. I sense she is seeing another guy somewere. Let d poster call her inorder and sought things out.

rokiatu:
Whip some sense in her brain, show her who's boss. Am not asking you to beat her, but beat her emotionally. Love is nothing without respect.

No matter how much you love a woman don't allow disrespect.

gentle1010:


Frankly speaking I excluded so many things in that post because I'm too ashamed of myself. I help her wash her clothes some times, cook for her or help her cook. That same job I got for her I back her up too, I don't let work to be much on her, I help her almost in everything, emotionally and otherwise. I pleaded with her to tell me she is tired if she is than maltreating me.

gentle1010:


Frankly speaking I excluded so many things in that post because I'm too ashamed of myself. I help her wash her clothes some times, cook for her or help her cook. That same job I got for her I back her up too, I don't let work to be much on her, I help her almost in everything, emotionally and otherwise. I pleaded with her to tell me she is tired if she is than maltreating me.

rokiatu:
I understand. Some women mistake a men's love and care for weakness. You just have to man up stand up to her. She gotta respect you or go seriously.


Here's an advice from a woman to you, never ever show a woman that without her you can't live. Love her but also show a different side of yourself to her. The part that don't tolerate bullshIiiiiiiiiiiit. ..I.


Don't let a woman ride on you like this mate, its a shame to your manhood. She should treat you the way she wants to be treated simple as that.

gentle1010:


Frankly speaking I excluded so many things in that post because I'm too ashamed of myself. I help her wash her clothes some times, cook for her or help her cook. That same job I got for her I back her up too, I don't let work to be much on her, I help her almost in everything, emotionally and otherwise. I pleaded with her to tell me she is tired if she is than maltreating me.

gentle1010:
I'm 29, in love and have been dating a lady of 25, we met during our NYSC, we love each other and plan to get married. The problem here is that I've not gotten a job but I've been making little money through my hard work as a technician, both in computer and electrical, I got her a small job where she earns 20k, rent house for her and still manage to give her small small money for her up keep. I give her all the natural respects a woman deserves. The problem now is that she doesn't respect me, she take me for granted, doesn't care about how I feel. If she offend me and I try to talk to her about that, she'll ignore me to the core. I'm confused, I don't know what is happening and I've built my life all around her. Please advice me on what to do