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Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by delaice(m): 4:54pm On Jan 15, 2009
dappssee:

You must be really stupid. Just because I omitted an apostrophe between y and s. Pity the man who will end up calling you his wife. Bitch!

This is one of the reasons I love Nairaland.

Umm I don't think thats what she is talking about. I think what she was talking about is that she did not accuse the poster of cheating but rather the poster's girlfriend of cheating on another.

Of course I might be wrong.
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by alfchye(m): 4:59pm On Jan 15, 2009
My Friend , I think u are more than Crazy.Who will talk that from a girl.In front of you, she has the courage to tell sum1 I lov U.
 I pity for u.The next time na bed u go see am with the guy dey do papa and mama sumthing
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by DaPhoenix(f): 5:02pm On Jan 15, 2009
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by Nobody: 5:03pm On Jan 15, 2009
delaice:

This is one of the reasons I love Nairaland.

Umm I don't think thats what she is talking about. I think what she was talking about is that she did not accuse the poster of cheating but rather the poster's girlfriend of cheating on another.

Of course I might be wrong.
What she meant was that she was cheating on the guy she said 'I love you too' to. This means the poster is a second fiddle. I think she really makes more sense when she's not thinking, typing or talking.
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by KarmaMod(f): 5:04pm On Jan 15, 2009
The fact that she forgave dosent mean you guys are back together

Exactly.

cheating ko. cheated ni.
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by smooooooth: 5:05pm On Jan 15, 2009
vodka:

woooohhh is that like a recurring fantasy of yours or what? like probly all guys are gays just about to discover themselves too(hiss)

no dear its not, guys were born straight, while ladies are born confused, thats why sometimes they want u to stick it in their mouth, then P***y, and some other time up their ass, they're not sure bout what or where they shld be getting it.( undiscoverd potential lesbians) tongue

guys that claim to be homo-sexuals on the other hand are just having a psychological problem  that needs to be correct.   sad
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by alfchye(m): 5:14pm On Jan 15, 2009
bluespice (f) Sapphic you guys should not insult the guy.If she has been saying I love to her friends and Brother why then would that reunion be his first time of hearing.
I think u girls really need to use ur brain here.
Not becos u are girls, u support urself.
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by sistawoman: 5:44pm On Jan 15, 2009
dappssee:

What she meant was that she was cheating on the guy she said 'I love you too' to. This means the poster is a second fiddle. I think she really makes more sense when she's not thinking, typing or talking.

But dumb ass that is exactly what i said.

My response had nothing to do with:

dappssee:

You must be really stupid. Just because I omitted an apostrophe between y and s. Pity the man who will end up calling you his wife. Bitch!

It had to do with your mis-interpation of what I was saying. Typical stupid, egotistical, "I must always be right", guy response above. Is this the same type of male that will drive around in circles instead of stopping to ask for direction? Instead of saying ur right sistawoman I mis-read what you wrote you deside to insult me and my husband. It appears that everyone else on the thread understood what i ment except for you.

B.T.W the man that calls me wife is proud to have a well educated, well behaved woman like me for a wife. And he would cut off your bleeping head for calling me a bitch.
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jan 15, 2009
sistawoman:

But dumb ass that is exactly what i said.

My response had nothing to do with:

It had to do with your mis-interpation of what I was saying. Typical stupid, egotistical, "I must always be right", guy response above. Is this the same type of male that will drive around in circles instead of stopping to ask for direction? Instead of saying ur right sistawoman I mis-read what you wrote you deside to insult me and my husband. It appears that everyone else on the thread understood what i ment except for you.

B.T.W the man that calls me wife is proud to have a well educated, well behaved woman like me for a wife. And he would cut off your bleeping head for calling me a bitch.


LMAO!
He'll cut my head off abi? Who did you marry? A butcher?
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by olanajim(m): 5:50pm On Jan 15, 2009
@ariblaze,
if he just overheard, then he would remember what she said last before the i love u 2. He can't just hear only one sentence of the dozens and base his judgement on that.
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by sistawoman: 5:51pm On Jan 15, 2009
dappssee:

LMAO!
He'll cut my head off abi? Who did you marry? A butcher?

If that is what you want to call him just before he sends your head flying across the room. tongue
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by Sapphic: 8:20am On Jan 16, 2009
alfchye:

bluespice (f) Sapphic you guys should not insult the guy.If she has been saying I love to her friends and Brother why then would that reunion be his first time of hearing.
I think u girls really need to use ur brain here.
Not becos u are girls, u support urself.

Who the heck is this retarded joker? angry Abeg, ma ti e ta si mi ra ra o. Kilo fe fa gbogbo jatijati yi? Okay it was another man she was telling that she loved. you and the poster can now do your worst. Na by force? Rubbish! angry angry angry
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by ariblaze(m): 9:04am On Jan 16, 2009
olanajim:

@ariblaze,
if he just overheard, then he would remember what she said last before the i love u 2. He can't just hear only one sentence of the dozens and base his judgement on that.


now you are assuming

moreso what what said before the i love you is pretty irrelevant

and am sure the guy aint dumb

if she was talking about a recipe for baking,or being escorted to the tailor

before she said that am sure the poster's hackles wont be raised

dont you agree?
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by olanajim(m): 9:21am On Jan 16, 2009
@ariblaze,
it will useless for me to agree or disagree with you on that. Let the poster clarify. He is reading the thread. Let him tell us what other things he heard before the I LOVE YOU words.
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by ariblaze(m): 9:34am On Jan 16, 2009
ngbo . . . . .mr poster try clarify

before me and the man with the mirrors get to it again


and yeah. . . . dont waste our time

as we selfishly try to out wit each other

in over a year long battle of wits wink
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by olanajim(m): 9:39am On Jan 16, 2009
And you, blazing words, will you send your woman packing he she say I LOVE U to someone on phone?
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by alfchye(m): 9:45am On Jan 16, 2009
Sapphic:

Who the heck is this retarded joker? angry Abeg, ma ti e ta si mi ra ra o. Kilo fe fa gbogbo jatijati yi? Okay it was another man she was telling that she loved. you and the poster can now do your worst. Na by force? Rubbish! angry angry angry

 Olosi Ti Ologbon.You are the one retarded here, I don't think the retarded home is filled now.They need to rush you there.Sum1 came for help you are  talking shit.Old woman when no wan grow.
  You sure got problem,I wonder how your guy take dey handle a big problem like you.The guy must be really tired and doesn't know how to say I no want do again.Bitch
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by ariblaze(m): 9:55am On Jan 16, 2009
i dont think i would wind up in that situation my good sir

as i intend to have seamless communication with her

thus if anything atall comes up, i wont hear it the way he did

i would be told by her

and unlike him, i would ask her immediately

i don't like that dying inside shit
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by JJYOU: 10:00am On Jan 16, 2009
something is not right here
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by olanajim(m): 10:05am On Jan 16, 2009
@ariblaze,
I trust you. Open and free. She will really enjoy you. No dull moments.
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by ariblaze(m): 10:12am On Jan 16, 2009
amen to that
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by ajaabi(m): 10:15am On Jan 16, 2009
The cardinal principle upon which relationships are built, sexual not exempted, is trust. If you dont trust somebody and do not have the strength to over look, then dont go out together.
Secondly, somebody once said that Nothing is worse than insecurity in an adult. Doesnt have to be old people only. If you are insecure about her. Stop dating.
Finally and most importantly, making inferences has never been known to help relationships. So also is making excuses for somebody else, though this is fairly better.
You cannot conclude that whoever she said "I love you too" to is having anything with her. It could be a close relative or a friend, with no strings attached.
[size=18pt]You either ask her and be ready for the lies (in case she still has feelings for you and the other person is actually an intimate friend) or keep quiet about it and never feel bothered. Move on with her.[/size]
Either way, note it and be vigilant.
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by Taken(m): 10:21am On Jan 16, 2009
Many of we guys are too emotional about these ladies, we need to pipe down and take things slowly.  Be in control of your emotions.
Always deal with any situation right there and then. If true love really existed between two people, cheating is out of the question.
What we have today is not love but fear and childishness.  

Hey my man, see "True love  = emotion + action" but where it exists, it is between two people.
These relationship things are very simple but why are we making it so difficult?
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by Taken(m): 10:23am On Jan 16, 2009
You dig?
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by Sapphic: 10:35am On Jan 16, 2009
alfchye:

  Olosi Ti Ologbon.You are the one retarded here, I don't think the retarded home is filled now.They need to rush you there.Sum1 came for help you are  talking shit.Old woman when no wan grow.
   You sure got problem, I wonder how your guy take dey handle a big problem like you.The guy must be really tired and doesn't know how to say I no want do again.Bitch

ROFLMAO. . . E wa wo Suegbe yi o. It is clear that your low self esteem is not the only problem you have. Ode Oshi. So because the poster has a problem, I am supposed to patronise him abi. Abeg take your life frustrations away from my front ojare. I do not have a duty to feel sorry for any wimp that comes here and because your own partner does not find you equal to the task does not give you the right to come here and start talking out of your 2 inch cock. . . Abegi comot for road jo. I like having conversations with intelligent people and not the village idiot. Suganmu buruku. . . Shiorr. angry
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by JazzFreak(m): 11:08am On Jan 16, 2009
@ Poster
You see what inconclusive gist dey bring.
Serious quarrel. shocked

Sapphic:

Who the heck is this retarded joker? angry Abeg, ma ti e ta si mi ra ra o. Kilo fe fa gbogbo jatijati yi? Okay it was another man she was telling that she loved. you and the poster can now do your worst. Na by force? Rubbish! angry angry angry

And this

alfchye:

Olosi Ti Ologbon.You are the one retarded here, I don't think the retarded home is filled now.They need to rush you there.Sum1 came for help you are talking shit.Old woman when no wan grow.
You sure got problem,I wonder how your guy take dey handle a big problem like you.The guy must be really tired and doesn't know how to say I no want do again.Bitch


Then this

Sapphic:

ROFLMAO. . . E wa wo Suegbe yi o. It is clear that your low self esteem is not the only problem you have. Ode Oshi. So because the poster has a problem, I am supposed to patronise him abi. Abeg take your life frustrations away from my front ojare. I do not have a duty to feel sorry for any wimp that comes here and because your own partner does not find you equal to the task does not give you the right to come here and start talking out of your 2 inch cock. . . Abegi comot for road jo. I like having conversations with intelligent people and not the village idiot. Suganmu buruku. . . Shiorr. angry

Your assumptions might be right wrong, in any case, confront her, ask then make peace with whatever outcome.
It's either your relationship waxes stronger or you part ways for good. Be bold Man ! ASK cool
Confirm, so my people for Nairaland go quench this fight.
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by olanajim(m): 11:46am On Jan 16, 2009
@aja,
that is good one.
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by desthan(m): 1:12pm On Jan 16, 2009
alfchye:

Olosi Ti Ologbon.You are the one retarded here, I don't think the retarded home is filled now.They need to rush you there.Sum1 came for help you are talking shit.Old woman when no wan grow.
You sure got problem,I wonder how your guy take dey handle a big problem like you.The guy must be really tired and doesn't know how to say I no want do again.Bitch

point of correction man, she not into guys but girls, right sapphic wink

@alfchye. take it easy with the ladies, they are our mothers, ok cool
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by maputu: 12:27am On Jan 17, 2009
, so i invited her over to my place some 10 days into 2009. , she received a phone call and when she was abt to hang up she said "i love also" to the caller. immediately, she looked at my face. , i hope she is not cheating on me cos i can't stand it.

did she agree to continue the relationship after u begged her & she came to ur place on the 10th of jan 2009?
was it "i love also" or "i love you also"? if its i love also, it could mean anything ranging from the person she spoke to saying he/she loves his/her lover & she replied "i love also" meaning she loves u also to she actually loves the guy.

only God can tell if anybody is cheating on anybody, whether man of woman, discuss the issue with her before it happens again. GOODLUCK.
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by alfchye(m): 1:40pm On Jan 17, 2009
You this SSSSSSSSSSSSSSAAAAAAAAAAAAPP I knew you had problems and sum1 has better take care of u before it goes out of hand.You are just one selfish bastard who will only care about herself.
I think your intelligency will lead u into great danger in future becos when u speak in public, i bet u.There will be lots of stone and pure water on u.
Ugly bitch.Onira nu.U don't even know what you want make for me.Wit ur pussy like well, I se the reason why you are a lesbian, becos u've got a well for a pussy with no elastic and u never get satisfaction from any male.
I think you will be needing motar hand to make u cum.
Na Thunder Go Fire Ur Generation, lmao grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by Sapphic: 3:34am On Jan 18, 2009
alfchye:

You this[b] SSSSSSSSSSSSSSAAAAAAAAAAAAPP [/b] I knew you had problems and sum1 has better take care of u before it goes out of hand.You are just one selfish bastard who will only care about herself.
I think your[b] intelligency [/b] will lead u into great danger in future becos when u speak in public, i bet u.There will be lots of stone and pure water on u.
Ugly bitch.Onira nu.U don't even know what you want make for me.

Abeg come back when you lose your embarrassing stutter. Kalokalo oshi. And while you are at it, brush up on your English. No wonder you are a frustrated noodle, everytime you open your mouth na only ibon dey come out. . . how do you expect any woman to give you the time of day? Your posting predominantly made no sense, so button it.

alfchye:

u never get satisfaction from any male.

This is the only sub-sentence in your whole post that did not lack merit. I am glad you understand as I have made no bones of the fact that I really never got satisfaction from any male. . . LMAO

alfchye:

Na Thunder Go Fire Ur Generation, lmao grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

You see where you have displayed your utmost stupidity? You have just cursed yourself and all other Nairalanders. You obviously do not know what a generation means. Come back when you recover from the "fire" that thunder attacked you with. Suegbe. angry
Re: After Settling Our Quarrel, I Got A Shocker by alfchye(m): 9:34pm On Jan 18, 2009
How good are u and this English lesson, why don't u go compete ur english lesson with Achebe's Daughter u bitch.I guess u are just one big loser, who goes about looking for a girl  to make up with.Why don't u look for a guy  instead of a girl.U know why because  you have a big well under your  thigh, No size of any dick will ever fill that cos its elastic has already been broken with too much candle stick TOM BOY.I sorry for u.You have a real long way to go.
  Go use ur English make money because that is what counts in this life.Stop being stupid.
  You been a lesbian doesn't mean you can't be reasonable okay.You are the boy here for ur girlfriend or fiancee, so Try to reason like a man and  quit being feminine because you are not.
  Fucking skank.

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