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Should I Tell Her? by Waladade4luv(m): 3:01pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
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Re: Should I Tell Her? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Anything u decide is fine. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by remsonik(f): 3:14pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Please tell her cos you are sitting on a keg of gunpowder waiting to boom!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Pinkiedearie(f): 3:15pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Tell her now that you're not yet married..let her make her choice..or risk saving the evil day till after marriage which might likely crash after fowl yansh open.. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by theunusualmoon(m): 3:15pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
We don't understand what you have written. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Evina(f): 3:17pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Did you cheat on your fiancee? Did you impregnate the lady when your fiancee was already in the picture? You have to let her know BEFORE you tie the knot. Except you want to wait till you are married and then tell her, but lie that you only just discovered about the pregnancy? Please don't consider the last option! It is NOT wise to start a marriage with dishonesty! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
yeaaah u shud tell ur fiance abt it…and juz be prepared the consequences tat might come along…but if she really loves u, she will accept u no matter wat... |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Redoil: 3:20pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
remsonik:babe relax the lady cant do anything or dont you know husband are scarce. Guy dont even bother telling ur fiancee if later she found out hevean will not fall. But if you tell her and she decided to take a wall then let her go. But you self why cant you keep ur peni.s in cheack |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Tallesty1(m): 3:21pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
If your two hands no bring problem for you, your two legs will. And if your two legs do not bring problem for you, your outstanding leg will.. This world sef. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Redoil: 3:21pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
KashyBaby:all these women talk dont forget the op is a man |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Nobody: 3:23pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
We all have secrets. You don't have to tell her. Not her problem. |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Redoil: 3:25pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Evina:@op dont listen to this women they talk like women and you are a man. Dont tell her even if she find out hevean will not fall and that is her cup of tea |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by mutter(f): 3:43pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
In my next life I am coming as a man. Is it not amazing how insignificant a child can be to a man. A man can be expecting one child and planning to marry another woman. A man does not need to care for a child. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by sluvy4tune(m): 5:15pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Just tell the lady you intend to spend the rest of your life with the truth This is an issue you can move ahead without clearing |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Waladade4luv(m): 6:00pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
sluvy4tune:Bros Abe shed more light do u mean I can keep mute on the issue for life |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Waladade4luv(m): 6:06pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
[quote author=Evina post=31521363]Did you cheat |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Waladade4luv(m): 6:10pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Redoil:Brother na d handiwork of the devil winks |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Waladade4luv(m): 6:12pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Pinkiedearie:Am very sure this kind of lady will do everything possible to keep her marriage.. Its just all about conscience . |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Waladade4luv(m): 6:25pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Evina: But u as a lady if ur boyfriend/fiancee /husband tells u that what will be your reaction or aw will u feel |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by hidee20(m): 7:01pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
mutter: hmmm.sis,everyone has his/her own cross to bear or what do u make of a man working his ass of sponsoring his children(he might not be present physically with them compare to their mother for this reason) but as soon as the children start making money b4 they give their father #5 they would hav satisfy their mother or a man dying (more widow than widower)not too long his first two or three children graduated leaving only their mother to eat the fruit of their(husband n wife) hard labour. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by davidbanner(m): 7:38pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
it's better u do the right things now so that nemesis won't catch up with u..... |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Waladade4luv(m): 8:14pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
davidbanner:Nemesis like.. .. |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by ladej(m): 12:36am On Mar 14, 2015 |
mutter:like u have a choice how u will come to this world. Lol |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by ireneidiva(f): 5:38am On Mar 14, 2015 |
Redoil:Men are not scarce! Good men are scarce rather! And does the op sound like a good man to you? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by 5minsmadness: 6:37am On Mar 14, 2015 |
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Re: Should I Tell Her? by Redoil: 6:44am On Mar 14, 2015 |
ireneidiva:NO |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by 5minsmadness: 6:46am On Mar 14, 2015 |
Op I don't think you love this girl. You are just being selfish. Probably she has some material thing or whatever that you are attracted to and want to gain from, otherwise you wouldn't be with her. You already lied about your age knowing well that if you told her the truth she might not continue with the relationship. You lied until you were sure she was deep into you and had feelings for you before you told her the truth. That is selfish and manipulative. Now in that same year you met with and impregnated another lady. And now you want to also keep this from her probably until you guys get married so that it will be more difficult for her to leave you. Your child will always remain your child and the truth will come out one day and how will she feel then? You don't really care about this girl, all you care about is yourself and what you can get from the relationship. If you really love this girl then you would tell her everything about you, the whole truth. Let her know what she is in for. And if she still stays then you know your love for each other is real and you can weather any storm together. But if you hide this in a bid to 'trap' her until it's too late, ruining her life in the process and making her carry a cross for the rest of her life for something she never planned for, then I'm sorry but you are a scumbag and not a real man. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by smartigo: 9:40am On Mar 14, 2015 |
^^^^ You have said the truth. The poster is a manipulative fellow who isn't sure about his worth to win her love but want to trap a lady. You may trap her to marry u but believe me she may cheat on you later and justify her actions . So bro, build ur marriage on honesty since she had asked to know. |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by kliq(m): 12:56pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Unfaithful random sampler I hail o Tell her! |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Nobody: 2:43pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
That you even have to question it is quite absurd. ![]() Of course, you should tell her! 5minsmadness:Great reply. Totally agree with you. |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
ireneidiva:I laugh when people talk of husband scarcity. Na good men dey scarce. Not something to make every Tom, dick and harry proud. A peni.s doesn't make a man sef. plenty Boys roaming about as men. |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Nobody: 10:43am On Mar 21, 2015 |
mutter:The tone I get from this post is that men are uncaring and selfish. I wager women are the totally uncaring and selfish sex. You see, women are capable of the extreme. Where one woman is throwing herself under the bus to save her child from being run over, another woman is dumping her baby down the pit latrine. A man will likely do neither, because he is sane, logical. Doesn't make the child insignificant to him. |
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