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The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In A Girlfriend by ShutdownBrown24(m): 12:30pm On Mar 17, 2015 |
http://www.naijabiggists.com/2015/03/the-top-10-qualities-men-are-secretly.html What makes the perfect girlfriend? Is she the girl next door with gorgeous good looks and double-Ds? Well, not exactly. Contrary to what you might think, most guys aren’t looking for a supermodel. They’re just looking for their perfect match: a woman who’s down-to-earth, sweet and sensitive to his needs. Here are ten attractive traits that every man keeps in mind when deciding if the woman (ie. you) sitting across the dinner table from him at that first date is girlfriend material. 1. Confidence Take it from the guys, nothing is sexier than a woman who’s comfortable in her own skin. If you’re guilty of meekly asking lines like: “Does this skirt make my thighs look fat?” … stop asking. If you’re constantly needing his reassurance that you’re beautiful, he may start asking questions himself. 2. Intelligence Acting like a bimbo loses it’s novelty to men after high school. What men want in a girlfriend is a woman who can stand as his equal. So be the smart, savvy woman you are! To him, it’s a total turn-on. 3. Unmaterialistic Yes, he wants to be your knight in shining armor. And yes, he wants to treat you like the princess you are … but that doesn’t give you license to act like one. Allow him the luxury of treating you with romantic dinners and surprise baubles without having to demand them of him. He’ll be relieved that he doesn’t have to try so hard and surprisingly, this will inspire him to rise to the occasion when he doesn’t have to dedicate his whole paycheck to lavish tokens of his love for you. 4. Spontaneity One of the first things to go in a relationship is the spontaneity. You get stuck in your Friday night dinner dates and you lose that spark you had when you first started dating each other. Don’t lose it! Men love a woman who can do things spur-of-the-moment (like grabbing him by the shirt collar and pulling him into the bedroom before he goes to work for some morning fun?). 5. Laid-Back What’s one of the best things you can do for your relationship with him? Relax. Just relax. When you come home from a long, hard day at work and see those dishes piling up in the sink, we know you have the urge to lash out at him. Instead, try to let it go for the night. No man likes a nag and every man likes a woman who can let her hair down and doesn’t sweat the small stuff. We’re not saying to just kick back and bro out with him, but a relationship is solid when you’re able to relax with each other. 6. Playfulness Guys like a girl who laugh at their jokes, but isn’t mindless and isn’t always serious about everything. Just as we mentioned that men like a woman who can forgo nagging him about the dishes, they like a woman who can joke about the dishes too. Biting remarks and snappy comebacks are just the witty repartee to keep the spark between you in your relationship. And hey, isn’t laughter the best aphrodisiac? 7. Sensuality We’ve already mentioned before that it’s not all about your looks (albeit, that’s a good motivator for some men) — it’s more about an air of sexiness and confidence that will draw his eyes to you when you enter the room. Embrace your femininity. Ditch the sweatpants for date night and take the extra ten minutes to pull the LBD from the back of your closet. You shouldn’t feel pressured to strut around the bedroom in lingerie and high heels like a Victoria’s Secret angel every night, but you should feel comfortable in your own sexuality… and expressing that sensually to your man. 8. Honesty If he can’t trust you — how can he ever see you as his girlfriend … and eventual spouse? Keep things open and honest in your relationship. A little white lie over flirty texts with an old guy friend from college can spiral out of control very quickly into a full-blown fight … and breakup. 9. Independence Dating a driven, passionate woman? So hot. Babysitting a stage five clinger? Not so much. No man wants a girlfriend they have to reassuringly text, call or visit every five minutes. Give him his poker night with the boys. Let him go golfing on a weekend. Learn to give your guy his space — or he may break up with you to get it. 10. Supportive As clichéd as it is, some men want to be caretakers… but even the strongest of men want a soft place to fall. He wants to know that you’ll support him and stand by him in his life choices, whether it’s changing careers or moving to a new city. Show your support in small gestures with a quick “I love you” text when he heads off for his morning commute and listen to him after a hard day’s work. Be supportive — but not suffocating. The last thing you want is to remind him too much of his mother. http://www.naijabiggists.com/2015/03/the-top-10-qualities-men-are-secretly.html 1 Like |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In A Girlfriend by madridguy(m): 12:31pm On Mar 17, 2015 |
Lord, teach me to be patient, and prepare me for the woman You have in mind for me. Remove my feeling of loneliness of being single and surround me with the company of those who care about me. Comfort me from the pain from broken hearts and unsuccessful relationships. Show me what I did wrong so that I don't repeat my mistakes. Help me to make better decisions from the choices I am given in life. Help me preserve my sexual purity until my wedding day. Shield me from all temptations and evil and mold me into a strong, faithful servant. Help me resolve my past issues so that I may lead a new life. Help me break any bad habits that I may have and encourage me to make positive changes for myself. When the time is right, show the woman You have in mind for me. When we find each other, we will lift up our hearts to you O Lord, For you are the loving Almighty being who is worthy of being praised. In Your Holy Name, Amin. 1 Like |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:32pm On Mar 17, 2015 |
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Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In A Girlfriend by mabeni(m): 12:51pm On Mar 17, 2015 |
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Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In A Girlfriend by Mhizizzy(f): 12:54pm On Mar 17, 2015 |
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Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In A Girlfriend by Penssuwa(m): 1:56pm On Mar 17, 2015 |
Intelligence should come first. Never pray to have a feeble minded and dimwitted lady as a babe/wife. She will never understand you, always playing the victim even of her own crime. She wont be good at prioritizing, always pushing the irrelevants forward, believing the world revolves around her. |
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