Effective communication ameliorates your business, draws lots of useful friends to you and keeps you out of trouble. To learn it, master how to talk less.

Have a purpose of listening:
-Listen to ask question
-Listen to contribute your idea
-Listen to solve a problem
-Listen to learn
-Listen to imitate
-Listen to get informed

Master how to respond when someone hurts you:
-Don’t say: You are useless.
Say: You need to readjust your manners.
-Don’t say: Your aunty is a bad woman.
Say: Your aunty doesn’t care of how people feel about her action.
-Don’t say: I hate you!
Say: You make people dislike you!
Don’t say: He is corrupt.
Say: He doesn’t perform his duty effectively.
Don’t say: He is wrong.
Say: He doesn’t get it.

Master two formal ways of starting a discussion:
1. Ask a question:
-Does any one value a florist in this society?
-How long does it take to prepare two hours lecture in the conference?
-Will our meeting hold tomorrow?
-Does Goodreads offers free books?
-Do you have any idea about a French curriculum?
-How can I generate useful ideas from the main points?
2. Introduce a statement:
-Permit me to recount an incidence that occurred during last Wednesday’s conference…
-Let me explain how I passed through my last interview…
-Listen to what ensued when my wife saw me with my ex- …
-There is nothing better than a conflict in Marriage. Let me explain why…
-Imagine what happened to me in a conference hall while presenting a lecture…
-Let me explain how Nairaland Forum helps me improve my writing skills…
-To get familiar with internet, wait! Let’s discuss how you can start with Google Search Engine…

Master learning through the following resources:
-T.V Programs: watch debates, interviews and speculative T.V dramas.
-Radio Programs: listen to debates and religious discussions.
-Books: read plays and prose that contain narrative conversations.

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