iduzebaba:
it's not compulsory, it only shows courtesy as a gentleman

Cutehector:
Gvn her tfare shows dat u really appreciate her visit and u would like her to come again.

ivyT:



Exactly o
I nor know wetin dey worry op sef

rubey:
Stingy guys!

Leech ladies.

Gflat:
Is it

Like I had this girl who came over to my place for a visit(first time actually) then when she was living I decided to hold back just to check what her attitude would be...
Since then, she changed completely

ivyT:



Exactly o
I nor know wetin dey worry op sef

dmcdad:

No offence please, but I sometimes wonder how some of you think. Not like the op said he didn't know of what he ought to do or that he wasn't willing on an average day. He said he decided to hold back just to see or know what her reaction would be. Unfortunately, she failed woefully! And to change completely because of that (that is if what the OP said were true) means she ain't worth it!

Courtesy demands that a guy give a girl t-fare right? Good. But does that make it her right? Nope! Of course for a guy to do such means he appreciates your coming and all. That's great! But if he fails to do such, then a girl shouldn't take it otherwise. Sometimes you don't know how one's pockets are...

Besides, if it were the guy who visits, would the girl do same? Leave matter for Mathias jare.

Don't get me wrong, I am not against a guy doing such (it makes sense). Neither am I saying a girl should also give a guy who visits t-fare. Just saying you girls read excessive meanings to things and judge it out of context. It's a kind gesture from guys, and not a girl's right per se.

rubey:
Stingy guys!

ivyT:




K

7footre:
Of course you have to... if you have plans of getting to d promise land

profojah:

Why must you "K'' what make senses..the guy actually said the right thing and he neither support nor go against the OP's attitude..





You too K

Cutehector:
Gvn her tfare shows dat u really appreciate her visit and u would like her to come again.

profojah:

Why must you "K'' what make senses..the guy actually said the right thing and he neither support nor go against the OP's attitude..





You too K

ivyT:




K

dmcdad:

You mean like the Israelites getting to Canaan?

Frankenstein:
So when the guy visits the girl, she ought to pay for his transport back home to show her appreciation or does this analogy change when the scenario is reversed?

I wanna learn.

dmcdad:

No offence please, but I sometimes wonder how some of you think. Not like the op said he didn't know of what he ought to do or that he wasn't willing on an average day. He said he decided to hold back just to see or know what her reaction would be. Unfortunately, she failed woefully! And to change completely because of that (that is if what the OP said were true) means she ain't worth it!

Courtesy demands that a guy give a girl t-fare right? Good. But does that make it her right? Nope! Of course for a guy to do such means he appreciates your coming and all. That's great! But if he fails to do such, then a girl shouldn't take it otherwise. Sometimes you don't know how one's pockets are...

Besides, if it were the guy who visits, would the girl do same? Leave matter for Mathias jare.

Don't get me wrong, I am not against a guy doing such (it makes sense). Neither am I saying a girl should also give a guy who visits t-fare. Just saying you girls read excessive meanings to things and judge it out of context. It's a kind gesture from guys, and not a girl's right per se.

7footre:

You catch ma drift