thank seun

see, some times these parents just oppose , cos they want us dating thier heart desires, but what really matters is WHAT WE want,am also in a situation where ma spouse's father , doesnt want to hear the first letter of ma name, let alone ma full name.but it doesnt matter anymur, as long as i have HIM

i been listernin to Akon's "dont Matter"
and these lines "nobody wana c us 2gether but it dont matter , cos i got you,cos we gon fight for our right to love"

thank seun

Yes o. If one is not really to accept disapproval, then one should not ask for approval in the first place!

@ Seun,

Sorry about this. Next time don't ask your father whether he approves. Just invite him to the wedding.

Good idea, but you know what, it is not that simple. I pray I don't encounter such because it will be very difficulty to have to choose between family and husband. And if I have to choose, I guess I know where my loyalty will be. Also giving the extravagant naija wedding, family disagreeing might just be karma's way of helping me save money on a typical naija wedding, and my dream of a quiet wedding coming through.

BTW I know my family most def will not marry me, so if they say no, there better be an alternative. Whatever happens I pray I don't experience it sha.