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Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by mediachirps(m): 11:59am On Mar 24, 2015 |
Bizzle |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Truckpusher(m): 12:00pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
daviyjones:You're coward . Get yourself one and give her reasons either by crook or hook why she shouldn't misbehave or try to screw things up. #Teambepsychologicallytoughonwomen |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by DeRay98(m): 12:01pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
EroticAngelina: would you be one of his concubines? |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by tomsugar(m): 12:04pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
No law says u must marry so if u flll u re scared For ur own reason but u like to marry then you have to work on ur mind b4 u start the journey because its not a race but a journey, what am sure of is that there are lovely ladies out there so shine your eyes, and stop thinking like a player have passed this road b4. |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by freshcvvs: 12:05pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Raiders: Chai... people.. so being afraid of uncertainties in marriage means he's not matured for marriage? wetin person no go hear? 1 Like |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by jaybee3(m): 12:05pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
daviyjones:It's no big deal that you have a commitment phobia It's a big deal for you to conclude all women nag as that's a very wrong assertion. If the benefits of marriage isn't your cup of tea then please stay single as it's a free world at the end of the day 1 Like |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 12:06pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
1 change your mindset . if you think you'll meet a nagging woman or the wrong woman , then that's who you'll attract . 2. take your time to get to know a woman before thinking about marriage . the more you know someone the more comfortable you'll become . this is the only way you'll terminate this fear. 3 Likes |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Damikevin(m): 12:06pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
The term is Gamophobia or Anuptaphobia. Didn't even knw it had a scientific name. Even married men are scared of being married, talkless of you at 29. Its good you even know you fear. Some1 might not know, only to get married and feel like dying or running mad, before he probably start cheating, but on a serious note, you have not finish tasting all the tastables that's why. When u finally accept that sex with a fat, slim, average, dark skinned etc woman is all the same, sticking to one person with not look a sinister as it does now. 2 Likes |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by sisisioge: 12:08pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
;Dgive yourself more time...time will unscare you 1 Like |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 12:09pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
jaybee3:read and understand I said "what if" probability. 2 Likes |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 12:09pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 12:09pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
And thats why marriage is not in my plan on earth 2 Likes |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by reaky(m): 12:09pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
After dating many and flexing till eternity U want to settle down Who tell u say u fit? |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by duke3d(m): 12:10pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
D man is a JUUUUUU man jare. . . Oya no marry!!! is that what u want as reply? 1 Like |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Rockstar2014(m): 12:10pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
OP you don't need a soothsayer to tell you that you are not ripe for this journey chikena. 1 Like |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by senorova(m): 12:12pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Maybe it's just me ooo. But I'm beginning to feel that marriage is overrated! There's too much expectation before getting married and then during marriage, you begin to have second thoughts. I'm so loving my life as a Singleton right now.... Perhaps the best way to enjoy marriage, is to expect less and yet give more. 2 Likes |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by OBlaize(f): 12:12pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Now you know So you can breathe easy eh? quote author=daviyjones post=31941037] Wow!!! Mr you are unique. Marry your friend? That can work out ,you guys know each other well for years. Good one [/quote] |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by fanex: 12:15pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
eat a bullet. head that is more certain and less stressful daviyjones: |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by jaybee3(m): 12:15pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
daviyjones:Your thought process is/was already inclined to that angle Mr What if scenarios would have considered all characteristics good or bad before arriving at a decision You clearly considered the negatives and your reluctance was evidently as a result of that |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by UncleJudax(m): 12:16pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
daviyjones:Hmmm. I think that's not good enough reason not to get married. You can always walk if she morphs into an intolerable wife. |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 12:17pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by prettyrosiemua(f): 12:20pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
When u meet the right person, ur fear will go away cos u can't seem to get enough of that person's company. I had a friend in similar shoes. She was so scared of commitment until she met this guy. They're planning their wedding now 1 Like |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by tonero230(m): 12:25pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
EroticAngelina: Bad girl |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Nobody: 12:25pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
You possibly have a phobia for marriage or women. Seek for a psychologist who can help you out. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Burnnotice(m): 12:25pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
Bro two wrongs don't make a right....if its not in your plan doesn't mean you should make her erase it out of her plan' #nobadblood + #amnewhere starlingleanets: |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Vince77(m): 12:27pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
AgapeCharis:abi? |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by luyemee(m): 12:27pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
daviyjones:Have you tried living in the same house alone with her for sometime? |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by UncleJudax(m): 12:28pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
daviyjones:Did the president tell you that he has a nagging wife? She maybe overly outspoken...probably why he loves her because I think she is even childless. Explore and find out what you love in a woman...or your woman...and not how she comes across to others. 1 Like |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by beyonDskygirl(f): 12:31pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
You scared?? Then you don't have to marry, there are other things you can do like becoming a Rev. Fr. #Seriously# you need to overcome that fallacy of generalization.. Just because you saw few families with nagging wives doesn't mean that all women metamorphoses to same once they get married. There are some good women out there and some men would testify that they've changed from good to better... And to those pple who think they bought their wives with money, the ealier you change that philosophy the better for your marriage. Your wife is your friend, the closest person to you and not an acquired property. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by blackjack21(m): 12:32pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
daviyjones:[b] I don't understand what you're saying. What, if you are scared of switchroo character and, you're against divorce, why not just marry any woman that appeal and, is eyesome to you. If she got in and change murder her and, marry another woman. Continue until you find THE ONE. This advice applies to the ladies too. 12:32:01 Tue, Mar 24, 2015 |
Re: Am 29 And Am Scared Of Marriage! by Mishydoo(m): 12:40pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
[size=17pt] wateva u do... NEVER GET MARRIED! ITS A TRAP!!!... Don not let society pressure you...better to be single and happy. These married peeps all be looking for a way out an wishing dey still single!they wont tell u dat part [/size] 3 Likes |
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