LadyX:
He has already made up his mind not to be with you. There is nothing you can do about it. Just forget him and move on with your life.

dre11:


So tell me why I didn't understand it then

Missonas:
People be hammering on the ppart where she listened to her mum and paid for refreshment.The man is stingy and proud.Wants a child without paying her dowry.If her family or his had decided to help out would he have objected?No but cos its her he wants to pick on that why now, shey he's been collecting money frm her. That is not the reason why je called it off.he made his choice and its not her.Did he not also listen to brother?

dre11:



If he's not coming again let me know am ready for u. And I want to marry u

http://dailyindependentnig.com/2015/01/ended-relationship-days-wedding/

Venom104:


LoL.. sorry to disappoint you brother.. i wont come down to your level.. i see you are hungry for her attention, quote her instead..

Emmy157:

I like your post bro

johnsonjosbles:
but that beast will in no time comeback claiming he has realise his mistake,that goodlady should never acept him because it will be chaos and mahem if he repeat his wickedness.

kevinberry:

Well everybody with their lifestyle...

And the level of education the parents of the girl has attain also go a long way....

A learned parent should know that there is nothing good in throwing big parties...I will take it the girl parents are un learned...

naijaboiy:
Sometimes I refuse to believe we have men who are emotionally wicked.

After how many years? And you let a good woman go?

And then he had the guts to ask that they still be friends probably out of his guilty conscience.

That man is wicked

dre11:



Even learned parents love big parties.....
Those that hold society weddings.... Are they POOR parents

CityNG:


Because you aren't exposed to it.

LewisO:




[size=14pt]See how both of u are wasting space on FP, u ought to have leave that space for me na. [/size]

kevinberry:


Dude if read the story,you will see where the girl said that the guy was angry with her when she went ahead to pay for entertainment of guest after they have both discussed that there won't be such...simply because her mother is against her man decision...


This alone should warrant for a break-up. Because no man would want any lady that goes against his decisions... Just maybe the lady have been repeating such dirty attitude and the man has been warning her but she refuse to listen.... No man loves that type of woman...

dre11:



That's shows am a JEW man

kevinberry:


Then I will marry a white lady

They don't like big parties

HAPPY NOW !!!

Henix:
U read my mind, dat must hav been the root of the matter. Maybe the lady is an arrogant type, to hav done some thing contrary to a decision they had at home. A repeated act dat he was probably hoping she will change. Having a Submissive wife,is every man's dream. No one wants an arrogant wife who cant respect him. Even the girl's mother wanted an entertain, she never saw it as an act of disrespect to her husband? Well, she and her mother are now free to entertain the whole world with their "item 6"

Hussyhope84:
All of you are speaking like kids there must be a reason for his action such action can not be taken out of mere wickednes,there is someting she said that I dnt trust her on it,she said that she has been faithful throughout the relationship cos women this days are so unfaithful may be he uncovered such and quitely quit the relationship in order not to smear her image in any way for her own good.A guy in my area dump his bride a day to the weeding cos he caught her doing what we call in our area LAST-LAST with her EX what if she's not caught?

Holywizard:
am nt sure dat u're a marriage material

dre11:

M4gunners:
I still have some issues to clear with this Op first. You said you started dating him in 2010 which is 5 years now. At the end of the thread u mention her ex left him 3 years ago (Agatha ) please explain.

ijustdey:



from what I think..... he left the ex around 2011 and the real relationship BTW him and the guy kick up the following year when she went for service....


the 2010 is just the preamble relationship..... with nothing that serious



#just my opinion

patostation:


Thank God that not everyone is reasoning in a one way traffic! I remember a friend whose wedding is days away. The wife to be was in another city while the man was in Lagos. One day, he decided to travel by night bus to see her so that they can ratify a few matters. Guess what, my guy got there by 5.30am and behold, another man slept with her in her home. When my guy knocked, there was pandemonium in the the room. He went ahead to marry her but 3 months into the marriage, he discovered to his chagrin that she was still going to visit a second boyfriend in Lagos (he stumbled on recent love letters). No be person tell am to divorce the LovePeddler. It really cost him monetarily, emotionally and psychologically.

kevinberry:

Stingy stingy stingy
That what ladies always say...
Me personally prefer s simple weeding..not more than 50 attendant's..it not about being stingy,it about what I want....

ijustdey:



this should have being one of the pointers for her to suspect that the guy is not committed to the relationship because no matter how broke or struggling a responsible guy is.... he would still find some money to give at SOMETIMES and tell you to manage it..... not castigating you when you do ask for money