alberto2k:
This land is dedicated to GEJ ... beware of Apc and its supporters

maad man,u'l be suprise today.

prettydiva89:
of course why won't he beat you when your kid together is out of wedlock,why won't he take you for granted..
But that's a bad thing to do anyway

Shut up there!!!

Haven't you seen, read or heard of husband assaulting their wives before?

So women who got married in the church don't get battered. I rather be a baby mama than a divorcee. Whether u marry or not is not the bone of contention but say no to violence.

prettydiva89:
of course why won't he beat you when your kid together is out of wedlock,why won't he take you for granted..
But that's a bad thing to do anyway

Exactly.

This baby mama thing...most guys who are into this ''se'x without commitment''...see the child as the woman's way of trapping them....and preventing them from enjoying life.

Women....don't get pregnant for a man who has not yet paid the bride-price, and done other needful things. Because we men....and I am a man....like getting things for free. . It is up to you ladies to disabuse us of that motion(we men too also have to face the fact that there is no such thing as a free lunch...).

Sowi for d abuse.....if ds is true...den i wonder why d transformation...from going through things together to being a punching bag.....DEBOLA pele......

Very good for you. Intact he should have broken your head as a reminder for you.

This is a lesson for the rest of you girls out there who think moving in with a guy who isn't married to you is the right way to go.

The guy is free, discharger and acquitted. He may for the sake of his son consider some allowance for you.

Bulsh1t

goodmorning40:
Why were u comfortable with being a baby mama? So u can attract pity at a time like this, u sure do know this day was coming. In fact I have no pity for u

The point here if the story is real is to say no to violence against women in relationships. There are a lot of married women going through same horror daily in the hands of men who should be their protector.

That's why i always say "happiness is inevitable" money itself is not fit to get it at times. Ladies problem are paucity of fore-sight in marriage. May God deliver May d from his insanity acts, if truely d story is real....

sameer1212:
This is not politics section please.

bruh i know... no vess na space i just dey book

prettydiva89:
of course why won't he beat you when your kid together is out of wedlock,why won't he take you for granted..

What a foolish thing to say.

You're right, but I would advise that the so-called advise should come from a legally acceptable status(married) and not from a woman in an illegal or unauthorized relationship status..

ehinja:

The point here if the story is real is to say no to violence against women in relationships. There are a lot of married women going through same horror daily in the hands of men who should be their protector.

prettydiva89:
of course why won't he beat you when your kid together is out of wedlock,why won't he take you for granted..

But that's a bad thing to do anyway

Hypocrite! Only a virgin should make such comment. She and MayD indulged in pre-marital sex d same way I'm sure u indulged in pre-marital sex with ur boo. She eventually got pregnant and chose to keep the baby. U may have gotten pregnant as well, and may have chosen to terminate urs. Now u're here criticising her for having a baby outside wedlock, when u're no better. HYPOCRITE!

Quote me if u're a 'V'.

A very high number of women are being abused regularly in Nigeria they just don't talk about it until the beating becomes so bad that people no longer believe the lies they tell about the wounds they keep coming to work with or until a neighbour spreads the rumour to others or until its so bad that they end up dead or in a coma or maimed.
It affects women from all walks of life, from the top of the social ladder to the very poor at the grassroots.
Wife battery is an extremely and shockingly common thing in Nigeria.
Many men see women as their footmats and they don't hesitate to treat them as such. As soon as they get tired of the marriage or bored of it they stop seeing her as a companion or even as a human being and jump into using her as a punching bag every chance they get.
In the university, a number of our female lecturers were being abused at home, and these were educated and intelligent women.
In every place I've worked there is always a woman or women who suffer physical abuse at home, regardless of their status.
Aside that my friends also tell me stories of many women they know who suffer physical abuse.
The beasts they get married to beat up their wives to a stupor then run off to their girlfriends outside to treat them like gold and pamper them.

Nigerian men ain't shît.
Very useless people.

Audi alteram partem

chaz007:


Hypocrite! Only a virgin should make such comment. She and MayD indulged in pre-marital sex d same way I'm sure u indulged in pre-marital sex with ur boo. She eventually got pregnant and chose to keep the baby. U may have gotten pregnant as well, and may have chosen to terminate urs. Now u're here criticising her for having a baby outside wedlock, when u're no better. HYPOCRITE!

Quote me if u're a 'V'.

totorimi:
Very good for you. Intact he should have broken your head as a reminder for you.

This is a lesson for the rest of you girls out there who think moving in with a guy who isn't married to you is the right way to go.

The guy is free, discharger and acquitted. He may for the sake of his son consider some allowance for you.

Bulsh1t

The truth is they would never learn..how you lay your bed so you lie on it...na dem sabi

[size=14pt]Waiting for MayD reply on this.

...right now I won't judge-comment.

I'm sick and tired of all these attention seekers.[/size]

Passing by

jadesola24:
Sorry dear, I thinks that is just his own animal way of saying girls shouldn't stay with the guys they love come rain come shine but he failed cos love will always prevail....to even say I liked the guy it for his songs, am so disappointed.....that is if the allegation is true ooooooo

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Are you for real?...
She is the one with the battered face...
Not hard to spot a woman beater!

See proud title.: baby mama. What happened to wife? Not judging you sha

my sister its not having a kid out of wedlock that is the issue, even in marriage, some men are devils. i am so disappointed in MayD cus he only did one good musik with psqure

prettydiva89:
of course why won't he beat you when your kid together is out of wedlock,why won't he take you for granted..
But that's a bad thing to do anyway

prettydiva89:
of course why won't he beat you when your kid together is out of wedlock,why won't he take you for granted..
But that's a bad thing to do anyway

Well said.

It's amazing how the abnormal is being accepted as normal these days.

A woman frustrates the hell out of a man and the moment he retaliates and strikes her the whole world starts to cry for her.

It is obvious from many people's posts here and even the woman's post herself that she is an irresponsible annoying and unserious person.

For those of you saying it doesn't matter if she is married is it a responsible woman that will flaunt her babymama-ship? Why hasn't he married her after the so called 8yrs? If she saw he didn't want to marry her why didn't she move on? Would any of you allow your own young sisters be in such an undefined relationship? You all are hypocrites as well!

Ehe nah ...since all of una wan b wit Celebs,forgetting dat dia publicity Neva change dia personality,,, dance to d Beat of his music,,,buh MAYD u no try o!

God bless u

sehin79:
i just wonder why people condemn on here, does it matter if she as a child out of wedlock or not the fact is this gye is abusing this lady
and its not right,if he doesnt like her any more he has a choice to leave her just like she has a choice too, but beating her is just out of order
say no to domestic violence!!!

That is the price to pay for being a baby mama.
Since u pple thinkits trendy and Ok to be a baby mama that is what will befall u.
Thank God,u came out alive to say ur story.I feel for u.
These illegitmate children u pple bring into this world what r we going to call them.A child is legitimate if the parents are joined togeda by law or custom.That is they must be married but now its different,stupid girls just got about hanging around celebrities cos they want to answer babymama.

prettydiva89:
of course why won't he beat you when your kid together is out of wedlock,why won't he take you for granted..
But that's a bad thing to do anyway

yh, wanted to say the same. what type of life u wanted- the one u got. Am not saying that violence exist jst outside the wedlock. But, if he was cheating and u stayed with him 8 yeats, if u didnt manage to get married with him for 8 years- dont complain! Marriage doesnt stop career or smth so if he said that oh i need to do the carrer first etc- its a massive bullshit! So babymama its your own fault

Have you ever wondered why the same man that beat us wife won't go out to talk rubbish with another man? It's because he knows he might get beat up! So he does the smart thing by being polite or avoiding inciting or potentially violent situations with other men. Women should take a hint from this.

sehin79:
i just wonder why people condemn on here, does it matter if she as a child out of wedlock or not the fact is this gye is abusing this lady
and its not right,if he doesnt like her any more he has a choice to leave her just like she has a choice too, but beating her is just out of order
say no to domestic violence!!!

Dont u think she has right as well? If it is soooooo bad why she is staying?!

May D, that's so sad. Beating up a woman who not only spent 8yrs with you, but got a kid for you, and before then helped financially is wrong. I dont think I will ever buy your music because of this.

5minsmadness:
Have you ever wondered why the same man that beat us wife won't go out to talk rubbish with another man? It's because he knows he might get beat up! So he does the smart thing by being polite or avoiding inciting or potentially violent situations with other men. Women should take a hint from this.

what do u mean? That woman should keep silent when beating by a man?

5minsmadness:


Well said.

It's amazing how the abnormal is being accepted as normal these days.

A woman frustrates the he'll out of a man and the moment he retaliates and strikes her the whole world starts to cry for her.

It is obvious from many people's posts here and even the woman's post herself that she is an irresponsible annoying and unserious person.

For those of you saying it doesn't matter if she is married is it a responsible woman that will flaunt her babymama-ship? Why hasn't he married her after the so called 8yrs? If she saw he didn't want to marry her why didn't she move on? Would any of you allow your own young sisters be in such an undefined relationship? You all are hypocrites as well!

Nothing should make a man hit a woman. If the guy saw she was irresponsible he should have just left her and taken responsibility for his kid shikena.

Why stay with someone you don't love anymore and transfer your frustrations and aggressions on them?