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Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:12pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
olexy4real: If everyone respects themselves according to their age, the world would indeed be a better place. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by TheFilmmaker: 1:13pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
NmaGOD44: Why did you avoid my first accusation? |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:14pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
TheFilmmaker: Is singleness a disease? are you married yourself? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by seangy4konji: 1:16pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Am sorry..r those feminist here also? |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by TheFilmmaker: 1:20pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: No I'm not married, not even planning to. However, I won't acomodate a fiery woman who doesn't love me or my family back. Love is the basis for everything. I think I have been bitter throughout this thread. I have my reasons and I am sorry if I have erred anybody. I wish you all the best. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:22pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
NmaGOD44: I met a lady recently at a party who told me she disliked Nigerians with a passion From her accent I placed her to be a Cameroonian Come to find out she was a full blooded Igbo woman but born and raised in Cameroon and married to an Igbo man too I asked why she hated us She said Nigerians were wicked people She told me growing up in Cameroon she would see Nigerians call even their own sisters and nieces their maids and treat them poorly and that cameroonians didn't do that.wouldnt refer to their own flesh and blood as maids and house girls.i couldn't defend that. I asked if she had been to Nigeria She said she spent 6 months in Nigeria and just hated it Every nigerian relative,every man ,woman she met was very harsh and very wicked and treated everyone around so poorly People were extremely rude for no reason and constantly angry and on edge If you know cameroonians,they are easy going party people, I had a good friend from there sometime ago Very polite people If a nigerian and a Cameroonian chased a woman the Cameroonian will get the woman There is a terrible culture we have that many Nigerians are caught up in without knowing it and sometimes it requires being away from Nigeria to another environment to appreciate the enormity of that defect we call culture. Many of the things I see now and cringe may not have bothered me before. There are fellow Africans that will read this same story and be horrified that a mother inlaw will act this way and be more appalled that majority of the people see her as the victim here. Our people are messed up in their thinking and don't even know it and we call it culture That is sad 8 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by mirob(f): 1:22pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
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Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by NmaGOD44(f): 1:22pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
TheFilmmaker:her only reason for apologizing would be just to let peace reign not cos she has to ....she is the victim here not the MIL.....get it straight 5 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by iiichidodo: 1:22pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
MadCow1:Yeah and his Royal High Prick would suggest a clap on the back for the wife for drawing blood and should get more commendation if she had the opportunity to break her MIL's head afterall her husband is hen pecked and liverless just like RHP's father.Whichever way you look at it son, that's your funeral..not ours. 4 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by NmaGOD44(f): 1:25pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
iiichidodo:stop hating guy......it doesn't suit u......just wake up from ur slumber cos this is 21st century where men treat their wives with the due respect they deserve...it's actually very simple 7 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by NmaGOD44(f): 1:29pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
TheFilmmaker:u want a wife dat would love u and ur family??...fine,datz actually a good dream but u will definitely kill dat dream when u get one and let ur family boss her around the way they want....u will end up with a bitter wife and ur own soul a more bitter one 5 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:30pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
TheFilmmaker: So you are not married and you could point fingers at another person for being single. Nigerians and hypocrisy! Why? Remove the rafter from your eyes before removing the straw from another. I have not seen you point out the fact that the Op's mother was wrong for daring to slap his wife. She was the troublemaker here. What sort of mother goes about fighting in another person's home? Will such a woman get the respect she deserves? You dnt go formenting trouble expecting a pat in the back. Respect begets respect. If a MIL does not have such mentality in dealing with others, she should expect disrespect. 4 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by NmaGOD44(f): 1:32pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:very sad indeed.....we actually have very good and considerate beings here but the bad eggs will keep spoiling the good ones .....wat a country |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by mirob(f): 1:33pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
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Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by mirob(f): 1:33pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
NmaGOD44: What is so hard in leaving the copy for the mother in law and printing another one? She wants to drag things with the mother in law and that is so bad, we have to initiate peace sometimes. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:33pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
MadCow1: Besides doing a pee pee and using the preek on your wife, of what other use is the preek The preek is for your woman Na you own am It is thereby a woman's preek Lekwanu Anya o |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by NmaGOD44(f): 1:35pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Sophyrocks:he has no idea how old I am so I won't bother about the being single comment of his........marriage isn't everything for me contrary to the general believe they have here....first things first then a clean and correct guy will follow 4 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Felibaby(f): 1:39pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
perfectionist: In my opinion, since their is no love lost between your mum and your wife, this is an excuse for her to get rid of your wife. Also, i suspect the quarrel was intentional because i could not fathom what your aunty and the friend were doing when the two were going at each other. Seems they already planned it. Anyway, you still have to get your wife to beg and plead. An adult is always "RIGHT". You also need to train your wife to be more enduring. Life is too short to live in disharmony! 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by NmaGOD44(f): 1:39pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
mirob:u ask wats so hard in it??....do u have any idea of how many things she must have (probably) let go just for that same peace to reign??....u never can tell unless u've had to deal with a troublesome inlaw 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by iiichidodo: 1:41pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
NmaGOD44:Real men control their wives and not allow them fight their mothers.Woman wrappers eat sh**t dished out by their wives then allow their mothers be bloodied by these jezebels jes because they can.As a jezebel that should be easier for you to understand. 3 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:41pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
mirob: That is why the MIL has to slap her? What if there are no negatives to print more? what stops the MIL from asking her son about the pics? Slapping another human because of pics? Is the MIL a good initiator of peace by her actions? Is it only DILs that are to initiate peace? You see the type of dysfunctional homes we run in this 9ja. 4 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by onoja12: 1:44pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
She did do that,she pretended till her husband went out,did you read no sooner had he gone out they have started.the story is very related,if you conduct yourself stupidly your husband would pay for it,at every given time a wife is an ambassador of her husband,if he insult people on the road the husband suffers for it.her conduct matter 100% and in this case her conduct way nothing to speak of,to her own husbands mother for that matter of all people.i ask if her husband had fought with her father how would she take it.please answer me NmaGOD44: |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
perfectionist: Hold up o,let me come again The same mother of yours that started this whole thing also wants it " resolved" on her terms Replace that word steep with unreasonable That's exactly what you wanted to say She wants your wife out of your home as appeasement What type of mother would want her son to send his own wife he has no issues with away,this is manipulation of the highest order Look nna ,you need to rein in that mother of yours and fast She has crossed the line and you need to put your foot down and hold it down firmly I won't even advise your wife to go meet her face to face at this time,before she pours acid on the poor girl's face Let her call your mom on the phone and give her an unreserved apology ( for your sake o,I know she will do it if she knows you have her back) If your mom insists she will not step foot in your home till your wife leaves,tell her your wife will not leave your home. Be a man and take charge of your home You are a married man with children now ,not a high schooler. If you bow to their machinations and send her away,you,not your mother have destroyed your home. That decision is yours [size=18pt]Many of the people advising you to throw your wife out have never taken care of a gold fish or a puppy let alone run a family Don't listen to a word they say. [/size] 5 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by onoja12: 1:46pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
As for strike,let me ask you so,if your mother strikes you,you would strike her back,or if your mother wants to take pictures from your husbands house you would stop her,please answer NmaGOD44: |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by NmaGOD44(f): 1:46pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
iiichidodo:laughs.....u really are a sadist...it's quite clear to me now..........I keep telling u to wake up cos u are gonna b stuck right here in this country with dat idea of being a control freak.....learn to love and u will b loved back.....peace 4 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:48pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
NmaGOD44: Correct jare. On point. Dnt mind all these myopic peeps who take marriage as oxygen. See the marriage op has na. allowing his mother rule his home. Na better marriage be that? 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by knowledge4(m): 1:49pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Why would your mother remove the children's photos from the album without your wife's consent? She has no authority to do such a thing. Your wife had the rights to refuse and your mum should have calmly withdrawn till your return to make the request again rather than let it result to a fight. Mother in law/daughter in law battles occur because many mothers in law overstep their bounds If you sack your wife, will your mother play the role of your wife in your life? The mother role is different from the wife role. Do not allow your home to break.It will do more harm than good to you and your children Do not listen to those insisting you send your wife away.They are 3rd parties, take your own decisions independently and stand by it Your home comes first above 3rd parties interference. Forgive your wife and caution her and carry on Apologise to your mother and reconcile both wife and mother in law. 4 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Notyourb1tch(f): 1:49pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
TheFilmmaker:it seems you have comprehension problems. That women is his wife not just any woman and his mother slapped his wife(his kids mother in her own home) first in which she retaliated unfortunately. I really think both parties are to blame but the mother started it. Imagine if it was the reverse where the FIL slapped his SiL simply because he refused to give him something he demanded and now wants to break up the family. Its wrong. There are better ways to handle it but truly some mother in laws are something else. When you leave your parents home and marry then you become one with your wife. He needs to talk to both of them. Get his wife to apologise for peace sake and try and keep them far away from each other. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by NmaGOD44(f): 1:50pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
onoja12:and let me make it clear to u dat if both of them were in peace....the DIL would have been the one to present the pics to her MIL even before she makes her request.....my mum can't hate me and still demand something from me...it doesn't work dat way...and I don't tolerate shit from people |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by iiichidodo: 1:51pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
NmaGOD44:Nonsense rubbish.... 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
onoja12: No mother would strike or slap her daughter over mere pics!! Get that straight. The Op's mother is too petty!! Slap a woman, AN ADULT, that you know u aint in good terms with over mere pics!! You are only asking for trouble!! Only a woman who is a troublemaker and jobless would do that. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by NmaGOD44(f): 1:54pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
iiichidodo:say wat??...laughs again 1 Like |
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