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Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 8:48pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
damiso: Nne read the original post That is where the story is 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by freecocoa(f): 8:49pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:What are you talking about? We are talking mother-child, you are bringing up husband-wife? ![]() Have I ever said it's okay to hit anyone? |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by crackhaus: 8:50pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
moca:Mama doesn't have to do the finding, mama only needs to like and be impressed with the woman her son has found a good thing in. It may not happen the first time they meet, but for everyone's satisfaction, it better happen before the wedding day. . . even if it means locking both of them inside one room until they can talk about clothes, shoes, or whatever else it is you women like to talk about. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by kaboninc(m): 8:50pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
damiso: the root cause should be addressed before any genuine reconciliation can take place 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by kaboninc(m): 8:53pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
crackhaus: and if it doesn't happen...would you go ahead and marry? 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
freecocoa: Bad MILs are not exceptions, they are in the majority. I never said op's case is similar or different because the op didn't give us enough information to come to that conclusion. All I'm saying is that, I can't judge her for refusing to give her MIL the pictures until the op answers my questions. The op explicitly stated that his mother and wife have always had issues, I don;t know where you got the "cuddly" info from. BTW, read my second post on this thread before you quote me. 7 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
blublahd: Not really! It just goes to show that I was exposed to gender issues as a toddler and I have always had questions. I have always thought like a feminist, even before I discovered there was a word for people that had the same beliefs as me. 3 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by freecocoa(f): 8:58pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:Fair enough. Btw, I got "cuddly" from the original post, you'd get what cuddly means in this context if you checked. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Ewuro4: 8:58pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
I'm hoping Mr. Perfectionist is already in bed with Mrs. after getting off the phone with grandma to apologize. Living happily ever after. ![]() I have to call Naija, my NTA dish don kaput. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
I feel sorry for the younger girls hearing all these scary stories Mother inlaw lands slap on a DIL on both cheeks for picture ![]() Mother inlaw tackles and pounds a DIL while refusing to give DIL her baby MIL wants to breast feed grand baby and makes statements about being the real mother MIL wants to enter baffroom with DIL MIL pours soup on DIL MIL hates Dil for not producing male children 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Ewuro4: 9:00pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
kaboninc: They already reconciled since morning. How will you know, you're busy toasting a maiden. ![]() |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by damiso(f): 9:00pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
kaboninc: I agree with you but like I said in my earlier post there has to be apologies for lines to be drawn.Ideally sef MIL should be apologising for putting her son in such an awkward position. My mum had issues with hubby and he apologised first.She also apologised to me for putting me in am awkward situation and also to him for any misunderstandings. Even though I am not holding brief for either party as I feel they both have blame, ,sometimes there needs to be an explosion (abi is it storm) before there can be calm. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:03pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: Hehehehehehehehe. The wahala plenty. The Sad tales of the Nigerian daughter in law. DILs with good MILs are sooooooo fortunate. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:04pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Shollypopzz: I am afraid this may be so judging from marriages that have hit the rocks at the coming of the man's mother. It's like talking about child molesters or killers If you guessed the perpetrator was a man ,you are likely to be correct But if you tell me a maid was killed,it is most likely in the hands of the wife Some things are just more common than others 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:04pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Double |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by freecocoa(f): 9:05pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
justwise:Okay, it's settled then. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Ewuro4: 9:05pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
damiso: That's usually the norm in most relationship... |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Beatrice |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by crackhaus: 9:06pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
damiso:Fighting over pictures, Lol... sounds Nollywood-ish to me, I must admit. Hopefully lessons would have been learnt and most definitely, boundaries have been drawn... I'm pretty sure the MIL would think twice before getting into an altercation with her DIL ever again. But even if they do settle their differences, will it ever be let's all sing kumbaya like nothing ever happened? It's just not a good look on a woman to exchange blows and scratches with her MIL regardless of the cause. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Op, you opened thread, made a few comments and disappeared. I hope all is well. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by kaboninc(m): 9:06pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Ewuro4: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Omo, the babe dey give me toooughhh time. But I like it sha..... Still, I hope it doesn't recur. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by kaboninc(m): 9:09pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
damiso: That is just so true. And, the bond gets stronger. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Ewuro4: 9:12pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
kaboninc: Don't worry you shall conquer this wooing challenge ![]() ![]() Yes it might recur.. It's left to both party to restrain themselves when it starts. This is life, shiît happens, we must learn to deal with it like a cognitive adult that we are. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by freecocoa(f): 9:13pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
perfectionist:Did I not say it? What sort of a person thinks her MIL wants to harm her, yet goes about laughing and playing with her? So MIL wanted to harm her grandkids too? The fight couldn't even be separated. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
freecocoa: He hasn't told us his wife is crazy,has he? He just didn't tell you the reasons she thinks the mom would harm her I don't know where you get all these wild scenarios in stories Laughing and playing with her Where did that come from? That a woman chose to be courteous to her visitors translates to laughing and playing If they were laughing and playing,how then did the Dil sustain a slap? By the way the MIL proved she could harm the DIL She attacked her in her own home 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by damiso(f): 9:18pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
crackhaus: kaboninc: You know all the resentment had been brimming under the surface now they have both let it out ![]() Ewuro4 do you have TVC News in Canada? That's where we are following the naija elections. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by damiso(f): 9:20pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: I read the original post. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by kaboninc(m): 9:20pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Lol @ wooing challenge.... So you're tough too? Hmmmm Yes oh, shiit happens. Personally, I don't think the MIL will just allow this incident to slide especially as she got a scar on her face. Don't know how she thinks but the DIL should be careful. It is well. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Ewuro4: 9:21pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
damiso: Let me check.. But I doubt it. Thanks. I called home already and nothing yet. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by damiso(f): 9:25pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Me sef don call taya ![]() |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
@crackhaus,somethings are easier said than done. Yesterday,i went to welcome a new baby into this world somewhere. New wifey. Hubby was married b4 but pursued the wife cos mama ssaid she wanna see her grandchild. Wifey dey get belle,carry to full term and on giving birth,baby will die. Three good times. In my former office b4,the mama there has a DIL who gave birth 4 good times and all died. We gat to know cos we witnessed the last one. One day now,they will send her packing. For the fact that u didn't give birth on time,no male child might get u in mama's bad book. Iim being realistic dear. Poo happens. Yep,some DsIL are devil incarnate. We just pray for the best for us and our loved ones. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by crackhaus: 9:31pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
kaboninc:Well since you want to personalize it, I'll oblige... I already know the type, characteristics, and qualities of women my mother gets along with, bringing one to her that doesn't fall into that category means I'm deliberately looking for trouble. Does that answer your question? 1 Like |
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