I will believe your findings only if you can tell me why King Solomon in the bible had so many women.

Men cheat without any reason at all. To me, I see it as an adventure, since I can comfortably take care of up to ten women why not extend the wonderful good gesture.

DarkAngel86:
I wanted to know what drives men to cheat. If a man truly loves his woman then why cheat on her? So I asked Google and I was shocked by my findings:

www.m.webmd.com/men/.../why-men-ch.. 

48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated. So much for the myth that for men,cheating is all about sex:


Only 8 percent of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is sex," Neuman says

These results mean that both partners are guilty and not just the man who cheated


I would like us to discuss this issue in a matured manner.


My question is if you've experienced being the cheater or cheated on why did you do it or were you willing to work on your relationship. This is of course if both parties love each other.

Pls no insults or derailing.

Forget all the stuff you read on the internet. There is no reason 'MEN' cheat.
Individuals have different motives for whatever they do depending on their paradigm at any given time.
Trying to put down cheating to a particular reason is an effort in futility. It could be as varied as the number of men in the world.

SpeedyConnect:
Cheating doesn't mean there is no love

Fake love. Corrupt love. Is that really love ?

Cheating amounts to taking advantage of your partners ignorance to defy the marital vows. Only corrupt lovers will do that. If men cheat for emotional reasons, then their wives are not intelligent or they are emotional cheaters.

A man's primary responsibility is satisfying his wife and vice versa. But we find in some relationships where one partner starts acting as if he/she is being disturbed or is doing a favour being in the relationship.

Ennnn,women cheat more

Polygamy is a thing of the mind. And religion has a way of organizing once live. A true Christian knows that cheating is a sin be it a man or a woman. Therefore you can choose to obey or disobey.

I see myself as a loving and understanding person.. but my major problem is that no matter how hard I try I just can't fall in love. and in my quest for love and emotional connection, I find myself having more than one girlfriend.

alexdellafonte:
Why men cheat? Good question. Not because they really wanted to cheat. But me think its the ladies. They wouldn't see a goodlooking/wealthy guy without running after him, as a smart guy he adds them to his list, then later they'll say guys re cheats

a smart guy indeed.
what if your lady was beautiful and hordes of men are running after her and she "adds them to her list" shey she be smart babe abi?

majority lacks perception.

Now, girls are are synonymous with tv channels... that's an upgrade from cars

Cheat if you must... i'm only glad that society is loosening up to the "till death" vow... n of course, sugar boys are readily available... ya'll cheats(men and women) can now go mad...

Rainess:
Most of the men in this thread are acting like it is a woman's job to prevent her man from cheating. What nonsense. Keeping your relationship healthy is important and is the duty of the man and the woman. But if someone cheats it is their fault and their fault alone. Even if your relationship is sexless and miserable.

You do not know how some ladies behave in a relationship. This is irrespective of how nice and understanding the man is. These ladies act as if they do the man a favour dating them or being their wives. Same type of women always think there is something better in the next door. Men who date such ladies always undergo emotional torture. The ladies are never truthful or open with the guy they are dating

Only a man who has experienced this will understand it. Such men cheat without remorse.

MY BABE WENT OUT WITH A MAN ..I SAW HER IN FRONT OF RANGE ROVER SPORT...OMG I CANT BELIVE IT NAIRALANDERS...I WAS LIKE ..KILLING MYSELF...I WAS DIEING IN THOUGHTS ...BUT FEW HOURS LATER MY FONE RANG..IT WAS HER..SHE ASKED ME TO OPEN THE DOOR FOR HER...I WAS FURIOUS..I MANAGED AND GOT DE DOOR OPEND FOR HER..SHE DIDNT EVEN ALLOW ME TO SAY A WORD SHE DROP 200K ON MY BED I LOOK AT HER AND LAUGH...I NOW ASKD HER WEDA THE MAN IS GOING TO COME AGAIN TOMOROW...PLS NAIRALANDERS IS THIS CHEATING?

No, because you're a piimp

holyeye1989:
MY BABE WENT OUT WITH A MAN ..I SAW HER IN FRONT OF RANGE ROVER SPORT...OMG I CANT BELIVE IT NAIRALANDERS...I WAS LIKE ..KILLING MYSELF...I WAS DIEING IN THOUGHTS ...BUT FEW HOURS LATER MY FONE RANG..IT WAS HER..SHE ASKED ME TO OPEN THE DOOR FOR HER...I WAS FURIOUS..I MANAGED AND GOT DE DOOR OPEND FOR HER..SHE DIDNT EVEN ALLOW ME TO SAY A WORD SHE DROP 200K ON MY BED I LOOK AT HER AND LAUGH...I NOW ASKD HER WEDA THE MAN IS GOING TO COME AGAIN TOMOROW...PLS NAIRALANDERS IS THIS CHEATING?

in my relationship I have one golden rule - and it's the Golden Rule " Do Onto Others What You Will Have Them Do Unto You" if you don't like cheating then don't cheat. if you are not happy with what you see have the courage to break up.

Ofcos selfish ppl can never use to Golden rule.

It has been said in the days of old that men offer love to get sex from women but this days men offer love for love. But women offer their bodies and dignity for tecno phones.

Infidelity is a major menace facing marriages.. God didnt create marriage to be polygamous..when Abraham took another wife almost destroyed his home..even till today the whole mankind is paying for that mistake....pls its a problem that must be tackled..every man is at risk of cheating either conciously or unconciously... Pls beware.

DarkAngel86:
I guess the fact a woman can't separate emotional attachment and sex plays a role too.
However the article suggests that men cheat for other reasons than sex and this means a man can also fall in love with the woman he is cheating with if his woman isn't providing the emotional fulfilment. So cheating can equate to not loving his woman because he can't love two women Equally.

Biko, speak for yourself.

Rainess:
Most of the men in this thread are acting like it is a woman's job to prevent her man from cheating. What nonsense. Keeping your relationship healthy is important and is the duty of the man and the woman. But if someone cheats it is their fault and their fault alone. Even if your relationship is sexless and miserable.

This doesn't negate the fact that the woman shouldn't put an effort to keep her man. Its teamwork and if one person aint playing the required role, that's selfishness. No need playing the blame game, by the way, men are polygamous in nature, deal with it.

SmartChoices:


I have tranversed the Bible n am yet to see a place where a woman is recorded as having more than one husband at a time.....while you know the stories of Solomon and his wives

Same thing I have read about Men of old owning slaves aka servants and even raping them. Does that make it right? God never spoke against slavery and servants you know.
Solomon was a king. During his time women were treated as properties while men were treated as persons. So he owned lots of women just as he owned properties. During his time men could just divorce and remarry as they wish. Jesus made it clear, men and women were created equally And he never encouraged polygamy never for once did he say men can marry as many as they wish.

In men attraction triggers emotional feelings & urge 4 sexual relationship.

In men attraction triggers emotional feelings & urge 4 sexual relationship wf woman/lady folks.

Rainess:
Most of the men in this thread are acting like it is a woman's job to prevent her man from cheating. What nonsense. Keeping your relationship healthy is important and is the duty of the man and the woman. But if someone cheats it is their fault and their fault alone. Even if your relationship is sexless and miserable.

Even if your relationship is sexless and miserable
these are the major reasons men will continue to cheat till enternity

If its possible for me to marry all the sexy women on this earth: black women, white women, hispanic women,brazilian women, india women,chinese women, fat women, slim women, figure8 women, plumpy women, big boosty women,small breast women. Then i am 100% sure that am not going to cheat.

DarkAngel86:
I wanted to know what drives men to cheat. If a man truly loves his woman then why cheat on her? So I asked Google and I was shocked by my findings:

www.m.webmd.com/men/.../why-men-ch.. 

48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated. So much for the myth that for men,cheating is all about sex:


Only 8 percent of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is sex," Neuman says

These results mean that both partners are guilty and not just the man who cheated


I would like us to discuss this issue in a matured manner.


My question is if you've experienced being the cheater or cheated on why did you do it or were you willing to work on your relationship. This is of course if both parties love each other.

Pls no insults or derailing.

Try cheating on sum1 cuz it is only den that you will understand why men cheat

holyeye1989:
MY BABE WENT OUT WITH A MAN ..I SAW HER IN FRONT OF RANGE ROVER SPORT...OMG I CANT BELIVE IT NAIRALANDERS...I WAS LIKE ..KILLING MYSELF...I WAS DIEING IN THOUGHTS ...BUT FEW HOURS LATER MY FONE RANG..IT WAS HER..SHE ASKED ME TO OPEN THE DOOR FOR HER...I WAS FURIOUS..I MANAGED AND GOT DE DOOR OPEND FOR HER..SHE DIDNT EVEN ALLOW ME TO SAY A WORD SHE DROP 200K ON MY BED I LOOK AT HER AND LAUGH...I NOW ASKD HER WEDA THE MAN IS GOING TO COME AGAIN TOMOROW...PLS NAIRALANDERS IS THIS CHEATING?

No it is not but pimping....


Common man, no difference with you and.......


Mind you I didn't say anything oooo....

Men cheating is a choice,

Like myself, am married wit a kid, a boy 2 b precise, i have never cheated on my wife but am resulted to watching porn.

Anytym i wan sex, my wife is always like am not in the mood but if she wants sex am always in 4 for her, 1day she saw porn on my laptoo and complained seriously and i told her she caused it and i asked he what do u have mii do and if she wants sex and i always tell her am not in thr mood. Within six month we dont hav srx dat 3tym.

Y do men cheat? If you ask me i have no answer! I currently have two girlfriends and several others in the background waiting! The girls wouldnt just go away would they?

I don't cheat!**
You're still free to ask g**gle too.

Cheating Dose Not mean u do Not Love Ur Partner, sometimes cheating comes due To carelessness, Ur Partner may Not decide To cheat On u intentionally... But in a stutation whereby u Leave Ur Partner For weeks Is Not easy.... Cheating also comes Whn There Is No trust, Whn u Can Not acertain Dt Dis Is d perticular Tin Ur Partner Is Doing Where He/She Is... Another reason Is Lack of satifaction....

wole4142:
Men cheating is a choice,

Like myself, am married wit a kid, a boy 2 b precise, i have never cheated on my wife but am resulted to watching porn.

Anytym i wan sex, my wife is always like am not in the mood but if she wants sex am always in 4 for her, 1day she saw porn on my laptoo and complained seriously and i told her she caused it and i asked he what do u have mii do and if she wants sex and i always tell her am not in thr mood. Within six month we dont hav srx dat 3tym.

What she's doing isn't fair, she better change or loose you... 6 months! That's starving.

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