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Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend by liljboy(m): 11:43pm On Mar 30, 2015
Show Him Love: This is definitely the
first step to owning that spot in his heart. Love
him like he’s the only guy in the world. Make
him feel special and happy. Let him know and
feel that he’s the king of your heart and no one
can replace him. He likes the fact that you’re
crazy about him so show him by giving him
those tender kisses, hugs, smooches, and say “I
love you” when there’s a chance.

Don’t Be Too Possessive: Its cute to
get jealous at times and make him feel like you
don’t want to loose him to anyone but when you
start checking his messages and contact list,
that can be a big turn off. Your man does’nt
want to feel like he is being monitored or
watched. Have some trust him and let him feel
that he has got a confident woman not an
insecure girl.

Just Be Yourself: Don’t try to be like a
supermodel or Beyonce because he likes her
music or has a few photos of her on his phone
or change the way you laugh or act because you
want to impress him. Men notice all that but its
not going to change a thing because he loves
you for who you are and that is the reason he
asked you out in the first place. Look good for
him, stay fresh and as beautiful as you were
when you just met . So be free to laugh loud
and act silly around him, he likes it.


Care For Him: Let him know that you are
always going to be there for him through thick
and thin not just by saying it but your actions
should correspond. Ask him about his family
especially the brother or sister that he is
really attached to. Talk about work and what
business venture he plans to dive into. Be the
caring girlfriend that wants to know if he has
had lunch,dinner, how healthy he is eating. You
can also put in some efforts by cooking for him
or preparing something special and bringing it
to him. The path to a man’s heart is through his
belly so cook well for him.

Give Him Space: Yes ladies, give your
man some space! You don’t want him feeling all
chocked up around you. Let him have some time
to hangout with his friends and do some
exciting thing except he invites you, best time
to hangout with your friends too. Don’t be a
clinch or the girlfriend that is there 24/7. Let
him miss you a little and think about you then
give you a call.

Be Independent: Don’t be the girl who
runs to her man at every little problem, try to
fix things yourself. At the beginning of the
relationship he might find it cute that you see
him worthy enough to help out but if you keep
calling on him, he might begin to find it
irritating so don’t push it ladies. Pay your own
bills if you can, fix that broken tap or call a
plumber. Don’t stress him out or be that needy
chick, he can start to think twice about you.

Never Compare Him To Your Ex’s: He
might not be hottest or the richest but he’s
willing to do everything in his power to please
you and make you happy. So acknowledge the
fact that he’s putting in effort and make him
feel appreciated. Don’t complain when that
favour you requested for isn’t forthcoming or
make spiteful comments about he not measuring
up to your ex. That can hurt his pride so
instead just be supportive and give him the
energy he requires emotionally.

Communicate With Him: Let him know
what’s going on in your life and what your fears
are, he’s listening! A problem shared is half
solved so confide in him and he will do the
same. He’s not a magician and cannot read your
mind so don’t be shy to open up to him about
work, the girl you’re having problems with, your
family. Let him be your friend not just your
lover. There should always be something to talk
about but when there’s nothing, just cherish
the silence and cuddle.

Stay Loyal: Chris Brown thinks you ain’t,
prove him wrong! BE LOYAL. Don’t be the chick
that flirts with her man’s friends or keeps
secrets, he might start to have reasons to
doubt your loyalty. Let him know he’s the only
one and you’re as committed as he is in the
relationship. Be honest and never leave anything
unsaid concerning your feelings or changes
you’re starting to h that you don’t like.

Be Positive: Learn to see the best in
him and give compliments when he does
something right or when he’s looking his best.
Try to embrace him and let him know that you
liked it when he helped with the dishes or
helped to carry your bag. Don’t be negative or
start silly arguments, that’s a total turnoff!
When you focus on the negative, all you”ll see
is negativity. Be the backbone he needs and not
the bone in his throat.
Re: Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend by sinaj(f): 11:49pm On Mar 30, 2015
diz nt for me,

walks outta thread.

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Re: Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend by falconey(m): 11:49pm On Mar 30, 2015
OP kindly remove "stay loyal"
Re: Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend by liljboy(m): 11:54pm On Mar 30, 2015
falconey:

OP kindly remove "stay loyal"
lol why na
Re: Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend by liljboy(m): 11:57pm On Mar 30, 2015
sinaj:
diz nt for me,

walks outta thread.
bad girl
Re: Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend by ivyT(f): 11:59pm On Mar 30, 2015
sinaj:
diz nt for me,

walks outta thread.




Same here
Re: Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend by fuckshit: 12:02am On Mar 31, 2015
Stay Loyal: Chris Brown thinks you ain’t,
prove him wrong! BE LOYAL. Don’t be the chick
that flirts with her man’s friends or keeps
secrets, he might start to have reasons to
doubt your loyalty. Let him know he’s the only
one and you’re as committed as he is in the
relationship. Be honest and never leave anything
unsaid concerning your feelings or changes
you’re starting to h that you don’t like.
this is a big fücking herculean task for them bїtches to fücking accomplish grin grin
Re: Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend by liljboy(m): 12:09am On Mar 31, 2015
fuckshit:

this is a big fücking herculean task for them bїtches to fücking accomplish grin grin
i seriously think so too

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Re: Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend by Welrez(m): 1:31am On Mar 31, 2015
'All idealisation makes life poor. To beautify it, it's to take away its sense of complexity- it is to destroy it.' Joseph Conrad, The Secre Agent.
Re: Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:35am On Mar 31, 2015
I don't want to be perfect. Perfection is boring. tongue
Re: Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:26am On Mar 31, 2015
Perfect?

Yeah, I'll pass.
Re: Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend by sinaj(f): 6:22am On Mar 31, 2015
liljboy:
bad girl
wink
Re: Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend by alberto2k(m): 6:33am On Mar 31, 2015
dont ask me for money undecided

smoke weed with me cool

drink Orijin with me wink

watch football with me
Re: Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend by liljboy(m): 6:42am On Mar 31, 2015
alberto2k:
dont ask me for money undecided

smoke weed with me cool

drink Orijin with me wink

watch football with me
guy u wicked o..... weed?
Re: Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend by alberto2k(m): 6:50am On Mar 31, 2015
liljboy:
guy u wicked o..... weed?
yeah... in Weed i trust wink

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