Akinagirl:

As long as you are sincere, you keep communication and both parties want to continue. But if there is true love, no matter how far that person is, your hearts will always be connected.

jimaj4life:

believe me,distance is a big barrier,i used to live in Nigeria nd she lives in england,we loved eachother very much and we talk all the time,when i relocated to england,we live like 2hours away from eachother and guess what?we broke up 4months after i got to england,we made up 5months later but we still lived 2hours from eachother,though we speak like 3hours a day but man she is someone that can't control herself,always flauting around with guys,we borke up again after a month of making up and i guess that happened because we lived far apart, distant relationship doesn't work out atimes

Men, to you distance may be a big barrier, but i feel and i know that once they is LOVE between you two distance can not be a barrier, when we say LOVE we are talking about deep affection that takes place between the two of you that makes you feel like see each other every sec., min., and hour so you need to understand this fact. for your wife she may not be too much in Love with you to make her feel she needs not to look out for other guy's.

myfinalpro:

It aint easy, I AM IN the same boat, what I have resolved to doing is going to naija almost three time every year, it aint easy , but she will comming here in december, so at last i don't have to be investing $5,000 in lufthansa every year anymore.

anasbeaut:

I just have to say that the two most important things in a distant relationship is love and trust, without these two its very difficult. You all know that its takes a long to build trust but just a second to destroy. As long as these two elements are there, it wont seem that bad
I am also in a distant relationship, and sometimes you just sit and wonder if its all worth it, aint you wasting your time and other negative thoughts but what can i say the heart know what it wants.[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]

rossy4life:

In a long distance relationship, it takes great determination from both sides, commitment and genuine love to stick together. I've been in a long distance relationship for roughly 4yrs now, anytime i feel down i keep telling myself "out of sight is not out of mind". I'm hoping at the longrun my effort will payoff with happiness, as long as i end up with someone i love, but i must admit it's not easy.