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New Studies Now Shows That  women Are Cheating Now More Than Ever by Maryannlive(f): 9:29am On Apr 03, 2015
A shocking new sex study has discovered that there is a narrowing gap between men and women when it comes to infidelity. Men are often thought of first when you mention cheating in a relationship, but it seems that women are reversing that trend!

According to family and addictions therapist, Dr. Hokemeyer, the three main factors driving more and more wives to cheat are:

1. Women Are Financially Independent
“In my experience over the last 15 years, I’ve seen a surge in the number of married women who have ‘dalliances‘ on the side. One woman, a beautiful executive who was in her mid 50’s had taken up with her building’s super’s son- a Latino man in his early 30’s. She felt completely entitled to the relationship saying, “Listen, I know my husband has had affairs over the years. So why can’t I? Plus this young man is delicious. I deserve some sugar at the end of a hard day of work.’ Central to her feeling of entitlement, was her sense of financial autonomy. “I’m making more than my husband these days,” she said with great pride. “If he doesn’t like it then he can move out. I’ll be fine on my own.”


Women have been preaching about their independence before Beyonce and her cronies decided to make an anthem about it, rocking barely-there bikinis and explaining that their mothers taught them better than bashing one another on the internet. Now, in 2013, women are boldly independent as moguls, top tier entertainers and more. We’ve proven that we have what it takes to stand strong alongside a man and now that power has translated to the bedroom.

2. Social Stigmas Lifted

“Over the last 20 years, I’ve seen a more relaxed approach to sex in general. I attribute this the media, tv shows like ‘Sex in the City,’ ‘Cougartown,’ ‘Single Ladies‘ and others. These shows glamorize casual and predatory sex among women. I also attribute it to the Internet and the ease with which people can “hook up” on line and subsequently in the bed room. Another factor that we can’t ignore is the debate we’ve had over the last decade around gay marriage. These debates have enabled us to look at the institution of marriage as a dynamic institution that should served people equally and meet people’s emotional and sexual needs.”

3. Sexual Attitudes Changed

“One of the most surprising phenomenas I’ve seen in my practice is the permissiveness with which parents approach their daughter’s sexuality. One of the mothers who I was treating talked about her 19-year-old daughter’s sexual escapades as if she was just accepted into an elite college. ‘The last guy who slept over was hot, hot hot,’ she said, practically salivating. She failed to see how inappropriate it was for a 43-year-old woman to be viewing her 19-year-old daughter as a friend, rather than a child who need to learn moderation and responsibility around sex.
http://www.maryannlive.com/2015/04/new-studies-now-shows-that-women-cheats.html

Re: New Studies Now Shows That  women Are Cheating Now More Than Ever by Nobody: 9:48am On Apr 03, 2015
More high profile divorce cases for my attorney friends to handle. Good.
Re: New Studies Now Shows That  women Are Cheating Now More Than Ever by jimizy77(m): 9:51am On Apr 03, 2015
this is no news......and what should we do about it undecided
Re: New Studies Now Shows That  women Are Cheating Now More Than Ever by KrazyBone: 9:52am On Apr 03, 2015
This has always been an established fact. It's not new, and it's not shocking.
Re: New Studies Now Shows That  women Are Cheating Now More Than Ever by falconey(m): 9:53am On Apr 03, 2015
hell yeah!!! worst nigeria, high rate of poverty man can't provide everything his woman needs.

Young girls dating numerous boys to keep up with the latest material things in town.

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Re: New Studies Now Shows That  women Are Cheating Now More Than Ever by Enegod(m): 10:06am On Apr 03, 2015
I totally agree. Just see what most women say about each other..."I don't have any female friends because they will sleep with my man, that's why I only have male friends" undecided
Re: New Studies Now Shows That  women Are Cheating Now More Than Ever by yomi007k(m): 10:32am On Apr 03, 2015
Enegod:
I totally agree. Just see what most women say about each other..."I don't have any female friends because they will sleep with my man, that's why I only have male friends" undecided
Male friends she is "collecting" from
Re: New Studies Now Shows That  women Are Cheating Now More Than Ever by Slimzjoe(m): 11:31am On Apr 03, 2015
So what should we now do wit This...this....this..... undecided
Re: New Studies Now Shows That  women Are Cheating Now More Than Ever by DonX001: 12:19pm On Apr 03, 2015
Women have always been cheating more than men since 1800BC.
They just do it faaar more codedly.

Like the saying goes, if you want to know the true number of people a guy or lady has slept with in their lives, just ask them, and then -
For men- divide whatever their answer is by 4
For women- multiply whatever they say by 4, to get the true number of men they've slept with.

Works most of the time.
Re: New Studies Now Shows That  women Are Cheating Now More Than Ever by bakynes(m): 12:43pm On Apr 03, 2015
I can beat my chest and tell u women cheat more than men do here in Nigeria. Here is my own experience,my friend hooked me up with a girl by giving me her number. I saved her number, had a chat with her on what's app, I could see her displaying her bf's pictures on her profile pics. We decided to see each other face to face, that same day we had sex and on her way home some other guy called her to ask if she was still coming she answered 'yes' just tell me ow many guys can beat that?
Re: New Studies Now Shows That  women Are Cheating Now More Than Ever by lirusehn(m): 12:49pm On Apr 03, 2015
AmALilgodSoDontQuoteMe:
ave Neva really cared undecided
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