rokiatu:
humans are so confused. When shes good you doubt her, when shes not you don't want her.

is that you on ur profile pic?

Pls take time to understand the lady ok and sit her down to tell her ds is wat u like and wat she likes too Don't blame God if at the end of the day u lost ur chosen bone in confuse state of mind or approach a God own propheth I blive God will take control

Aviero:


Now we have not even dated for more than 4 months and she has started talking of settling down.
I do not know if this is love or obsession. Because this is not the kind of love I asked God for..

OKAY sincerely now @OP IT IS 1 OF 2 THINGS;
EITHER SHE THINKS U R MORE DAN SHE DESERVES N NEVER WANTS 2 LEAVE U OR ...hehehe

lolz..person wey get head no get cap..person wey get cap no get head...life drama

Linqsz:
And I'm here complaining of a gf who hardly give a damn about me. All i hear each time i call her is ' I'M HUNGRY'

Oh God! y ar u giving blessing to those who don't need it? This is what I av bn fasting for, y is it bn delayed? Bros op, u wunt know the value of what u av until u loss it.

zicoraads:
Yea...I agree with you. Who knows...she might use the poison option and kill the OP

OP...use your brains. Some ladies are this desperate!

It's not always a fine feeling when the opposite sex is obsessed with you.

Op was probably enjoying it until it got out of hand.

well i kinda pity d babe sha. cos for her mind, she go feel say u feel d same way for her. Thats y i hate falling in love

kilokeys:

actually.. i love my space if the chick is dumb.
but according to d op.. she is smart. so being sapiosexual. i wouldnt mind her around.
i go give her work eehn... i have lots and lots of novels i don't have time to read.

she would gladly read them to me.. my heads on her laps, she rubbing my scalp and reading me a 500 page David Baldacci. chai.. sweetest thing

u r wuukid

Omotolu:
Pls,I want to know the kind of love you ask God for. Is it those bitches that does not give a Bleep about you? Or those with trillion problems or collateral burden? You can leave her,as that is not the kind of love you want from God;I tell you millions of singles will love her.
Don't let a good lady turn bad. Reciprocate her good gesture with love.

I understand you bro. But i think the Op was trying to tell us that the love and caring was too much for him. You know like they say " too much of everything is bad

luv her back

rokiatu. . . can u pour dis kind of love on mee?

Aviero everyone asking u to run for or life are kids. If you let her go, mark my words, u will regret it for the rest of or life.

Do you love her? If yes, manage her situation unto perfection.

God bless.

Hahahahahahaha....exactly what I am facing at the moment but am not in love with her. No space, I feel caged and disturbed.

Bro u need to be very careful of thet lady. she is too desperate, i have once dates a girl like that too, i later got tired of her cus she over caring.
to butress whatever u think im saying, if u dare get involved in marriage with such person.... u might loe the love/likeness u needed for her when u hae finally settled down. imagine yourself having sex out of wedlock, although its possibe, but she should'nt be your reason to cheat on her. a complete woman should not even be complete at all, she must have her flaws that would make u exercise some authority over her. and she must also not look vulnerable. if that is the case u might lose your interest in her totally. abi bawo?

rokiatu:
humans are so confused. When shes good you doubt her, when shes not you don't want her.

Rokiatu,what is this on your dp?Jesus christ of Nigeria ooooo
mogbe,see asssss
Although ,my hips is 43 inches,I want more o,abegi,what are u doing to this ass nitori Olorun

Aviero:
We met last October . She helped me with a project and since then we got talking. I really liked her because of her nice qualities. So it happened that we started dating.

Now the problem is she is just too good to be true. I really don't know how to put this, but she's overly concerned about my well-being. All of a sudden she is just too nice and I'm somehow scared now. Whenever there is a misunderstanding, she will begin to apologize and start crying even though I'm the one at fault. That is just one.
Whenever she texts me and I don't reply, she will call. If I fail to answer her call, she will start coming over. When I ask her why she is so bothered, she will say she thought something has happened.
Recently, I no longer have my space. She is always around. She always want to be there when I hang out with friends. She doesn't even give me any chance to miss her. Now it seems I'm getting tired of her.

She doesn't let me do anything for her when I try to. Now it is as If I'm the babe.
Recently she jokingly told me that if she sees me with another lady she will poison me and she will kill herself. She wasn't looking serious but I became scared.

Now we have not even dated for more than 4 months and she has started talking of settling down.
I do not know if this is love or obsession. Because this is not the kind of love I asked God for..

that bolded part got me laffin so hard

HeartRobber:





I understand you bro. But i think the Op was trying to tell us that the love and caring was too much for him. You know like they say " too much of everything is bad

...and less or lack of everything is not good. The guy has a problem. He should work on the lady...

Sweetyie:
well i kinda pity d babe sha. cos for her mind, she go feel say u feel d same way for her. Thats y i hate falling in love

The problem here is that this isn't about falling in love ,this is pure obsession and it is bad .

You people should learn how to differentiate between love and obsession.

fairygeh:
Rokiatu,what is this on your dp?Jesus christ of Nigeria ooooo
mogbe,see asssss
Although ,my hips is 43 inches,I want more o,abegi,what are u doing to this ass nitori Olorun

lol girl, my own nor reach your own na, and you know that.

Guys dont be in a rush to comment na, lets see the gurls pic... i assume say she wowo die. Dats how ugly gurls roll
Too desperate for guys that dey will do anything

Aviero:
We met last October . She helped me with a project and since then we got talking. I really liked her because of her nice qualities. So it happened that we started dating.

Now the problem is she is just too good to be true. I really don't know how to put this, but she's overly concerned about my well-being. All of a sudden she is just too nice and I'm somehow scared now. Whenever there is a misunderstanding, she will begin to apologize and start crying even though I'm the one at fault. That is just one.
Whenever she texts me and I don't reply, she will call. If I fail to answer her call, she will start coming over. When I ask her why she is so bothered, she will say she thought something has happened.
Recently, I no longer have my space. She is always around. She always want to be there when I hang out with friends. She doesn't even give me any chance to miss her. Now it seems I'm getting tired of her.

She doesn't let me do anything for her when I try to. Now it is as If I'm the babe.
Recently she jokingly told me that if she sees me with another lady she will poison me and she will kill herself. She wasn't looking serious but I became scared.

Now we have not even dated for more than 4 months and she has started talking of settling down.
I do not know if this is love or obsession. Because this is not the kind of love I asked God for..

U dint mention d girls age. Perhaps ure her 1st love. Well this is where psychology is applicable. If she continues like that and ure not telling her the truth, she'll either be disappointed soon or becomes domineering later. But let me just make you knw that some ppl are addicted to love like dat and they can't hide it probably cuz they'd always bn restrcted from childhood. The male version of such ppl are d ones who are usually shy to woo a lady. They're usually very loving but vengeful when cheated or taken 4 granted.

I don't knw ur style but if I were you I'll start by taking her to an eatery and calmly point where she's getting it wrong letting her knw she's nervous and her nervousness wouldn't change the truth. If she loves you, she will yield, if she doesn't, go thru an intmate relative/friend of hers and so on. You may have even known she may not yield b4 u even start but do it cuz by the time u finish it will be very clear to her that she's d 1 who has too much wahala true-true. But if u cut from her suddenly, even ur own life would be at risk. No joke with dat poison area of her speech o

She's giving u more than d attitude dat she should give you only when d rel is established 4 marriage but uve not even proposed yet

mirexxx:
yep

I like your pic. Is good looking

I can understand you to a level cos I was there several years ago before I got married. This kind of relationship wouldn't eventually last cos we yet need to be ourselves even when in a relationship. It was so bad for me then that people don't know I was in Faculty of Agric till my farm year (400) everyone assumed I was in sciences cos I was always with her. She left Lagos onetime at 8pm to trvel 6 hrs to come see me! Eventually when the love became chooky,I had to let go. What you need to do is to step away a bit and also allays your fears to her. And when it gets to "I will kill you and kill myself"....wahala don dey come be that!

guy pls can we exchange our girlfriend please? girls like her are so had to get & u don't even know what u want. if my girlfriend can do 40% of your girlfriend love & kindness, I will b doing Thanksgiving everyday. pls can we exchange our girlfriend please?

missbehave247:
Hahahahahahahahahahahahah. Was ones in your shoe

lol


@ OP,I THINK SHE JUST...WANT YOU TO BE THE HUSBAND AND HER THE WIFE.....

IF YOU DONT WANNA MARRY HER,YOU MAY "END THE RELATIONSHIP" B4 IT'S TOO LATE...

sexyseun:
that bolded part got me laffin so hard

Me too.

My bro, dun jam iron love.

@ op, dats not love but obsession, the feeling is not real and i tell you that it will soon fade away, you have got to live your life and i dn't understand why she is always following you around.

rokiatu:
lol girl, my own nor reach your own na, and you know that.

No,no,mine isn't like this jor,this ur hips I am seeing will be up to 46 or 48 inches o
How can u only have this to urself, not fair

Aviero:
We met last October . She helped me with a project and since then we got talking. I really liked her because of her nice qualities. So it happened that we started dating.

Now the problem is she is just too good to be true. I really don't know how to put this, but she's overly concerned about my well-being. All of a sudden she is just too nice and I'm somehow scared now. Whenever there is a misunderstanding, she will begin to apologize and start crying even though I'm the one at fault. That is just one.
Whenever she texts me and I don't reply, she will call. If I fail to answer her call, she will start coming over. When I ask her why she is so bothered, she will say she thought something has happened.
Recently, I no longer have my space. She is always around. She always want to be there when I hang out with friends. She doesn't even give me any chance to miss her. Now it seems I'm getting tired of her.

She doesn't let me do anything for her when I try to. Now it is as If I'm the babe.
Recently she jokingly told me that if she sees me with another lady she will poison me and she will kill herself. She wasn't looking serious but I became scared.

Now we have not even dated for more than 4 months and she has started talking of settling down.
I do not know if this is love or obsession. Because this is not the kind of love I asked God for..

to me, I feel this is a case of Love Portion gone wrong.... Bro, tell her bluntly or let d love die a natural death

Truckpusher:
The problem here is that this isn't about falling in love ,this is pure obsession and it is bad .

You people should learn how to differentiate between love and obsession.

love gives way to obsession

Truckpusher:
It's not always a fine feeling when the opposite sex is obsessed with you.

Op was probably enjoying it until it got out of hand.

Don't mind him...now he is crying blue murder. I am certain he got tired of fvcking her and then suddenly realises she is a pest!

Aviero:
If I start behaving strange towards her, she might just come crying. I will then start to feel awkward.

If I act broke, she will want to help out.

If I kiss her with a smelly month, she might just tell me to freshen up.
Nothing I do seems to irritate her.

bcuz she's out 4 business,shE knws y she's there n has focus