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Last Longer In Bed With Calm Arousal by huhmuhyehmi(m): 2:40pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Conventional wisdom states that you should try a position that is less sensitive to the head of your penis, but this is not a good idea as the more that you feel stimulation the higher the likelihood that you're stimulating her sensitive spots. Similarly, using numbing creams is also a bad idea as it's likely to decrease her sensation as well. Instead of trying to avoid the issue, you need to tackle it at its roots and enjoy sex fully. The issue is having tension. Tension in your body hurts your ability to last in bed because it naturally makes you more excitable and aroused more actively. If your muscles are relaxed you have greater control over your ejaculation. Research has also shown that you can't feel negative emotions in your body when your muscles are completely relaxed, so doing so also prevents negative mindsets effecting your sexual performance. So the goal is 'calm arousal'. Breathing plays an important part in this. Calm arousal is the practice of being aware of your physical body, your mental state and your arousal threshold in a way as to not let yourself not get overly excited and lose control. You can work on each of these areas outside of the bedroom, so that you can last as long as you wish when it comes time. Source: Summarized advice from the "Ejaculation Control System" program by Dr Chris from Wizard Of Dates Learn more about this book or read reviews here: www.theultimatebooklets..com/p/crazy-hot-sex_12.html |
Re: Last Longer In Bed With Calm Arousal by Nobody: 2:55pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Hmmm....so sex has gone psychic. Na wa o |
Re: Last Longer In Bed With Calm Arousal by sinaj(f): 3:24pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
ma piss first... |
Re: Last Longer In Bed With Calm Arousal by tohpahz(f): 3:34pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Hiaaan!! |
Re: Last Longer In Bed With Calm Arousal by huhmuhyehmi(m): 5:44pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
sinaj: |
Re: Last Longer In Bed With Calm Arousal by njuwo(m): 6:10pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
sinaj:E be like say na this calm arousal you dey use. Na champions league people dey use here, minus me o. |
Re: Last Longer In Bed With Calm Arousal by sinaj(f): 7:27pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Re: Last Longer In Bed With Calm Arousal by KrazyBone: 7:30pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
What the fvck is calm arousal? Since when does a penis_ take instructions? |
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