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Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by Julietbenson: 11:54am On Apr 06, 2015
Heart felt story
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by njuwo(m): 11:54am On Apr 06, 2015
Ladycloud:
but... seriously... ur elder brother showed u d way to this.... wow.... I thought elder siblings r meant to set a good pace for their younger ones
You thought? I hope say you no dey think like that again o cause that was then. The world don spoil now.
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by UEDIBO: 11:55am On Apr 06, 2015
rokiatu:
You have really wasted a lot of spr.e.m. tongue
did you need sperm?
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by njuwo(m): 11:58am On Apr 06, 2015
Ivyluvie2:
Hmmm,so I read some peeps comment,I'm not a male,but curiousity got a better part of me,and I decided to google how possible a boy of 8years can produce sperm.so I found this: (MORE)
Answered in MALE PUBERTY
Can an eight year old boy
produce sperm?
Yes, it is early but very well possible. Just
like 8 year old girls can get their first
period.


All I know is lots of stuffs do happen,you can't just call someone a liar,if you have no knowledge about what you are arguing about.with my research ,I would say its possible he produced sperm at 8.
I hope you are studying investigation in school o. Make this talent no waste.
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by JewelDiamond(f): 11:58am On Apr 06, 2015
Do u know ur a murderer. By wasting sperm, u v killed some of ur generation.
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by intergral(m): 11:59am On Apr 06, 2015
Ipledge:
So you start self servicing at age 8,i didnt bother to read when i saw ur age and ur supposed self service experience.wetin u dey jack at age 8
You are right, I was expecting to see somebody ofof 38 or something.... How can a boy self service before reaching puberty? I think OP should attend basic integrated science claSS.
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by benstuber(m): 12:02pm On Apr 06, 2015
some comments here could drive a person to commit sucide.....its really bad to see that rudeness and incivility are the norms of internet forums nowadays,where too many people seem to take pride in their insults.....true or not nobody should criticize this guy I know pple who had once been in his shoes,,,may God hlp u pple...

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Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by vislabraye(m): 12:04pm On Apr 06, 2015
mizkeleke:
Thank God for ya life but mehnnnnn u gotta start acknowledging God's handiwork....

The story sounds confusing. ..

Who were you mourning when you took your dp ?
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by EroticDesigner: 12:05pm On Apr 06, 2015
[quote author=diamondtutu post=32392150]My passing through. As I grew older,i ir,i was made the choir twice. Everyone loved me,but I was dying slowly. During the year 2000,i swore never to do it anymore,but wen the urge comes,it overcomes me,and I yeild.

Later in life whenver I do it(masturbates) I felll guilt afterwards,i felt dirty. Then I knew I had to change... To be



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Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by drfk001(m): 12:05pm On Apr 06, 2015
diamondtutu:
My names is Desmond,am from delta state,25 yrs old,today I write this article to all with joy and regrets to what I have lost in these past years I have lost to a very bad habit. MASTURBATION.

How it all began.

I was only seven years old,we were five in the family,i am the 3rd child. I had two elder brothers above me. My eldest brother,who happen to be a lecturer now was more of a problem child,then he was very stubborn,he stole,from my parents and even from my neighbours,it was so bad that then. My parents tried their best but to no avail.
One afternoon,he came home when my parents wasn't around as usual,he took me to the parlour and ask me to watch him. He then brought out his penis and masturbated,i saw sperm for the first time. I never knew anything about sex,because I was just seven. After he left,i was still wondering"what is the meaning of what he did". Now I believe that demons can multiply in a man. We all knew then that he steals,but now he has added mastubation.

Two days after,i decided to try it. I did.(tears) it felt good. I continued,everyday,later 3 times a day,before I knew,it became a strong habit,it was like I was under some spiritual influence. It got so bad that whenver the urge comes,anywere I am,even in the church,i wud look for a corner to please myself and masturbate.

I masturbated from my early primary school till I finish tertiary,there was no dat I didn't masturbate at least 8-10 times daily. I hated girls,hated relatinships,infact then when I see any girl I like,i ll just go home,imagine her face,and masturbate.to me I have slept with her. I could masturbate even in a cab,on benches in the farm,mum's shop etc.

Everyone saw me growing up,as an innocent boy,but no one knew what I was passing through. As I grew older,i started making enquiries about it. I discovered it was a sin before God,and it was harmful to my health,my eyes went blur,i loose so much weight,even when am weak,i masturbate.
Later in my teens,it bacame a form of cure to depression,wenever am depressed,i masturbates,then slept off. I was a very active brother in the choir,i was made the choir director twice. Everyone loved me,but I was dying slowly. During the year 2000,i swore never to do it anymore,but wen the urge comes,it overcomes me,and I yeild.

Later in life whenver I do it(masturbates) I felll guilt afterwards,i felt dirty. Then I knew I had to change... To be continued
Dude I believe your story. nobody understands what you went through except for you. Although it's unlikely actual sperm was produced but @ age 7, a boy can ejaculate a watery substance and considering your age @the time compared to now it's likely you don't remember what you saw.
All the same thank God for helping you through the addiction.

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Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by Donbabaj: 12:06pm On Apr 06, 2015
JewelDiamond:
Do u know ur a murderer. By wasting sperm, u v killed some of ur generation.

funny! what is waste in this matter! Did i hear u say killed? grin! Can you beat your chest that you yourself don't self service undecided
@ op, i await your final gist abeg how u take survive this thing? and leave these people deceiving themselves
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by mizkeleke(f): 12:08pm On Apr 06, 2015
vislabraye:


The story sounds confusing. ..

Who were you mourning when you took your dp ?
.......Sarcasm.......
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by possibilita(m): 12:09pm On Apr 06, 2015
intergral:

You are right, I was expecting to see somebody ofof 38 or something.... How can a boy self service before reaching puberty? I think OP should attend basic integrated science claSS.
this story is too good to be true,if he were an American or Indian I would belive but 9ja bros diz guy still dey play 4 sandsand with him tear tear pant and counter full inside him shirt with plenty rubber ring he no even knw d function of him pinini.@8
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by njuwo(m): 12:11pm On Apr 06, 2015
diamondtutu:
Continuation... thanks fellow Landers for reading.
During the year 2000,i met a friend who recommended one of Bimbo odukoya book "how to overcome masturbation". I read it,and for about 3 days I stoped,then it started again. My brothers it pain me that some persons insults me like I ll gain anything if I lie. Well those the message is for will get it. God has delivered me already. Amen.

The year 2000,i just entered JSS1,things grew worse for me,liTtle things arouse me. Sexually,things like female pants. Yea,even that of my sister,(pls don't insult me,if you believe,jst entertain yourself)
At times I wonder if God ll ever forgive me. I could remember a day I masturbates in my class,on the desk early morning before assembly,i wasn't scared anyone would come in to get me. It was an evil urge. I carried this burden till 2014. I accepted it as my lifestyle,because it seem impossible to get rid off. I lost weight,spiritualy I became demoralize,i hated myself.

2014 came,I forced myself into a relationship,i got a girlfriend,i wanted to use her as a substitute,it didn't work,then I knew it wasn't just something I could leave so easily. So I read somewhere,a man said"the best way to stop a habit is to adopt a new one". So I engaged myself,i Went onboard ship to work,(am a mariner),to distract myself,but it wasn't possible.

Till I came to work in portharcourt,i heard a woman on radio called mummy,she always advices on cool fm. I told her,she ask me to come over,that day I told her all,i cried and cried,because I wasn't ashame to tell her(afterall she don't know me) after much counselling,i was told when I feel the urge,i should tell myself aloud."i won't do it". I started it.
Five days...
Ten days....

21...days

On the 25th day I masturbated,i called her,she didn't condemn me,instead she praised me,and ask me to start again. This time,i was determined,because nothing was working for me,it was like something tied my finances. Even my friends told me,because I was the best in my Dept.

I started again. I was scared at first,later I stayed a month.
2months
3months
Till now.

Just llike some persons said,i have wasted a lot of sperm. I know,i understand. I saw it all.
My problem now is guilt,something always told me I may not have a child in future,sort of.i know is guilt anyways.
The important,is that God delivered me. Now I see what I have been missing. I nolonger admire those things. I got a girl. I call her My Gift. She took in,gueSs what? God gave us twins,i wanted to do an abortion but when we discovered it was twins,i told her to leave it,i call my siblings,they assisted me. Got the dowry paid,and did the traditional rites. Now she's 7 months pregnant.

I type this in tears,regrets but in everlasting joy. He delivered me. And anyone going throgh this,just be strict and discipline. You ll overcome. Thanks for spending time to share in my testimony. That my elder brother is now a Pastor @ the REDEEM CHRISTIAN CHURCH,a lecturer,and also happily married. I bet he didn't knw the damage he caused in my life. I forgive him.even as God forgave me.
God bless you all.
With this, i now believe your story. Sorry for not believing at first. I bin dey believe before but as i see started self service at 7 na i begin unbelieve. But as you don give me the full story so, i don believe whole ha. I thank God as you don stop so cause no be something wey person suppose do be that cause e dey kill moral come dey make person look the opposite sex as toy for pleasure.

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Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by walyx(m): 12:12pm On Apr 06, 2015
Grrr!!! At 7..
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by ekiloui(f): 12:12pm On Apr 06, 2015
Baddestguyp:
lies. u don't release sperm at age 7. besides how will someone wànk 8 times everyday. haba!!! shocked

Try and read b4 commenting...he never said anything about releasing sperm at age 7..
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by ekiloui(f): 12:22pm On Apr 06, 2015
possibilita:
this story is too good to be true,if he were an American or Indian I would belive but 9ja bros diz guy still dey play 4 sandsand with him tear tear pant and counter full inside him shirt with plenty rubber ring he no even knw d function of him pinini.@8

You can only believe the story if u read it. Obviously his elder brother showed him the way and no...it wasn't revealed to me in a dream, The OP stated it.


I wonder why some NLers choose to term stories as "unbelievable" without reading at all...abi them no sabi read?
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by Donbabaj: 12:22pm On Apr 06, 2015
Someone wrongly said that the bible says Jesus said if there is any part of your body that will make you loose heaven, cut it off! I come imagine say if na konji make u cut am o! grin
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by alpha75(m): 12:29pm On Apr 06, 2015
Well, first let me begin by thanking God for the live of OP. I mean I can imagine what u have been through all this WASTED years. But to God be the glory, who actually made u to be alive to see this day. Again after reading all the comment on this particular non-fictious(real life) story, I concluded that 95% of people who commentted on this thread are daft and posses limited mentality #fact. Back at OP- Sir, why I used that word WASTED above is that (1) when all this (self servicing) are happening, u where never happy withyourself (2) u easily got angry at almost everything which have made ur live to be miserable and (4) u have remain stagnant in live in terms o f ur mental attitude and finances. The devil is a liar because now that u have stopped it there is an overhaul reprogramming that is taking place both spiritual and physical in and out of u. That was why I really thank God almighty for ur live. Am writing this now for those of u who in one way or the order have found himslf or herself in this boomerang act. Better discipline yourselve to stop it if not u will struggle to make it in life. People that indulge in this act are not always successful. Quit self servicing,it kills emotionally,mentally, physically,spiritually,financially and finally impotency. A word is a enough for the wise. He who have ear let him hear. Thank you. #bowsoutofthread#

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Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by nephemmy(m): 12:40pm On Apr 06, 2015
Lie lie!...scam! fraud!
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by eyeon(m): 12:56pm On Apr 06, 2015
Tandullceblog:



Beefer? Now for what possible reason... hm! *laughs out so loud*
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Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by dahreyM: 12:58pm On Apr 06, 2015
Kelvinpam:
Dis gat me laffin all dai...nice use of words grin grin grin


thanks smiley
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by wheesin(m): 1:05pm On Apr 06, 2015
JewelDiamond:
Do u know ur a murderer. By wasting sperm, u v killed some of ur generation.

..and you that have committed series of abortions or had sex with a man using a condom...what have you done ? Save..? I guess not angry
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by fireforfire: 1:14pm On Apr 06, 2015
diamondtutu:



If you know what Ii have bee through,you ll see d reason I ll serve this God for life!
Mind no one and testify to God.
U dnt owe anyone any explanation.
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by jackmore64(m): 1:19pm On Apr 06, 2015
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Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by fireforfire: 1:22pm On Apr 06, 2015
JewelDiamond:
Do u know ur a murderer. By wasting sperm, u v killed some of ur generation.
undecided
Chief Judge of d federal republic of Nig, clap for yasef.
Swear dat u hv not commited abortion bfor.una we.do pass dey judge pass God
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by fitinwell: 1:22pm On Apr 06, 2015
We almost had the same experienced story line.

But Thank God you married now
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by Nobody: 1:39pm On Apr 06, 2015
Ipledge:
So you start self servicing at age 8,i didnt bother to read when i saw ur age and ur supposed self service experience.wetin u dey jack at age 8

scroton grin
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by Nobody: 1:40pm On Apr 06, 2015
crotonite:


scroton grin
Maybe hé lacks basic science,hé think We are fool
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by Temysteve(m): 1:43pm On Apr 06, 2015
Ipledge:
So you start self servicing at age 8,i didnt bother to read when i saw ur age and ur supposed self service experience.wetin u dey jack at age 8
do u think evry1 will be like that started delivering fluid @ age 20.....
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by Temysteve(m): 1:43pm On Apr 06, 2015
Ipledge:
So you start self servicing at age 8,i didnt bother to read when i saw ur age and ur supposed self service experience.wetin u dey jack at age 8
do u think evry1 will be like you that started delivering fluid @ age 20.....
Re: How I Started And Overcame 17 Years Masturbation(tears) by Nobody: 1:46pm On Apr 06, 2015
Temysteve:
do u think evry1 will be like you that started delivering fluid @ age 20.....
i see you are both illitrate,i have no word for u

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