She writes, "I have always thought my husband was faithful until I saw this in his FB box. We have been married and blessed with 2kids and he acts like a saint all the time. I am shocked at this and more upset because the conversations are with both married and single ladies. What can I do in a situation like this?"

Marriages these days ehn!!!!

Expose him and Show everybody that cares to know .[color=#990000][/color]
Advice him and pray over it

oh no ! she's fecked up! she should have chilled till she catches them(husby n mistress) in the hotel. .preferably naked ..
then she should take some pics and drop it on the net for all to see the shameless dangling blokos

That man na badoo....see smooth chat, even with old age

Jackeeh:
Ashawo man. He even thought his ''size'' will discourage her. Bros madam ''mistress'' doesn't care how tiny or big it is, she's more concerned about ur wallet size. Marriages theses days ehn!!!!

the woman said that, not the man.
pay attention to the details. the man chatted in the blue bar, the woman in the white one.

If your Husband is handsome, earns a good/steady income and takes care of his responsibilities at home and is perceived as the perfect gentle man, it is virtually impossible for him not to have female admirers who bug his phone with text messages or hidden flash calls, it does not necessarily mean he is involved in any extra marital affair, if he trusts his woman enough he would tell her, but if it would cause more harm than good he would hide it and that is where the risk lies.

Any woman who has never come across strange messages or calls from the perfect husband is living in fantasy land and should be very worried.

Roland17:
If your Husband is handsome, earns a good/steady income and takes care of his responsibilities at home and is perceived as the perfect gentle man, it is virtually impossible for him not to have female admirers who bug his phone with text messages or hidden flash calls, it does not necessarily mean he is involved in any extra marital affair, if he trusts his woman enough he would tell her, but if it would cause more harm than good he would hide it and that is where the risk lies.

Any woman who has never come across strange messages or calls from the perfect husband is living in fantasy land and should be very worried.

worried that he could be gay on the down low?

Good riddance. It's high time all these unloyal dawgs get exposed.

coogar:




worried that he could be gay on the down low?

Gay on the down low? Funny! It doesn't make sense. They also get bugged either by female or male.

Asexual? If he was, he wouldn't have married.

Call a spade a spade.

coogar:




worried that he could be gay on the down low?

That could also be the case, but she must worry that something is going on, it is virtually impossible for a man who has his shii..t down not to have calls and messages, if she has never seen any and believes her man is not being tempted or is not being chased/ or chasing someone then she is living fantasy land that is bound to explode.

She can leave him na. Foolish woman. What exactly is this "revelation" supposed to achieve? The man will apologise and enter delete mode. Oh, wait, she wants to get a divorce? Good fecking luck.

Roland17:
Any woman who has never come across strange messages or calls from the perfect husband is living in fantasy land and should be very worried.

Why?

Vickybee:

Gay on the down low? Funny! It doesn't make sense. They also get bugged.

Asexual? If he was, he wouldn't have married.

Call a spade a spade.

it makes sense.
if he was an outright faggöt, he wouldn't be married to a woman. that leaves the option that he could be bïsexual & the homo side of him is hidden(down low)

Roland17:

That could also be the case, but she must worry that something is going on, it is virtually impossible for a man who has his shii..t down not to have calls and messages, if she has never seen any and believes her man is not being tempted or is not being chased then she is living fantasy land that is bound to explode.

i wholesomely agree with you here.

men get chased too. however, the man here shouldn't have allowed his woman to see this on his phone. some women can't jangle such messages & he must know the kinda woman he's married to. even if you cannot blame him for festering such chit-chats, he should be chastised for keeping it on his phone.

Jackeeh:
Ashawo man. He even thought his ''size'' will discourage her. Bros madam ''mistress'' doesn't care how tiny or big it is, she's more concerned about ur wallet size. Marriages theses days ehn!!!!

She was the one talking. She was worried he didn't like her size cos she was fat.

All I see here is a casual chat between old exes.

5minsmadness:
All I see here is a casual chat between old exes.

nothing more than nostalgia.
old exes reminiscing about what they used to have back in the days. how is this cheating?

he was even asking if she screams during sėx now that she is fat.......it means he's yet to sleep with her since they broken up.

this wife is an idïot, she should have kept her cool and wait a little more to get more compelling evidence. she has now forewarned her hubby & he would be more careful.

coogar:


it makes sense.
if he was an outright faggöt, he wouldn't be married to a woman. that leaves the option that he could be bïsexual & the homo side of him is hidden(down low)

You don't understand. The dude you quoted said that any handsome rich man is likely to get bugged by a female and you opined unless he's gay.

I'm trying to tell you that handsome rich gay guys also get bugged since being gay isn't written on anyone's face.

Vickybee:

Why?

I am trying to be pragmatic here with you, if your husband is the perfect man, the man of your dreams, believe me, it is impossible for him not to have strange calls or messages on his phone from women who want a piece of him, depending on his moral strength, it does not mean he is sleeping outside or cheating on the other hand if he is not disciplined he would cheat and sleep outside, but for a woman to conclude because she has never ever witnessed a strange call or message on his phone means he totally clean and not chased or doing the chase is totally stupid, it is impossible.

For those who have found such be happy, find out the extent of the message and relationship and give him the chance to end such himself especially if there is nothing between him and the lady, if he is morally disciplined and trusts your maturity he would explain everything to you and he expects mature reactions from you through understanding, if not he would hide such messages and calls just to avoid trouble.

Roland17:


I am trying to be pragmatic here with you, if your husband is the perfect man, the man of your dreams, believe me, it is impossible for him not to have strange calls or messages on his phone, depending on his moral strength, it does not mean he is sleeping outside or cheating on the other hand if he is not disciplined he would cheat and sleep outside, but for a woman to conclude because she has never ever witnessed a strange call or message on his phone means he totally clean and not chased or doing the chase is totally stupid, it is impossible.

For those who have found such be happy, find out the extent of the message and relationship and give him the chance to end such himself especially if there is nothing between him and the lady, if he is morally disciplined and trusts your maturity he would explain everything to you and he expects mature reactions from you through understanding, if not he would hide such messages and calls just to avoid trouble.

All right.

Vickybee:

You don't understand. The dude you quoted said that any handsome rich man is likely to get bugged by a female and you opined unless he's gay.

I'm trying to tell you that handsome rich gay guys also get bugged since being gay isn't written on anyone's face.

oh!
sorry, i completely misread what you typed. my comment was just alluding to the fact that a woman who hasn't seen lewd chats on her hubby's phone should be worried that her hubby could be gay on the down low.

coogar:


oh!
sorry, i completely misread what you typed. my comment was just alluding to the fact that a woman who hasn't seen lewd chats on her hubby's phone should be worried that her hubby could be gay on the down low.

And i'm saying it doesn't mean anything.

He might be straight deleting the messages afteward.

Vickybee:

And i'm saying it doesn't mean anything.

He might be straight deleting the messages afteward.

but he would make a mistake one day. men aren't that careful to delete every lewd text message. that is why they get caught. women are more thorough with such & this is why they don't get caught as much as men.

i never said its set in stone that she's married to a bïsexual hubby - i just offered the case as a possibility. if he's seeing other men outside codedly, then majority of his texts would be from bryan, john & peter........the wife would overlook it cos they aren't women.

coogar:


nothing more than nostalgia.
old exes reminiscing about what they used to have back in the days. how is this cheating?

he was even asking if she screams during sėx now that she is fat.......it means he's yet to sleep with her since they broken up.

this wife is an idïot, she should have kept her cool and wait a little more to get more compelling evidence. she has now forewarned her hubby & he would be more careful.

Thot of that as well.
This 'catching and broadcasting' wasn't necessary.

I dont see what was exposed.....we dont know anyone of them
#stupid!

5minsmadness:

She was the one talking. She was worried he didn't like her size cos she was fat.

You're correct. My bad.

coogar:


the woman said that, not the man.
pay attention to the details. the man chatted in the blue bar, the woman in the white one.

Right. Sorry. Too angry at the dude to read straight. Lol

5minsmadness:
All I see here is a casual chat between old exes.

mystiqueDZ:
I dont see what was exposed.....we dont know anyone of them #stupid!

I was beginning to wonder if no one else saw nothing special or revealing here.. This is just a chat between two former lovers/partners.. One of the reasons you shouldn't go snooping around your partners phone.. I just hope this didn't cause any friction in her relationship with her husband

I second that. I see nothing more than reminiscing exes. It's true you'll find whatever you're looking for good or bad. He was jst being cheeky and a lil flirtatious with an ex. She is making a mountain out of a molehill.

Nitefury:




I was beginning to wonder if no one else saw nothing special or revealing here.. This is just a chat between two former lovers/partners.. One of the reasons you shouldn't go snooping around your partners phone.. I just hope this didn't cause any friction in her relationship with her husband

I'm of the view that the word marriage should be reviewed cos it has lost salt of its primal conception. I've been privileged to help mediate a middle ground between couples and what I finnd most times is scaring. Is this marriage of a thing really worth this level of stress? It is my belief that every intending couple should first take a course on conflict resolution else, na civil war things weekly.

Chubhie:
I'm of the view that the word marriage should be reviewed cos it has lost salt of its primal conception. I've been privileged to help mediate a middle ground between couples and what I finnd most times is scaring. Is this marriage of a thing really worth this level of stress? It is my belief that every intending couple should first take a course on conflict resolution else, na civil war things weekly.

And parenting skills Plus anger management. That's a great idea.

coogar:




worried that he could be gay on the down low?

Infact it is better to be Gay than to be a serial shameless male wh*re