kaeycea:


you dont seem to get the point..
The lady in question is denying her husband sex only on d ground that she wants white wedding..
And most of us are of d view that that is idiotic and silly.. There are some reasonable excuses why wives could say no to sex to thier hubby but to premise that to white wedding alone create a whole lot of suspicion on the lady as if traditional marriage where the two families consent and bride price paid is not legally binding..
Before the advent of christianity, marriage existed in Africa and does nt need any extraneous factor to authenticate it..
As far as I'm concerned, the lady in question lacked common sense and those urging her on would hv acted differently...

The lady in question have every rights to say no if she doesn't want sex. The man in question have every rights not to bish and complain but either make a decision to stay or leave.

It is obvious what the marriage was based on anyways. It won't last even if she did give up the toto now.

Since he waited till d trad then he should chill till d white wedding nyt no big deal.

kaeycea:


marriage, sex and love are integral part of each other, the are interwoven in the sense that u can't define one without d other... Stop creating artificial distinction here to mislead others

oga, I am not misleading anybody. I only asked a question. Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion.