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Bleep by gaby(m): 2:09pm On Sep 06, 2006 |
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Re: Bleep by Busta(f): 2:13pm On Sep 06, 2006 |
it would be real tough based on wat u've said. are u and ur baby mama in speakin terms, maybe she can help u. notwithstanding, there's no harm in tryin tho. |
Re: Bleep by gaby(m): 3:29pm On Sep 06, 2006 |
Thanks Busta i envisaged that, yeah i have a good r/ship with my baby's mum and i do call them at least twice a day im gonna keep trying and wait for more suggestions, tnks anyways for your advise, God bless |
Re: Bleep by Nobody: 2:44pm On Sep 16, 2006 |
ever tried applying for a visa just on the grounds of a vacation then visit her and baby then applying based on wanting to see your daughter is a little dicey you will come across as a potential immigrant looking for asylum |
Re: Bleep by solosqr: 8:17pm On Sep 17, 2006 |
have you heard of webcam? |
Re: Bleep by izoneb(f): 6:00pm On Sep 22, 2006 |
Salsera!!!!!!!!!!Son or daughter?Her ![]() ![]() |
Re: Bleep by VOR(m): 12:38am On Sep 24, 2006 |
Gaby Sorry to hear about your problem. Must be really hard for you, I know I wouild go mad if I wasn't able to see my kids for whatever reason. For the UK you can apply for a special visa on the rights of access grounds to a child in the UK. However, this visa is not given lightly and there are a lot of conditions that you must be able to satisfy. 1. You have to be able to prove your parenthood of the child. So an original long birth certificate with both parents named on it is the minimum requirement of proof. DNA evidence of your paternity would be even better. 2. You will need a court order from a court in the UK giving you access rights. If you don't already have this then it will be very hard if not impossible for you to get it from Nigeria. Family law is not my area of specialisation so you may need to contact a lawyer in the UK to sort this out for you if necessary. 3. Proof that you intend to take an active role in your childs upbringing. Evidence of how you have supported your child to date will be useful.e.g have you been sending him money, presents etc. 4. That the child's mother is resident in the UK. I have a fear that this will be a problem as from what you have said she is not a legal resident. If she has however been granted refugee status as opposed to being an asylum applicant then that is different. Which is she? 5. Finally, you must produce evidence of your ability to maintain and accommodate yourself without the need for welfare whilst in theUK. And I should also point out that if you have an adverse immigration history in the UK then that may well go against you.By adverse I mean I hope you have not been deported from the UK or committed any immigration or even criminal offences while in the UK. Hope this helps and good luck. If it does help I will advise you where to post my cheque in due course. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Bleep by Nobody: 6:03pm On Sep 24, 2006 |
hey i see the 'visa' expert got here quickly @izoneb you should have read my post slowly, the 'her' i mentioned there referred to the mother. but you were right i must have derailed and written daughter in the next line. ![]() |
Re: Bleep by izoneb(f): 4:50am On Sep 25, 2006 |
Salsera Darling the "her" i meant was the mistake on Gaby's not yours. I was wondering if u got confused with his "her".Thanks 4 accepting though. |
Re: Bleep by gaby(m): 5:40pm On Oct 17, 2006 |
VOR: Dear VOR many thanks for your advise i truly found your kind and wise words helpful, May God bless you immensely, I'll be seeing him soon because i hold an european resident permit so i would try applying for a visa since i have my boy's Birth Certificate and all other relevant docs to enable me secure a visa, With reference to your question about the status of my boy's mum she is still an applicant with no positive status yet, Thanks once again and God bless bro |
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