Why do you kill his vibes and zeals when he declares what he want with you but you show interest after he probably moved on, even without knowing the content of his character?

Trying be logical with these folks is as good as insanity--you never really know why they do what they do.

For most cases, the lady don't like the guy at that time and by the time she falls for him, he has moved on, then it's better both moves on to avoid complications. We are not supposed to accept every Tom, Dic'k and Harry because of the fear of wanting him when he has moved on.

Relationship is gambling

Are they Kendrick Lamar?

Basically when you show a girl too much attention, she gets it in her head that you must not have any options or else why would you be so fixated on her. Its only when you go and are doing well with other girls that she realises that she might actually want you too. It's sad for guys because you cannot ever let her see that you're desperate for( in love with) her.

*plays 'Suddenly' by Dbanj*

Men do it too. It's jst life.

sweettease:
For most cases, the lady don't like the guy at that time and by the time she falls for him, he has moved on, then it's better both moves on to avoid complications. We are not supposed to accept every Tom, Dic'k and Harry because of the fear of wanting him when he has moved on.

even when you barely know the content of his character?

am goin tru dat now,she don return but d love i had for her when i toast her is gone,i wi only fuc*k and dump her

iwatch:
even when you barely know the content of his character?

It's not our fault that the guy didn't impress us enough to want to know the content of his character at the initial stage.

sweettease:

It's not our fault that the guy didn't impress us enough to want to know the content of his character at the initial stage.

you are talking about impress? In my own thoughts, it's adviceable to get to know him.

thank you @iwatch

xynerise:
Relationship is gambling

word!
i love this makes sense

It's human nature. The easier it is to get something, the less we want it. However, when she no longer has your attention at all but others have it, she wonders why, and starts subconsciously questioning her own desirability.

Don't get fooled, if she starts showing interest, it hardly ever is because she's now in love.

iwatch:
you are talking about impress? In my own thoughts, it's adviceable to get to know him.

You have to impress somehow, intellectual prowess, attitude, etc. It's necessary, why do you think you don't want to get to know everyone you come across better?

First impression counts a lot you know, probably nothing interested her in obliging as at that time then later on she sees it goes beyond what she saw previously.

Tattooboy:
Are they Kendrick Lamar?

Lol

Cc lala247

sweettease:
For most cases, the lady don't like the guy at that time and by the time she falls for him, he has moved on, then it's better both moves on to avoid complications. We are not supposed to accept every Tom, Dic'k and Harry because of the fear of wanting him when he has moved on.

Gbam!

* sips tea *

Missmossy:
First impression counts a lot you know, probably nothing interested her in obliging as at that time then later on she sees it goes beyond what she saw previously.

most times you guys discourages a guy and that can sap all his energy in splits of second. It a lot to come forth you know?