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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Gracyel(f): 2:58pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
faith2ogesco:Lol..Na u sabi. Na so ur own NL love start abi? |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 3:09pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
What are the feminists views on this topic? Where are Mandu94 and MrsChima to elaborate on this issue? |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by chukzzy1(m): 3:33pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
leofab:nah...he wants to enjoy his money. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by MrsChima(f): 4:22pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by MrsChima(f): 4:22pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
all4naija: What do you want mumu? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 4:42pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
MrsChima:Please..., I am not mumu. But, it hasn't gotten to that yet. Just a topical question that needs an answer, lady. Are you trying to shy away from feminism? |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by MrsChima(f): 5:03pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
all4naija: If you want to know if I am a feminist....yes I am. How do one shy away from feminism and what does that got to do with sex ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 5:14pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
MrsChima:must we always fight? Cant we just be civil and ask after each other sometimes? |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 5:17pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
MrsChima:It has everything to do with it when looking at it if from the role playing! Jeez! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 6:38pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
all4naija: Its not in my opinion, its mutual benefit, simple. Unless, she compromises on her feelings and takes part because of his wants. I will have sex only if I want to. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 7:55pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Mandu94:What about if the opposite sex is not in the mood and you are? You are an introvert and a notorious feminist! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 8:03pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
all4naija: You are so irrelevant. Talk to someone else. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 8:06pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Mandu94:I can talk to anybody as I want. I am ambivert! Later,lady. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by MrsChima(f): 8:27pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by MrsChima(f): 8:29pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
all4naija: If the man doesn't want sex...he is not by force to do so. What are your other points because your grabbing shit. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by MrsChima(f): 8:31pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
all4naija: Feminism now is a form of pre-intimacy? W5F ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 10:32pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
MrsChima:Don't quote me again because you reason like a primitive African woman. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by MrsChima(f): 11:26pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
all4naija: African women Don suffer!! ![]() ![]() ![]() This is a typical man response when they are stumped and speechless! ![]() ![]() ![]() I didn't know questions were reasons! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 2:09am On Apr 14, 2015 |
He is insane Mrs Chima, he begs for me to take a ride in his car. Completely lost his head. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by MrsChima(f): 3:03am On Apr 14, 2015 |
Mandu94: Lol. That's A Nigerian man for you! I swear he thinks he is proving himself. I don't know why there is such hate for feminism! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by micktoxin(m): 4:21am On Apr 14, 2015 |
MrsChima:" Firstly, feminism should be about gender equality". Anyone who has ever talked to a feminist for any length of time will know that this is far from being true. Most feminist i know consistently view the world from the perspective of women, while sometimes adding the phrase 'and men have problems too' in order to create a smokescreen of gender equality. Like some posts here on nl, the generalisations that nigerian men are not allowed to defend themselves from include, but are not limited to: thinking a home invite/car ride is sexual consent, being rape apologists, seeing women as nothing more than vaginas, having perfectly fitted shirts, always sending women creepy messages etc leaves nothing to desire about feminist. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 11:27am On Apr 14, 2015 |
There is a MASSIVE issue, these are some ideas, but feminism is about history and movement. It is about gender equality and puts women's safety before men's feelings. << When that woman was raped on the bus in India and then later DIED some men said it was her fault for going out late. When a Nigerian girl was gang raped on a college campus in Nigeria many girls and boys said 'what is she doing in a room full of boys.' THIS IS WHY IM A FEMINIST, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. NO TO IGNORANCE PEOPLE LIKE TO BLAME THE OPPRESSED. >>Women are looked upon and valued based on looks rather than content in society, e.g advertisements, on the news all they discuss is what she is wearing. TODAY IT SHOULD BE ABOUT WHO IS MORE INNOVATIVE, CREATIVE and INTELLIGENT. >>> THAT HAS NO GENDER!! #POWER TO WOMEN 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 11:49am On Apr 14, 2015 |
micktoxin: Firstly, look at my previous post. Secondly feminism is about women, but also re education, because everything from education to science is mainly created by men. Many problems exist because a women's influence has not been exercised enough through history. There are many movements to embody other problems but feminism is for women particularly. Each movement has an emphasis, feminism wasn't created to carry the load for all worldly problems e.g lack of green energy resources. So it does show the feminist perspective and the woman experience. Many men are feminists, and these men have great empathy, if we are to move forward more people need to be active in the struggle. Ofcourse women in different parts of the world have it hundred times bad, so this is a global effort. To tell females, you are worth so much, put yourself first because you deserve it. Mothers emphasise good upbringing with girls rather than boys and I think this is a large problem, because boys get a narrow view of what it is to be a 'MAN' and these ideologies pressurise many young men to be athletic, emotionally unavailable (hard), into cars and sex. In the UK, many men read the Sun newspaper (our largest newspaper) because on page 3 shows a naked woman. What messages does it send out to our boys and girls? For girls to fit that ideal of 'beauty', for men to have increasingly sexual attitudes to women in general. Women have many problems such as not being taken seriously at workplace and perceived as being less capable to do her job relative to her male counterparts. In Nigeria the problems are a thousand times worse e.g women coerced to sleep with the boss for a promotion. "IS THIS LIFE". 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 12:24pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Mandu94: Oh, shut it! Nobody is against power for women and all that blahblahblah! What we are saying here is that the notion surrounding feminism is not completely about gender equality but some idea that would make them have more problems while fighting for their rights. You aren't making any sense any way, including that primitive old lady. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 12:24pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Many women just want men to see them as the center of the world.If you don't give them the attention they would want to withhold that right from you as a man. As if man's life depends on it. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 12:25pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Mandu94:This is what you have in mind about feminism, to insult people! Jeez! No descent guy is going to date you with this type of mindset. You primitive lady! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 12:32pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
all4naija: Now I know you seriouslyy need help. I'm ignoring you now. If you read Im not saying you guys are I'm talking generally. But I'm wasting my time with you, because u are an angry little man. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 12:36pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Mandu94:Smh...! You really lack basic comprehension. I wish you would stop and think a bit about your decisions. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 12:40pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
all4naija: Note. You don't speak on behalf of all men. You are minuscule dust. Too much ignorance. You are the epitome of irony, Mr pretentious pretending to be civilized. You are a barbarian, why are you so angry. Simply because I don't take your nonsense. And never ever want to see you or come close to your bike and wagon. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 12:44pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Mandu94: |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Sexykarma(m): 12:44pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Hold popcorn in d front seat watching nairaland wrestlemania... Contestants Mandu94 vs all4naija 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 12:54pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Sexykarma: This is a ground for All4naija to prove something to himself personally. He is a broken character, a pathetic helpless little boy in his heart. He hates his colour, tries to put women down, wouldn't be surprised if he was bullied. He uses his plastic super car to catch prostitutes. 'Hey I date Latina models', he probably lives with 100 cats. People that say all these things Seriously LACK in life. Its okay, All4naja, I feel ever so sorry for you and many do too. So in essence he is loser from the moment he typed. |
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