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In Love With Someone Else’s Guy? How To Deal With Forbidden Love. by Nobody: 11:52am On Apr 10, 2015 |
Okay, nobody is perfect. We have all heard about that evil chic that stole someone else’s guy. You know what I mean (those crazy ass boyfriend/husband snatcher) and maybe some of you have been a victim of them so called bitches. Yeah, they should be stoned to death, right? But how about if you’re the one falling for a guy who’s already taken? I mean, you gotta admit, sometimes your heart can be pretty determined to stick with the one person you know you’d never have. So how do you deal with the situation without being labeled a boyfriend- stealing bitch? Well, here are a few tips. Make a conscious attempt to Get Over It: This is the most simple one so let’s get it out of the way — leave it alone. Go out with other men. The feelings are still rough but, the action you have to take is simple. Walk away. Never Make The First Move No one is perfect. The taken man you want might also want you back. But he might be afraid to leave his current relationship since he doesn’t know how things will go with you. If this is the case, not only is it not your responsibility to make a move, it is not your right. No matter how many things the man says that makes it seem like he is dying for you to make a move, don’t. He can’t have his cake and eat it too The guy needs to be willing to give up the relationship with the other woman and take a risk on you, knowing it may or may not work out. But he cannot sit in the comfort of his current relationship while seeing where things go with you. He needs to be a man and be willing to take the risk of getting into something that may or may not work out. Recognize the game Some men worry that their girlfriend is not stable enough to handle a breakup. They worry it will throw her into a depression and her life will fall apart. True, these men are nice. But they are too nice. They don’t get what they want in life for fear of hurting someone’s feelings. If you dated him, how do you know he wouldn’t just stay with you even after he fell out of love with you? Don’t tell everyone You need to tell someone—it’s eating you up inside. But, if you’re serious about ever being with the guy, it can’t be a known fact amongst your friends that you want him. Tell your very best friend who you can trust, your mom or your sister. But, if you casually let it be known to the world and you do get with him, you might get the reputation as a manipulative boyfriend stealer. Don’t give in The moment you’ve been waiting for. You’ve pined after this guy for months, maybe years, and he acts. He kisses you. He tries to sleep with you. Hurray! Oh wait…just one problem. He is still with his current girlfriend. Look—a cheater is a cheater is a cheater. He needed to have left his girlfriend before even touching you. I don’t care how much you think he did it because he was so passionately in love with you that he just couldn’t help himself. That there is the issue. He can’t help himself. And he will probably cheat on you. Don’t keep your enemies close Do not, under any circumstances, befriend the guy’s girlfriend! You may do this and hardly understand, in the midst of all your confusing emotions, why you are doing it. You may do it because it lets you be closer to him. But it is absolutely the cruelest thing one woman could do to another—gain her trust, to betray it in the biggest way. She isn’t your friend now and she doesn’t need to be. see more article @ www.glamourscenes.tk |
Re: In Love With Someone Else’s Guy? How To Deal With Forbidden Love. by iceberylin(m): 11:59am On Apr 10, 2015 |
When I crush on a girl.. Me don't care whose there already.. |
Re: In Love With Someone Else’s Guy? How To Deal With Forbidden Love. by Allureoftheseas(m): 12:01pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
iceberylin: Correct guy |
Re: In Love With Someone Else’s Guy? How To Deal With Forbidden Love. by MzzTega(f): 1:13pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
Alright. |
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