Dyt:
So a man don't need 12 points?
In essence u saying any home there's problem
Its the wives?

Aiyemanika ooo

bbeckky:
Aiyetoto

Dyt:
So a man don't need 12 points?
In essence u saying any home there's problem
Its the wives?

Aiyemanika ooo

Dyt:
So a man don't need 12 points?
In essence u saying any home there's problem
Its the wives?

Aiyemanika ooo

lolaredvelvet:


I just knew a feminist will show up on this topic to spew trash. Everything has to be blame game.. Man v. Woman .. I pity men who end up with such ladies

lolaredvelvet:


I just knew a feminist will show up on this topic to spew trash. Everything has to be blame game.. Man v. Woman .. I pity men who end up with such ladies

freecocoa:
Women like you(if you are a woman) are the ones who deserve to be pitied. You are worse than a slave.

YUNGLURD:
because she identified the truth?

freecocoa:
And the truth is what exactly?

YUNGLURD:
I believe u can decipher what she meant in her post.

freecocoa:
If what she meant is what you call truth, then we have no business talking.

IjogzK:
Are you not married already?

freecocoa:
So what?

Where did you come out from?

IjogzK:
Loooool... I have been on the quiet side of lately.. You that never checks up on someone.. smh

freecocoa:
Yea right, and you check up on me? Abegi, na person wey no know you, you go use that tactic for.

lolaredvelvet:


I just knew a feminist will show up on this topic to spew trash. Everything has to be blame game.. Man v. Woman .. I pity men who end up with such ladies

freecocoa:
Women like you(if you are a woman) are the ones who deserve to be pitied. You are worse than a slave.

fem29:
Chai, diaris Godu o. How do you expect a human being to do all this. All singing, all dancing all doing. All the man has to do is to exist. May God help us women

francdec4:
I hate it when i hear the words " our marriage is crashing" or even the worst "divorce" that i wish the term should be deleted from the dictionary and its existence forgotten. Even here in NL hardly any days goes by without many family bickering and fuming often very young and nascent homes even before their one year anniversary in most cases. I thus decided to share this 12 points below, read and be informed (hoping that the Moderators take this to FP to help many homes stay together):


1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home - placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers - lacks wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of "women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and coziest place on earth for him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the de facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.
6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.
7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends' influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man's aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defence is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is. But when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions and ogiri. You go to bed wearing grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks - we know. But looks enhance love and marriage. There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the chase.
9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or fever, "not in the mood," you are a joker, a serious comedian!
10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need prayers.
11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend.
A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a "useless man", is not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls, etc.
Are you your husband's girlfriend in word and indeed?

May true love reign and famiy be sacred eternally!