For months now my fiance has been behaving strange, and I'm bothered, whenever I ask her she says nothing is wrong, sometimes she ignore me, sometimes she act so good and loving. Two days ago, I woke her @ the middle of the night so that we'll talk, to persuade her to tell me what's wrong with her, I told her to sit she refused, I insisteds she must sit down to enable us talk, that I'v been in emotional trauma for months. I refused she'll sleep & pulled her up wheneva she tried to sleep, yet she kept silence on me, the next morning she prepared for work and I locked the door that she'll not go unless she tell me why she torture me psychologically, next she calld her co-worker, she came and insulted me & they both left. She came back later in the evening & told me its over between us, all my efforts to bring her back proved abortive. I love her so much, what should I do?

gentle1010:
For months now my fiance has been behaving strange, and I'm bothered, whenever I ask her she says nothing is wrong, sometimes she ignore me, sometimes she act so good and loving. Two days ago, I woke her @ the middle of the night so that we'll talk, to persuade her to tell me what's wrong with her, I told her to sit she refused, I insisteds she must sit down to enable us talk, that I'v been in emotional trauma for months. I refused she'll sleep & pulled her up wheneva she tried to sleep, yet she kept silence on me, the next morning she prepared for work and I locked the door that she'll not go unless she tell me why she torture me psychologically, next she calld her co-worker, she came and insulted me & they both left. She came back later in the evening & told me its over between us, all my efforts to bring her back proved abortive. I love her so much, what should I do?

Discuss this with her Mum, or sum1 she is closer to in her family
I guess you hurt her so much

one question: wat did u do wrong in the first place ?

You didn't hurt her. She fell out of love with you. The fluctuations in attitude u saw her display was her, battling with herself whether to continue or not. Some times she would act good n loving. And some times she would act bad, according to u. That was she fighting with her dwindling attraction for u. The stroke that broke the camel's back was u preventing her from sleeping n going to work. She took the way out u graciously offered. It's the golden opportunity she was waiting for. Let her go. Give her some time to think. Give her some space. Make yourself scarce. The only chance u hv in winning her back is to set her free. The more u beg, the more u loose respect before her n further push her away. Time n space usually resolves matters like these.
And I'm pretty sure this is the same lady u complained about in ur previous posts. If actually she's the one, then OP, YOU are your problem. For not realizing that ure in a relationship with the wrong lady. Op concentrate on making it first. Dont spend the little u have all on a woman ure not married to yet. Y am I even wasting my time sef. Knowing fully well u will still go back to beg. Mtchwwww. But if its a different lady, hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!

Fiancé and living together already... Well from your actions you were rude, there are ways you could've told her to open up to you.
Locking
Pulling
Insisting
Just made it all worse. It is irritating and annoying to some ladies when you keep bugging them and insisting on one particular thing.

All you could've done was just care for her, pamper her and let her know you are there when she feels like talking instead of being a bull and trying to bulldoze her...

IF YOU STILL WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH HER..
I SUGGEST YOU TRY TO UN-HURT HER AND TRY TO MAKE THINGS BEAUTIFUL BETWEEN YOU BOTH.

TALK TO HER OR TALK TO ANYONE TO TALK TO HER ON YOUR BEHALF.

I GUESS SHE'S A GOOD GIRL..
THESE DAYS A SINGLE GOOD GIRL IS WORTH MORE THAN THE MILLION "A$$ & BOOBS" GIRLS ROAMING ALL OVER THE STREETS.

FIND A WAY TO KEEP HER.

Have you really thought about where you could go wrong?
Check your phone
Think about her important days
review what she told you about two mnths ago.
what are your promises to her.
If none of these work thre is one last solution to getting her back. Am srry I can only release it if I know how serious you are.
Goodluck on the above listed points. Don't concede defeat yet,ORUBEBE your tots u can still jega her.

Just give her some space for nw, then go for her wen she's calm am sure she will come around.

The first step is to know how you offended her. Talk to someone she's close to, like her friend or sister to know what's wrong.

Are you physically violent towards her? Like have you beaten her before? Maybe it's because you bully her that why she's refusing to tell you because she knows how you will react.

guy jst tank God she left,such girls have d ability to bottle up vast amts of grudges,God help u d day such volcanoes will erupt on u.

She has been looking for an excuse to leave you so now she has seen one,

One thing life has taught me is if someone doesnt want to be with U, there is nothing you can do about it
You will be a fool wasting time and resources trying to win her back.
Its not about U hurt her. Stop trying to make it your fault
Its nobody's fault babe dont want You no more man up and move the fck on

LadyX:
The first step is to know how you offended her. Talk to someone she's close to, like her friend or sister to know what's wrong.

Are you physically violent towards her? Like have you beaten her before? Maybe it's because you bully her that why she's refusing to tell you because she knows how you will react.

I pet her like mad & I don't beat a woman 4 any reason, though I acted violent but didn't beat her, I was pushed to the wall and that's all I would ever do. She is just a strong hearted type shaa

Op leave the B!tch;;das my advise

Just give her sometime, time will take care of things.. If u are meant to be together nothing can't stop it

You need to give her some time to think, she maybe naturally stubborn type, if you still want her back you can use someone close to her to help talk out things

gentle1010:
For months now my fiance has been behaving strange, and I'm bothered, whenever I ask her she says nothing is wrong, sometimes she ignore me, sometimes she act so good and loving. Two days ago, I woke her @ the middle of the night so that we'll talk, to persuade her to tell me what's wrong with her, I told her to sit she refused, I insisteds she must sit down to enable us talk, that I'v been in emotional trauma for months. I refused she'll sleep & pulled her up wheneva she tried to sleep, yet she kept silence on me, the next morning she prepared for work and I locked the door that she'll not go unless she tell me why she torture me psychologically, next she calld her co-worker, she came and insulted me & they both left. She came back later in the evening & told me its over between us, all my efforts to bring her back proved abortive. I love her so much, what should I do?

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@Op, your fiancee was acting like that because she was in a dilemma. She wanted to leave for one reason or the other but wasn't sure so she was contemplating. The way you acted towards her (forcing her to stay awake and talk to you, preventing her from going to work etc) just made it easier for her to leave. Begging wouldn't make much of a difference right now. You're going to have to give her time.

Though, it's a shame she was about marrying someone she can't even sit down and communicate with