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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by cococandy(f): 6:55pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
TV01: so Christianity is not sexist? Good. We agree. |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by pickabeau1: 6:57pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
cococandy: Hahaha So you genuinely believe that the feminist question does not include male headship even after your sojourn to the West Haha..epic Social progress cannot be unmade However male female dynamics still exist I'm surprised everything I've said about the domestic arena still flies over your head |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by TV01(m): 7:01pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
cococandy:It's not sexist to me. I see leadership along with greater responsibility - and burden and accountability - assigned to men. Feminism decries that, and views it as oppressive and misogynistic - "sexist" is a polite way of stating it from a feminist view. So if you agree with me, then yes ! TV 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 7:05pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
TV01: LOL! I can't with you I stand corrected in a sense - but it still develops with an instinctive - if broad - sense of right and wrongRight or wrong that he/she learnt from his/her surrounding. No child inherently knows what is wrong or right, he/she learns from what he/she sees. As a toddler, the child's morality is influenced by his/her parent's beliefs or surroundings. How do we agree on any laws if we can't ascertain an oblective morality (right vs. wrong)? The only objective morality is individual selfishness. In fact, because of individual selfishness and subjective morality, that is why we have laws. If we all agree on morals, there will be no need to for laws or constitution, we will just need the justice system. Law makers use religion, culture, logic, random values etc which influences our moral system to draw up laws that govern us. Because family background, religion, mental prowess, and culture are not the same , we all cannot agree on morality. So we defer to majority and John Stuart Mill harm principle. This is not hard for us as humans because we are social beings, so the longevity and safety of our community is paramount to us. We are ready to compromise for the greater good. Since our morals are influenced by things that are not constant, our morals change and our laws also change. After a very long time of experimenting with something in the moral system and we see that it is definitely bad for humanity, we move it to the legal system. E.g: discrimination against women, discrimination against blacks, monarchy, tolerance of other religions, gay marriage etc. Soon, we will add animal rights, incest marriage etc. 1 Like |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Pdizzle(m): 7:06pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Vickybee: Apollo is not man, check the book of Acts, Corinthians and Timothy, Priscilla is always mentioned alongside her husband Aquila. And as for Luke, How does all generations calling Mary blessed term as adulation. It's a sign of recognition as the mother of God, which came as a 'male'. In other words the beautitudes were adulations too? 1 Like |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 7:07pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Pdizzle: Job 31:11-12 New Living Translation (NLT) 11 For lust is a shameful sin, a crime that should be punished. 12 It is a fire that burns all the way to hell. [ a ] It would wipe out everything I own. I hope you are asexual and keeping to this law! |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by crackhaus: 7:10pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
TV01:That is indeed true @bold text. Lol, KJV really does have that effect... one only needs be patient and willing to understand it's sophistry when compared to other versions. |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 7:10pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
pickabeau1:Who then told you two men or women can't keep a family?. BTW, Family isn't bedrock of any society but procreation. |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 7:11pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
crackhaus: Bwahahahahaha *DIES! Nah, you're not that bad. You would have to get to TV01's level of self righteousness first. |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Pdizzle(m): 7:11pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Vickybee: How does not keeping to the law change the fact that it's a sin, i can't go around defending that. |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by pickabeau1: 7:20pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Vickybee: So a two man or woman family is a natural and sustainable family model? OK..no problem |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by crackhaus: 7:21pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Vickybee:Esther was a submissive wife, Sarah was also... even Mary the mother of Jesus was a submissive wife. Submissive here doesn't mean docile, mute, and given to taking orders. Submissive means knowing their roles and deferring to the headship of the man. They did not try to usurp his authority at every slight opportunity. Other examples of biblical submissive women include: Rebecca Rachael Zipporah etc. etc. Should I go on? 3 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 7:25pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
crackhaus:Don't go on. I'm ready to learn how Mary was submissive. How? |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by crackhaus: 7:25pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:LOL... TV01, are you reading this? |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by crackhaus: 7:28pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Vickybee:Lol, really now? What evidence do you have to the contrary? |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by TV01(m): 7:28pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 7:29pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
lezz: ROFLMAO!! I swear this person is too far gone! What a lunatic, and 5 other lunatics liked his posts?? Bwahahahahahahahha!! This kind of stup1dity deserves to be bookmarked. Hollup, you mean some feminists replied this poster?? Bwhahaha 4 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 7:36pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
crackhaus:Biblical quote. |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 7:38pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:The way that dude preach morality, one would think he's a spotless Angel. Na hin type dey visit Ashewo and sleep with them. |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Pdizzle(m): 7:39pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Vickybee: You didn't reply my last two quotes, defend your feminism and renounce your Christian belief, or remain two-faced like the other feminists. 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by JoeCutie(m): 7:43pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Vickybee:It has failed to open. I don't know why |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by crackhaus: 7:43pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Vickybee:Quote it please, I'm eager to see this and understand your interpretation of it. 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by cococandy(f): 7:45pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:they are conspiracy theorists. Even though some of them don't know they are. I must have missed out on the meeting where some women and men gathered to discuss with the devil on how to ruin the world by seeking equality for women. By that logic what keeps the world going is for women to remain under. Err. Tsk tsk. Ok since we Christians believe the world will come to an end one day maybe feminists are actually doing God's work by helping speed up the destruction of the world. That sounds like a good inference based on good premise. No? #stretches Nothing makes sense. 1 Like |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by bukatyne(f): 7:46pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
BABE3: It boils down to your definition of 'head' A man is the source of his family; Ideally, he decides to build a family and finds a wife himself/asks God or Satan (depending on his preference) |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 7:47pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
JoeCutie:Lol |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 7:48pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
crackhaus:I said you should quote where Mary was submissive. |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by BABE3: 7:51pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
bukatyne: So you're saying, his headship ends after he has found his wife ? |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by bukatyne(f): 7:54pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
BABE3: Did you get that from my post? Does finding a wife end a family? |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by crackhaus: 7:58pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Vickybee:I don't know what you expect of me, lol... Like you wish to read a verse where it's stated that Mary was submissive? Her actions and general regard for the authority and headship of her husband Joseph, is enough proof of her submissiveness. The angel only appeared to Mary one time, and that was to inform her of her sacred duty to birth the Messiah. Every other appearance by the angel was to Joseph - he would get the instructions and Mary would follow him without questions. She regarded him as her leader and like a submissive woman, she followed him without doubting. One belligerent and rebellious woman I can remember off the top of my head right now would be Queen Jezebel, Ahab's wife...and you should know how that ended for her. Men can get away with being rebels (Moses for example), but hardly women - with respect to your signature 5 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by BABE3: 8:06pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
bukatyne: So his headship continues after he's found the wife. Ok IN the family/marriage, he is the head, according to you. Ok. Why is he still the head after he's found his wife? What's wrong with two heads or the wife being the head? Coz I'm sure a lot of thoughts must have gone into the decision making of giving the man the head role. Why was he the best choice ? No one has been able to give me a clear answer. I asked stillfire she ran away. Maybe vickybee can help answer. 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 8:07pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
cococandy: Logic??!! Logic??!!! You call that logic?? I say someone is insane, you are talking about logic LoL, the guy is reaching. Soon, feminism will be the reason for hurricane, HIV, cancer, flood and accidents. |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by babygirlfl: 8:08pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
bukatyne: I am very open to learning more from you on this issue. |
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