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Reasons Why Some Ladies May Remain Unmarried Part 2 by dayodare49o: 10:14pm On Apr 14, 2015
11. Manner of Approach: some ladies don't have manner of approach they don't think before they talk, they only reason after they talk. They have used their mouths to scare away their potential husbands.

12. Tribalistic and Racial Problems: Some ladies are not allowed to marry or be married because of differences in colours and in cultures. Their parents or their potential husbands' parents stand agaist them and all effort ends unfruitful.

13. Change of Location/Strange Land: Change of location sometimes makes some ladies to lose their potential husband maybe, the Lady or the potential husband travels abroad.

14. Daddy/Mummy's pet: Some ladies are their parents' pet, their parents are the ones chosen everything for them. School to go, cloth to wear, car to drive, friends to have and husbands to marry among others.

15. Being Secretive: some ladies are so secretive that potential husbands can not trust them, she wants to keep almost everything with herself so, a responsible guy will not want to be caught inescapable.

16. Past Records: some ladies are being hunted by their past and this will not allow a potential husband to be comfort around such ladies because they will not be cold non hot.

17. Indecisive: some ladies when the opportunity of potential husbands comes their ways, they are still on the middle of thinking of what next to do. Can I finish my education first? Can I get a good job first, maybe Tunji is also interested in me, before she knows what she was doing the potential husband has already gone.

18. Spiritual Bound: some ladies have been pledged to some gods and without fulfilling the spiritual pledge she will remain unmarried.

19. Family Challenge: some ladies spend all their lives helping their families. Training and educating her younger ones, providing financial support for her parents , she is so busy puting thing right for her parents not noticing that time is not by her side.

20. Out of Willingness: some ladies are beautiful, rich, responsible and men are ready to pay any amount for dowry but they choose to remain unmarried. Some of them are: Holy sisters, entertainers...

21. Professional career: some are busy pursuing their professional careers when they have to be in a place where they can be noticed by potential husbands.

22. Homosexuality: the rate at which homosexuality is growing around the world right now many ladies will not be able to attract potential husband.

Part 1 below
There are many factors why some ladies may remain unmarried, the factors are but not limited to:

1. Self-Acclaimed Beautification: Some of them are not as beautiful as they think. That makes them to draw all class of guys that may never come their ways.They remain in fantasy till all available guys marry all the younger ladies, husband don finish for ground.

2. Culture: Reduction in culture is what we call civilisation. The lower the culture the higher the civilisation. The ladies who are still strictly cultured and cultural may find it hard to marry because for example some cultures say you must remain virgin untill your wedding night but civilisation says if you don't let that guy sample you he may dump you. This makes some ladies to remain unmarried

3. Rate of Success : Some ladies start early in life. As at the time they are in their early 20s they achieve what only few guys achieve in their 40s, the ladies in this category may remain unmarried because potential husbands may think she is married, she engages in rough life to reach that height, some will say her taste would be too high to their means for these reasons and others the ladies may remain unmarried.

4 Religious Affiliate: Some are in religion where all protocols must be delligently followed. Who to marry, when to marry...are dictated by the religion authority. And many ladies who can not play out of the protocols may remain unmarried.

5. Economy Hardship: Potential husbands are unemployed. At mid 30s some don't have apartment of their own. Some live with parents, some with friends, some with family it won't be possible to marry in that situation and when they are ready their potential wivies might be too old for them they will then go for younger ones. some ladies may remain unmarried.

6. Level of Education: those ladies whose levels of education are too low might not be able to attract potential husbands. Because a lady's level of education might not if too low give a man a taste of what his planning for future. So some ladies in this category may remain unmarried.

7. Past Experience: Some guys have suffered in the hand of some girls and the experience remains fresh in their brains. Some guys will say, I don't want to marry, I am not ready...at the end by the time they will be ready the potential wives of yesterday would have been second-hand wives of today.

8. Time Spent in School: many ladies when their mates are getting married they are still schooling. By the time she is ready all the potential husbands must have married. So they may remain unmarried.

9. War: A country that is in war will have limited guys, the potential husbands would have been enlisted into military therefore, the remaining ones may not be enough to marry the ladies.

10. Over Populated Countries: These countries discourage marriages as a way to reduce population and therefore many ladies may remain unmarried.
Re: Reasons Why Some Ladies May Remain Unmarried Part 2 by Nobody: 10:20pm On Apr 14, 2015
op is dat u talking or gej,coz u r sounding more clueless like him everyday!

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Re: Reasons Why Some Ladies May Remain Unmarried Part 2 by dayodare49o: 10:25pm On Apr 14, 2015
Smartestelvis:
op is dat u talking or gej,coz u r sounding more clueless like him everyday!
I am not gej buy I am gejist. Ha ha his you must be lieuing IG you claim at least onr or two of all these do(es) not make sense .
Re: Reasons Why Some Ladies May Remain Unmarried Part 2 by Nobody: 10:36pm On Apr 14, 2015
Nice write up Op
Re: Reasons Why Some Ladies May Remain Unmarried Part 2 by vislabraye(m): 10:36pm On Apr 14, 2015
What about all the guys dey don friendzone nko ?
Re: Reasons Why Some Ladies May Remain Unmarried Part 2 by dayodare49o: 10:44pm On Apr 14, 2015
Lala247:
Nice write up Op
thank you jare.
Re: Reasons Why Some Ladies May Remain Unmarried Part 2 by dayodare49o: 10:49pm On Apr 14, 2015
vislabraye:
What about all the guys dey don friendzone nko ?
I pray they get their freedom o. Hmmm

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