How can one find it?

BoldJenny:
Here I am in my late 20s working in a coy u may term as one-man-biz but doing great. My boss happened to be in his mid 30s n ofcourse things flows for us that the least staff respects me like boss's wife Which the boss has never for one day ask me out other than job related matters.
Personally, I have feelings for him like most of you would do too. I try to surpress it but omg, d more I try, d more I fall for him. It's obvious he feels same way for me but for fear of what I don't know, he has refused to speak out.
What do I do to drive him to this point.
Least I forget, we drive home together like 3 out of 5 working days (other days he didn't come 2 d office ) we shares same opinion on virtually every thing. I know his friends n places he hangs out cos he won't forget to give me Monday fresh gist. Lol.
I really need to be this guy's wifey. I love him like oxygen.
Ur candid advice is needed ASAP. Thanks fellow nairalanders.

[size=30pt] ukandu! [/size]

Luck

@boldjenny, if you love him, be bold. Tell him.

Thread cautiously dear! You might be misinterpreting the young man's kind gestures.....all the best!

Hmmm, Maybe you should spill some files to the ground whenever you guys are coming from diff directions...he's gonna help me pack it while ur doing that also....do this like 3 times if the opportunity of you guys walking close to each other from diff directions occurs. I guess he's gonna ask u why u keep spilling files/documents to the ground whenever you sees him.

And u think all these things(gistin n hangin out) u mention will continue wn u end up forcing urself on him(becoming his wifey)

can u please wait till I get to my mid 30's before I can give u an answer.....I need to first be in that guys shoe first so I go no how e dey feel

Is it just me or is anybody thinking this lady is a gold digger

@temitemi that's my fear n I don't want to force it. It's over close to 2yrs now.
@adeyeancah we closer than file spilling act.
@anticent if I do, he will think or take me as one of d cheap girls he gists me about so that is ruled out.

I really don't know how to go about it.

If the job indeed is a well payed one,u wouldn't risk it coz I wonder why u wuld be inlove with ur Boss not d oda way round.... Miss BOLD better be BOLD enough 2 let go dat silly feeling n face ur job

Cutie love. Me likey. I think you should just chill and let him make the move which I think he'll make soon. And to make that faster, I think you should date someone else, it'll help him make up his mind faster when he sees you're about to go with someone else.

my sister what can i say?
Ok, do you know tha....

Adeyeancah:
Hmmm, Maybe you should spill some files to the ground whenever you guys are coming from diff directions...he's gonna help me pack it while ur doing that also....do this like 3 times if the opportunity of you guys walking close to each other from diff directions occurs. I guess he's gonna ask u why u keep spilling files/documents to the ground whenever you sees him.

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