I suggest your hubby sees a psychiatrist.

In as much as some guys like em curvy size10 is curvy enough.
When you begin to frequent the cardiovascular unit, he will be the first to complain.

I think he is a bit weird in this age and time.

Siena:

Spikey, the link in my signature tells all.

DeltaVAG^TM

Seen. You spend a lot of time in the Auto section huh?

Butter mint, howz it goin'?

I'm sorry but I don't believe this story. I think it's just a response to all the "My husband wants me to lose weight" threads. Just to raise the Thick Madams' spirits lol.

Joke? I find it very hard to believe men like this exist.

spikedcylinder:

Seen. You spend a lot of time in the Auto section huh?

Butter mint, howz it goin'?

can see you are feeling good. lol

Not yet o. . . . later.

I will pretend I did not see the 2 posts before mine

Siena:

Your husband sounds like a control freak.
Trying to justify cheating, by saying he prefers you heavier?
So, he'd rather you were heavier, and miserable to stoke his sagging ego.
I'm not going to pussy-foot around this, I'm going to be blunt - ditch the looser.
Sorry to be so harsh, but is this the sort of monster you'd rather spend the rest of your life with?

DeltaVAG^TM

Yippee, Siena is back in the romance/family section and raring to go

is that woman really married?

Busy_body:

I will pretend I did not see the 2 posts before mine

you just did not see nuffin

Busy_body:





Yippee, Siena is back in the romance/family section and raring to go

I will pretend I did not see this

See this agaba publicly cheating with my boo

@ topic

You need to investigate further - is your weight really the reason why he's cheating?

There seems to be something else fundamentally wrong in the relationship. I don't think any man should be so far gone on a physical preference and cheat due to any change.

in the paintd senario it is not about the wieght it is the guy. her is simply unfathfull and would still go after another woman anyway!!

debosky:

See this agaba publicly cheating with my boo

No, the university will expel me if i cheat. I no de carry mgbo walahi. let alone for public

Topic.

Do not add weight.

Ha ha!
I guess this is one gist that your busy body cannot penetrate.
Aswerigawd, Agaba was teaching me mathematics o!

spikedcylinder:

Ha ha!
I guess this is one gist that your busy body cannot penetrate.
Aswerigawd, Agaba was teaching me mathematics o!

ok ! get your sharpner ready. I will bring the pencil. you have to understand it today or else.

Topic

you need self esteem. you need to be healthy above all

Sharpener-penetrating-pencil, wow, is that the latest technology in town This is one all-night maths lesson I cannot afford to miss Debosky darling, you would have to understand



@ Topic

Is he genuinely one of those men who likes big women?

Did he start cheating/going on porn sites after you lost weight?

debosky:

See this agaba publicly cheating with my boo

Darling Debo, its not what you saw honest We were just discussing the rudiments of Mathematics, thats all, ask Spikedcylinder, she will tell you

See how I have been making you proud here Darling Debosky See me representing my hubby's renowned brainy brain here [size=5pt]Scroll to the bottom of each posts, I goofed in the first one, and tried to cover my hide in the second post by continuing to goof on, lol. Children of nowadays, if you don’t use your brain, you will lose it, lol [/size]

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-220877.32.html#msg3384707


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-220877.32.html#msg3387618

Whatever u do, do not pile on weight to please him
do watever pleases u

ROTFLMAO!!!!
Your replies are just so. . . .  
Butter mint, there is fire on the mountain o

tope2000:

Whatever u do, do not pile on weight to please him
do watever pleases u

But she wants to save her marriage na Hmmn, wonders shall never end

Busy_body:


But she wants to save her marriage na Hmmn, wonders shall never end

Do u really think the man will stop cheating even if she turns into iya OFILIGANGAN

tope2000:

Do u really think the man will stop cheating even if she turns into iya OFILIGANGAN

Since she has categorically stated that she does not want to leave her marriage, she could try to put the weight back on, but if he still continues to cheat, maybe she can now come back to open another thread for advise or what do you think?

Busy_body:


Since she has categorically stated that she does not want to leave her marriage, she could try to put the weight back on, but if he still continues to cheat, maybe she can now come back to open another thread for advise or what do you think?

Gini?? open another thread ke
What wud the thread topic be

Busy_body:

Sharpener-penetrating-pencil, wow, is that the latest technology in town This is one all-night maths lesson I cannot afford to miss Debosky darling, you would have to understand

Are you also interested in the lesson. Just come with a sharpener also. if you have a pencil you can bring it along.

spikedcylinder:

ROTFLMAO!!!!
Your replies are just so. . . .  
Butter mint, there is fire on the mountain o

Run run run! Ok the fire is out.

Busy_body:


Darling Debo, its not what you saw honest We were just discussing the rudiments of Mathematics, thats all, ask Spikedcylinder, she will tell you

See how I have been making you proud here Darling Debosky See me representing my hubby's renowned brainy brain here [size=5pt]Scroll to the bottom of each posts, I goofed in the first one, and tried to cover my hide in the second post by continuing to goof on, lol. Children of nowadays, if you don’t use your brain, you will lose it, lol [/size]

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-220877.32.html#msg3384707


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-220877.32.html#msg3387618

You mean he is blind, long or shortsighted? Debosky, how do you type then?

@topic
Never let him treat you like s cumbag. But try and maitain your marriage. talk to him about how you feel

Agaba wetin be your own? Abeg comot for hubby and wifey matter!

@ B_B you making me proud hun, I see we are getting more and more alike by the day

Does he promise to stop cheating if you gain weight? What is you gain more than he wants, will that be a problem as well? \
Men can't be too picky about this weight thingy - it should be a preference, not an all consuming obsession.

Darling Dee, if you are going to become like me, that is not a good thing, it is a no no

tope2000:

Gini?? open another thread ke
What wud the thread topic be

[s]I was trying not to laugh when I was typing that too [/s]

Tope, behave yourself, this is no laughing matter

Lol @ Iya Ofiligan gan.

So funny!!!

Busy_body:


[s]I was trying not to laugh when I was typing that too [/s]

Tope, behave yourself, this is no laughing matter

Lmao . . . .i know it isnt but this matter get as e be o
I guess she shud go back to her normal size i dont knw wat advice to give anymore

spikedcylinder:

Lol @ Iya Ofiligan gan.

So funny!!!

Abi na
maybe the man will stop cheating

Pray about it, it is not an issue of figure but that of obsession. It is spiritual.

Some men prefer big women while some prefer skinny women. I used to like skinny women when I didn't know the kind of woman I want. Now I know, I prefer women that are not too big or too skinny, just healthy weight. There was this lady[prospective wife] I met and we were planning to be together. She wasn't that big, so I didn't see her for about a year or two. So when I saw her she have lost a lot of weight. My attraction went from %100 to %0. I just told her that I have lost interest in her. So the relationship ended. No talking or anything like that.

For ladies if a guy likes you and want to be with you, your weight big or skinny have something to do with it. Changing it might make him change his mind about you, is just that simple. But a good man after marriage will not think about divorce just because of weight but a good woman should not be concerned about her weight, she should be concerned about being healthy and taking good care of the family.

Also remember that being skinny doesn't mean the lady is healthy. Skinny means she is starving her self and not getting essential minerals the body needs which means she is likely to get sick easily. Being fat not fat fat[too fat is not healthy] but a little fat doesn't always mean the lady is unhealthy. For ladies who don't know, studies have found that fat women are less like to have breast cancer compared to skinny women. If you think is a lie ask a good doctor.

Fat[not too fat] to me means the lady is free and not too concerned about peer pressure, eats well and is healthy. Skinny is annoying. So the lady I mentioned above seing her was kind of annoying. So I don't think there is a man who wants to be with an annoying looking woman.

What I don't believe is that there are people who don't believe that this may be a real case scenerio: some men really prefer "fat" women to "skinny" ones. All through history definition of women beauty has revolved from Nephertiti to the fat Mona Lisa. Anybody remember the Calabar fattening houses where prospective wives from wealthy families go to pad on weight so that they could attract good husband? The story of men who like fat women more than thin women is real, and there's no reason to disbelieve that.

ive heard of that calabar houses, i think its scary, and didnt they fatten them but also teach them how to cook and all those things a wife should know? so as to please tha man , well i think she should stay happy even if it means leaving her man ,,,,

um let me add i didnt know nigerian men not alll!! liked fat women , i thought that was fake .intresting.