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Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by morereb10: 9:27pm On Apr 22, 2015
Exlink Lodge Fan Story and Advice is Needed.

My name is Bob and am from Enugu State.

I met a lady who is about 43 years old and am only 27 years old. She is big and I am a slim type of guy. I really love everything about her and regardless of the age difference, my intention is to make her my wife.

She introduced me to her son and he is almot 21years old and he is a nice guy and all that. in fact I love her more cuz I liked his son so much. very jovial and well mannered. All have been going well and I have also intruduced her to my parents and they had no problem with her even though my mum joked that she need to reduce cuz she is fat.

I was relieved when everything is going as plannned until I dreamt one day and someone told me in the dream that she is hidding something from me. when I confronted her she denied it and I had the dream again for upto 5 times.

I was now damn serious and ask her to tell.me what it is. but before that, I have beem living with her. am still a fresh graduate without a job and am staying with a woman who is old enogh to be my mother, I thought that is the best I can do for myself now since she is well to do and a nice person to be with.

to cut the long story shot, I have been living with her and two other girls whom she told me is her causins. the two girls because of their foolishness, both of them got pregnant for different men that can't even takia of them. And my friends, I became a father overnight. had to nurse their babies because the gave birth in our house.

Anyway, after confronting her again regarding my dreams, she now told me that the two girls are her daughters. Damn. I didn't know what to do again. I have beem with her for almot 3 years and living her feels like bitrayal or is it still because I don't have a job? I don't even understand myself anymore.

I even hide it from my parents and also agreed for a traditional wedding which we have done already. is anything wrong with me? she can even give me a child for 5 years now. each time she gets pregnant, it would last a week or 2 weeks it will become miscariage.

each time I get fustrated and get angry she will make comments like, she will make sure my life is useless if I ever leave her, that my life will become a sorry life. she will even say after I wasted her time that I want to leave. who is wasting who's time my brodas? I don't know what to do.

To.make the matter worst, I can't even look for job cuz she considers it an insult to her personality. she will always ask me how much are they going to.pay u? I don't want. my man working under one oga, all sorts of things. And my brother, if we go.out together, they will call her my mum and call.me his son. am.fade up and I have no were to go.

She didn't only have 3 children, she now have two grand children and the 3 children she had is from different fathers. I think am under a spell. I don't know what to do.

Please don't advice me guys tell me what to do. am not only confused, am derainged.
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by thorpido(m): 9:33pm On Apr 22, 2015
Is this one from Kannywood?

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Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by temitemi1(m): 9:39pm On Apr 22, 2015
Brother u need to go back to ur dream abeg grin grin grin

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Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by Noloss(f): 9:42pm On Apr 22, 2015
This is super story! Abeg which episode we dey?
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by ivyy(f): 9:42pm On Apr 22, 2015
What rubbish angry
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by Blizzyblinkzy(f): 9:44pm On Apr 22, 2015
Ehya... :/:|
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by kolomax(m): 9:54pm On Apr 22, 2015
Op what's the title of. The movie please
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by tpiadotcom: 9:55pm On Apr 22, 2015
This story is too s.tupid to read.
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by MrsChima(f): 9:56pm On Apr 22, 2015
A young Nigerian boy marrying old woman

I know it is not for papers....she got to be rich if it is true!
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by GoodFaith: 9:58pm On Apr 22, 2015
What is a 27 year old man doing with 43 year old woman with three kids?
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by Nobody: 10:01pm On Apr 22, 2015
Finding and holding down a decent job in Nigeria is a big challenge yet you decided to swim into a way sterner challenge by getting hitched to a MILF?

Brother are you a masochist?

Why are you doing this to yourself?

Do you miss your high school drama department or are you only trying to test the man you are?

I'm concerned.
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by Nobody: 10:07pm On Apr 22, 2015
And you couldn't date any of the daughters. Dude, your last statement said it all. You are confused and deranged.
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by Nobody: 10:23pm On Apr 22, 2015
You see how you re complicating your life?

At 27, you want to marry, no job, no house. Who will pay bride price? Or is it groom price?

Now the person you re marrying is 42. How many kids will see give birth to for u, before she reaches menopause? Will you share wealth with her kids?

Me feel you re either greedy or lack ambition and direction or you re immature.

As for the woman, she's just using you to satisfy her sexual urges and fulfil her fantasies.


But it's your life, whatever rocks your boat. That is assuming this story is true!
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by pwerrymansion(f): 10:58pm On Apr 22, 2015
I didn't bother reading all,I stopped when I got to the part f the woman's son being his age mate. Dem don swear for am from Village! He needs 50 koboko and a thorough bath @ the stream in His village by a 90yr old virgin! undecided lipsrsealed joseph d dreamer!
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by daben1(m): 11:08pm On Apr 22, 2015
Na you be the only igbo guy wey no dey use in head.
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by kilode100(f): 11:13pm On Apr 22, 2015
The story and comments make lol. cheesy

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Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by tayoxx(m): 11:32pm On Apr 22, 2015
ndlea where are youu....This op na drug suspect....Make una con arrest am....
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by joseph1832(m): 12:03am On Apr 23, 2015
pwerrymansion:
I didn't bother reading all,I stopped when I got to the part f the woman's son being his age mate. Dem don swear for am from Village! He needs 50 koboko and a thorough bath @ the stream in His village by a 90yr old virgin! undecided lipsrsealed joseph d dreamer!
Erm must you use my name to drive home your point? Lol. grin
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by pwerrymansion(f): 12:20am On Apr 23, 2015
joseph1832:
Erm must you use my name to drive home your point? Lol. grin
lol grin......you dream as well?
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by joseph1832(m): 5:49am On Apr 23, 2015
pwerrymansion:
lol grin......you dream as well?
grin
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by Raiders: 6:02am On Apr 23, 2015
MrsChima:
A young Nigerian boy marrying old woman

I know it is not for papers....she got to be rich if it is true!
must it be about papers and money to you. Some Nigeria guys are attracted to and only date older women.I don't mind dating a lady 10 yrs older than me. Also some mature women will only date young guys. People have different preference and its not always about money or paper so stop stereotyping.
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by cyprianlah(m): 6:10am On Apr 23, 2015
If ah read dis ur super story finish maka bend cry
Nice script tho, wen wil u release d muvi
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by MrsChima(f): 6:30am On Apr 23, 2015
Raiders:
must it be about papers and money to you. Some Nigeria guys are attracted to and only date older women.I don't mind dating a lady 10 yrs older than me. Also some mature women will only date young guys. People have different preference and its not always about money or paper so stop stereotyping.

It is true but it is Nigerian boy we are talking about! grin
Re: Wedding Problems: She Lied To Me, She Have 3 Children Already by laytoshtwo: 6:57am On Apr 23, 2015
All na dream,you will soon wake up,can't imagine having access to nairaland in your dreamq

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