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8 Signs A Guy Like You by etazi0001: 9:34am On Apr 24, 2015
Want to know if the guy you secretly like
feels the same? Don’t want to make a fool
of yourself by misreading the signals?
A little knowledge of the behaviour of
the opposite sex can go a long way
towards being able to read the signals so that your blushes are spared and your
love life flourishes. Let’s be honest, you
can never be 100% certain that the
handsome guy you see every day on the
bus is into you, but there are several signs
that you can look out for which will leave you pretty sure he likes you. We’ve
gathered the most commons ones so that
you’re fully armed in the romance
game…. #1 – It’s All In His Eyes The eyes have it ( image source ) Put simply, if a guy likes you, he will
look at you a lot. You might feel as
though he’s checking you out but
suddenly turns away when he’s been
rumbled. Could it be pure coincidence?
The key is that if it happens more than once, he probably likes you and wants you
to know as much. Of course, with a shy
guy, you may have to be more patient as
the glances may not be as obvious but he
will still want to look at you. Just be
sure that it’s because he wants to know you and not because the new dress you’ve
bought is, unknown to you, actually see-
through! | LEAVE A
RESPONSE #2 – You Make Him Nervous His nervousness is a good sign ( image source) Does he appear nervous or fidgety when
he’s around you? Flustered? Or maybe
even a little awkward? The chances are
he’s anxious about making a good
impression because he likes you and
doesn’t want to scupper any chance he might have of getting to know you better.
You might even notice him quickly looking
away when you’ve caught him looking at
you. Either way, all of the above are
green lights for you to let him know,
subtlely of course, that the feeling is mutual. Just hope that his sweaty palms
will disappear when the nerves subside!VE A
RESPONSE #3 – He Checks For Your Reaction Your reaction matters to him ( image source) He likes you and he wants to know that
you’re interested in or amused by what he
has to say. So don’t be surprised when, if
he says something funny, he looks
towards you before anyone else as he
wants to know that you’ve found it funny. Your reaction to what he says
matters to him more than anyone else’s. It
might only be a brief, subtle glance
towards you following the punchline, but
be ready for it because it’s an indication
that you’re the one that he wants! Of course, if you do genuinely like him, then
you might have to fake a laugh even if
you didn’t really find it that funny!#4 – He Wants To Touch You His touch is a good sign ( image source ) So you think he might like you? If he
finds excuses to touch you, then he
probably does. He might place his hand
on yours when he laughs, or put his hand
on your back when he speaks into your ear
so he can be heard above the noise, or even touch his leg to yours but not move it
away again so as to maintain that
physical contact. They’re all signs that
he wants to get to know you better so feel
free to touch him back if you like him.
Basically, the more contact he makes, the more he likes you. Needless to say, if he
opens up with ‘Is that a new bra?’ and
then continues to try to confirm his
suspicions, then you can be certain that
he’s not the one for you…#5 – He’s Interested In What You
Like And Do He’ll show an interest ( image source ) OK, so he might not seem like the type of
guy who’s into the TV programmes that
you like to watch but the fact that he
wants to know more about them has got to
be a good sign, hasn’t it? He’s interested
in you and that includes what you like to watch, listen to, do, not do…. you get the
message. If you’ve shared your favourite
band with him and then next time you see
him, he can’t stop talking about them,
then you can be pretty sure that he’s
taken the effort to learn more about them. In short, he’s done this so that he
has something in common with you in order
to get closer to you. Let’s just say that
your mutual love of hardcore punk is
probably not a coincidence!#6 – His Body Says ‘Yes, yes, yes!’ His body doesn’t lie ( image source ) The experts continue to tell us just how
significant body language is to
communication in all areas of life. Read
it well and you’re bound to know if he
really likes you. In a nutshell, if he leans
into you with his shoulders square to you, without turning his back, then it’s likely
he’s already given himself away – he
likes you. Add to that his frequent
leaning towards you that is mirrored by
you and his desire to get just that little
bit closer as a result, then you can be pretty certain that he really likes you.
Just hope that, when he’s welcomed into
your personal space, he doesn’t let
himself down by forgetting to have
brushed his teeth!#7 – He’s Often Where You Are He wants to be where you are ( image source) Have you noticed recently that he often
pops up at places where you are? It’s
pretty obvious that he wants to be close to
you, especially if it’s been happening
quite a lot in a short space of time. He’s
making a deliberate effort to get to know you and feels that spending more
time in the same places as you, even if not
in your direct company, will increase his
chances. He may be shy so, if you like
him, maybe you’ll need to give him some
encouragement that his efforts are not in vain. Naturally, if he seems to be at
every single place where you are without
fail, including sat on the kerb outside
your house at midnight, then the word
stalker comes to mind…#8 – He Doesn’t Talk About His
Favourite Subject – Himself! He’ll want to learn more about you (image source ) In all honesty, we all like to talk about
ourselves and men are no exception – just
listen in on the chitter-chatter of the
guys on the next table to you. You know
you’ve got his attention when he keeps
schtum, holds your gaze and genuinely listens to what you have to say. We’re not
saying it must be true love, but he
probably has a thing for you. Remember,
he likes you and wants to know more about
you so it’s only natural that he directs
the spotlight from himself, a subject he already knows a great deal about, to the
object of his desire. That’s YOU, just
in case you’re wondering!

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Re: 8 Signs A Guy Like You by agarawu23(m): 9:35am On Apr 24, 2015
with your points he can like her and the likeness might not be love.

explain your (image source) cos I don't get it.

Op try and space your write up so ppl can read clearly
Re: 8 Signs A Guy Like You by ammyluv2002(f): 9:39am On Apr 24, 2015
A guy can do all these you mentioned yet won't even feel a thing about the babe and same goes for the ladies.



True love exist though
Re: 8 Signs A Guy Like You by ATMC(f): 9:39am On Apr 24, 2015
#smiles.
Re: 8 Signs A Guy Like You by p2t2r(m): 9:41am On Apr 24, 2015
I agree wif u 2an extent. Buh your number one is wrong sha! Whether a guy likes a girl or not, all it takes for any guys eyes to be stuck to any girl is a very nice and well packaged as's. It doesn't have to be feelings oriented.
Re: 8 Signs A Guy Like You by Jayjay0(m): 9:43am On Apr 24, 2015
cry
Re: 8 Signs A Guy Like You by Nobody: 9:43am On Apr 24, 2015
@op pls nor vess o, i read am reach half way na sleep wan con catch me, "abeg summarize am then i go drop my comment.
Re: 8 Signs A Guy Like You by Jayjay0(m): 9:45am On Apr 24, 2015
liesss..i do all that just to get the punny...
Re: 8 Signs A Guy Like You by Aybee92(m): 9:59am On Apr 24, 2015
make I buy land first





oya make I go read d post nowgrin

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