Lagos socialite Joro Olumofin is out with a new write-up where he dishes out on 10 tips for getting a boyfriend.

He shared the tips on his Instagram page saying:

(1) Remove guys from your friendzone list:
“Friendzone” is a mental classification or categorization of a guy or group of guys in a lady’s mind I.e she sees a guy as a non sexual object or as a brother. Some single  ladies today see having a lot of guys on their friendzone list as an achievement or an award, they enjoy the fact that guys keep trying to get their attention or approval while they call him things like “bro” , “cuz” , “G” “padi” as a means to discourage him from trying to talk to them.. My question is if you’re single and you’re looking for a boyfriend why have so many guys as just friends without giving them chances? Or opportunities to prove themselves. Marriage counsellors have revealed that most couples were initially just friends or co-workers. Un-friendzone some guys and see where it leads, you may just be swept off your feet..

2) Smile Often ; Look Approachable:

A lot of guys are discouraged to approach a Lady who has a strong or mean face. They may be scared of instant rejection or think you’re just mean. Primacy Effect in Psychology makes emphasis on first impression being an important factor in perception. So Ladies if your face is strong and your heart is soft make an effort to smile more.

(3) Change your normal routine (try a new church, bar, cinema, beach) :

If you’re a single lady and you’ve been attending the same church, cinema, bars for the past 16 months and there is no visible suitor I suggest you switch the branch of your church from Ikeja to Surulere, or Apapa to VI. This is a Process known as randomization; doing something different or attending new places will give you a new set of possibilities of meeting new suitors.

(4) Eliminate Distractions :

(Exs, Single minded friends, friends with benefits etc ) : Exs that just hang around like vultures waiting for drunk sex to happen again or standing in your way of moving forward  need to GO, “single minded friends ” ladies you may have that friend or “friends” who wants you to be single because she’s single too and it’s ok for you to have a boyfriend only when she has a boyfriend, that friend/ friends needs to go, friends with benefits only create a mirage in your mind because you’re being emotionally and physically satisfied but there isn’t any strong commitment so you find yourself in a quandary or dilemma because you’re living for the moment and not the future.

(5) Open Mindset and Reasonable Standards :

Some Ladies have crafted and created their boyfriends or husbands in their minds, they have played the role of creator in the Cognitive Archetypes so any guy who doesn’t meet a particular standard or level shouldn’t even bother walking up to them. No one is saying lower your standards but there are a lot of guys with potential out there…not everyone can be 100% and complete when you meet them.

(6) Go out less with your friends :

Obviously this doesn’t mean you should be a recluse but there are sometimes when you should just be that pretty or stunning lady at the mall or movies. Studies have shown that men feel more comfortable approaching a lady who is alone than with a group of ladies. Some ladies feel uncomfortable or think it’s a taboo to go out alone and feel that they would look desperate or awkward but ladies write your own rules, what works for others may not work for you..

(7) Be Active on social media :

some people may disagree but social media when used properly can be a good medium for meeting people. Some ladies from January to August don’t post a single picture of themselves, their favorite football club, favorite movie, favorite political party on their BBM or Instagram they are basically Ghosts and observers. By posting a picture of anything you can attract a similar mind like yourself for you to at least start a conversation. It takes just one conversation to start something special

Attend organizations that are 60% male dominated ( gym, dance club, weddings) :

Attending the gym often is not only good for giving you a great body but also for  meeting guys and you being the centre of attraction, weddings are the most popular in recent times and there are more males than females at weddings. Weddings have been credited for initiating a lot of marriages and relationships

(9) Rebrand / Repackage yourself:

While Staying true to yourself and upholding your ideals and goals. Focus on making yourself better than who you were yesterday by hard work, eating healthy, networking, working out, SELF LOVE and attitudinal orientation because if you don’t believe in your self no one will believe in you

(10) Pray: this is the most Important factor when searching for a boyfriend. Prayer does things that science cannot explain.

Remember having a boyfriend doesn’t make you complete, and being single doesn’t make you incomplete. Above all do what makes you happy and what is beneficial to you, stay true to yourself and have reasonable standards … #DoktorMofin



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7) Be Active on social media :



No wonder Nairaland keep increasing daily with new members. And dey will still be forming "I don't reply PM's ". *yimu*

TRADELYN:

Dis tha reason why girls friend zone your likes

Airforce1:


Dis tha reason why girls friend zone your likes

Hmm...no comment!

gud one op.

Lols....... Ireneony is gonna start grinning from ear to ear like an over-fed baby crocodile to attract Seun.

Airforce1:


Dis tha reason why girls friend zone your likes

I think i like this list. Time to have a real boyfriend

ON POINT

hunnmm,so we men na hotcake for ladies nowadays




Gone are the days when my dad used to throw stone in my mum father's house just to call style style call her out .

Gone are the days when my grandpa has to go and meet my mum parents to beg for their daughter

Gone are the days when Me and friends had to go to night market in village market to look for girls

Gone are the days when I had to spend for ladies before she can accept to kiss me


who says this world is not a Man's World

World has turned to other face

Me ni know say e hard for girl to get bf o

.

After these, I'm sure some girls are still gonna ask "How do I attract a guy" from google.

Wat abt tips for gettin a girlfrnd... am not gettin any younger

Airforce1:
Lagos socialite Joro Olumofin is out with a new write-up where he dishes out on 10 tips for getting a boyfriend.

He shared the tips on his Instagram page saying:

(1) Remove guys from your friendzone list:
“Friendzone” is a mental classification or categorization of a guy or group of guys in a lady’s mind I.e she sees a guy as a non sexual object or as a brother. Some single  ladies today see having a lot of guys on their friendzone list as an achievement or an award, they enjoy the fact that guys keep trying to get their attention or approval while they call him things like “bro” , “cuz” , “G” “padi” as a means to discourage him from trying to talk to them.. My question is if you’re single and you’re looking for a boyfriend why have so many guys as just friends without giving them chances? Or opportunities to prove themselves. Marriage counsellors have revealed that most couples were initially just friends or co-workers. Un-friendzone some guys and see where it leads, you may just be swept off your feet..

2) Smile Often ; Look Approachable:

A lot of guys are discouraged to approach a Lady who has a strong or mean face. They may be scared of instant rejection or think you’re just mean. Primacy Effect in Psychology makes emphasis on first impression being an important factor in perception. So Ladies if your face is strong and your heart is soft make an effort to smile more.

(3) Change your normal routine (try a new church, bar, cinema, beach) :

If you’re a single lady and you’ve been attending the same church, cinema, bars for the past 16 months and there is no visible suitor I suggest you switch the branch of your church from Ikeja to Surulere, or Apapa to VI. This is a Process known as randomization; doing something different or attending new places will give you a new set of possibilities of meeting new suitors.

(4) Eliminate Distractions :

(Exs, Single minded friends, friends with benefits etc ) : Exs that just hang around like vultures waiting for drunk sex to happen again or standing in your way of moving forward  need to GO, “single minded friends ” ladies you may have that friend or “friends” who wants you to be single because she’s single too and it’s ok for you to have a boyfriend only when she has a boyfriend, that friend/ friends needs to go, friends with benefits only create a mirage in your mind because you’re being emotionally and physically satisfied but there isn’t any strong commitment so you find yourself in a quandary or dilemma because you’re living for the moment and not the future.

(5) Open Mindset and Reasonable Standards :

Some Ladies have crafted and created their boyfriends or husbands in their minds, they have played the role of creator in the Cognitive Archetypes so any guy who doesn’t meet a particular standard or level shouldn’t even bother walking up to them. No one is saying lower your standards but there are a lot of guys with potential out there…not everyone can be 100% and complete when you meet them.

(6) Go out less with your friends :

Obviously this doesn’t mean you should be a recluse but there are sometimes when you should just be that pretty or stunning lady at the mall or movies. Studies have shown that men feel more comfortable approaching a lady who is alone than with a group of ladies. Some ladies feel uncomfortable or think it’s a taboo to go out alone and feel that they would look desperate or awkward but ladies write your own rules, what works for others may not work for you..

(7) Be Active on social media :

some people may disagree but social media when used properly can be a good medium for meeting people. Some ladies from January to August don’t post a single picture of themselves, their favorite football club, favorite movie, favorite political party on their BBM or Instagram they are basically Ghosts and observers. By posting a picture of anything you can attract a similar mind like yourself for you to at least start a conversation. It takes just one conversation to start something special

Attend organizations that are 60% male dominated ( gym, dance club, weddings) :

Attending the gym often is not only good for giving you a great body but also for  meeting guys and you being the centre of attraction, weddings are the most popular in recent times and there are more males than females at weddings. Weddings have been credited for initiating a lot of marriages and relationships

(9) Rebrand / Repackage yourself:

While Staying true to yourself and upholding your ideals and goals. Focus on making yourself better than who you were yesterday by hard work, eating healthy, networking, working out, SELF LOVE and attitudinal orientation because if you don’t believe in your self no one will believe in you

(10) Pray: this is the most Important factor when searching for a boyfriend. Prayer does things that science cannot explain.

Remember having a boyfriend doesn’t make you complete, and being single doesn’t make you incomplete. Above all do what makes you happy and what is beneficial to you, stay true to yourself and have reasonable standards … #DoktorMofin



Credit: Instagram

For all my niggas out der, dat has been friend zoned dis preview shows dat der is still hope...

Another Yoruba millionaire.

I thought Yorubas were poor?

Yorubs making money silently.

The man is fine tho. Damn.

2) Smile Often ; Look Approachable:

A lot of guys are discouraged to approach a Lady who has a strong or mean face. They may be scared of instant rejection or think you’re just mean. Primacy Effect in Psychology makes emphasis on first impression being an important factor in perception. So Ladies if your face is strong and your heart is soft make an effort to smile more.

This one is on point

TRADELYN:
All these just to get a boyfriend?

What if na 4 husband nko?

Even the Ten commandments required to make heaven weren't this much

Lol... Teach Us Better Thing

If I am worth 1M does dat make me a millionaire? Cos am confused about my financial status.

(6) Go out less with your friends :

Obviously this doesn’t mean you should be a recluse but there are sometimes when you should just be that pretty or stunning lady at the mall or movies. Studies have shown that men feel more comfortable approaching a lady who is alone than with a group of ladies. Some ladies feel uncomfortable or think it’s a taboo to go out alone and feel that they would look desperate or awkward but ladies write your own rules, what works for others may not work for you..



I quite agree on this one.

..

Tips on tips on tips. Na jamb to find bf. I'm available jarey

Larrysky:
I think i like this list. Time to have a real boyfriend

re u aving fake b4?

I dont know dis guy but i think he dam hit the right buttons. This is not about being cheap, u get to be out there to be seeing.

agarawu23:
7) Be Active on social media :

No wonder Nairaland keep increasing daily with new members. And dey will still be forming "I don't reply PM's ". *yimu*

I just laugh when I read those.

I know they'll def respond to a pm from Denzel or LL Cool J though