“Pls ma, I’m actually going through an emotional trauma right now. My man just called it quit, though not through fight or whatever.

I am from the eastern (igbo) and he is from the western. And we’ve been dating now for quite some time and he made it known to me that he really wanna get married to me. I really do love him too. He made me so close to his friends and his siblings and cousins except his mom and dad, because his mom is late and his dad is a very busy type, but since we were still just still dating I wasn’t bothered about not meeting his dad yet.

Now, the problem is, he’s a BSc holder and working fine and he has an establishment too, but I am just an OND holder, which I still plan to further but not having enough source because of family background. He is aware of all this.

We’ve been together for 10months.

Just recently I suspected he was having another affair with another girl, so when I confronted him, he denied at first, but later opened up to me that it was true. I asked him his reason, and he said “I wanna get someone I can be serious with” and someone with a BSc‎. He pleaded with me on his kneels when I started weeping because it was so shocking to me. Like I wasn’t good enough for him? Please ma I really need your advice…”


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mumu guy

will like to know the Guy's age because wat bsc/ond gat to do with relationship shld be explained.

Just tell the babe you don't love her anymore instead of giving silly excuse.

So sorry dear, move on with ur life.. , it is well,

elsieisy:
I asked him his reason, and he said “I wanna get someone I can be serious with”

She jus got d answer to all her question... He wasn't serious with her, she shud pack d broken pieces of her heart and move on

adeekiti:
So sorry dear, move on with ur life.. Talk to me on 08153665659, it is well

the op didn't ask for mobile number

agarawu23:
the op didn't ask for mobile number

I tire ooooooo

agarawu23:
the op didn't ask for mobile number

bros why u comment before me, I'm doing my job so leave the matter to me, how ur day dey go oga agarawu

echobee:

I tire ooooooo

wetin make u tire Aunty echo

naijaboiy:

You just gat no chill.

guy wetin be chill

Babe move on with your life and further your education. Don't let any1 intimidate you, life is too short for that bull$hit

naijaboiy:

You no fit chill

talk am again bros, be more audible sir

zealot4me:
Babe move on with your life and further your education. Don't let any1 intimidate you, life is too short for that bull$hit

ma, I rebuke ur Dp in jesu name

adeekiti:
talk am again bros, be more audible sir

naijaboiy:

use speaker for Nairaland sir, abi Nairaland no get voice note

adeekiti:
ma, I rebuke ur Dp in jesu name

Lol

So Bsc means say she go get money or make a better wife?

If him no want u, move on, u will definitely get someone who wants u for u

Let her just move, he doesn't deserve her, if having an OND can be one of the reasons he is dumping you, there will be no for better or worse in the marriage. During ur worse he will just dump you

DanceVille:
Proof please

Imagine this scenario; A young girl of eight witnesses the coldblooded murder of her parents.

Would you say it was God's work and he planned it?

Scenario 2; A guy leaves the office for lunch break, because he doesn't like to be disturbed while eating he switched his phone to silent mode. His boss has an urgent task for him, calls him severally but he doesn't pick. As a result, his boss fires him.

My Friend, would you say it was God's work and he planned that too?


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