is it right? my bf of one year want me to go to his house and kind of show myself to his parents, i feel its not just ok.he is in usa now, but before he travel we've not gone to their house before. so now he said his parent are disturbing him to bring his gf home,is it not whenever he comes back that we go together

I dont see anything abnormal abt it
many girls will kill for that opportunity

Hey, if u know u love that boy and he is asking u to visit his parents, don't wast time, do u know how many girls have lose their friend all in the name of distance?? the guy want his parent to seeu, he will have more confident if u will frequent and be friendly to his parents. There is no abnormality in this, grab ur opportunity my dear.

plappville:

Hey, if u know u love that boy and he is asking u to visit his parents, don't wast time, do u know how many girls have lose their friend all in the name of distance?? the guy want his parent to seeu, he will have more confident if u will frequent and be friendly to his parents. There is no abnormality in this, grab ur opportunity my dear.

i have never been there before.so i will just go there and start introducing myself?[color=#006600][/color]

sweetmum:

i have never been there before.so i will just go there and start introducing myself?[color=#006600][/color]

Everything starts in a day, ur guy might have told his parents about u, if he is asking u to visit them then tell him to call when u will be with his parents for the first time so that he can formally introduce u on phone, this could reduce ur shyness or whatever it maybe.

Babe,

please only for this time, try and put protocols behind you

at times it doesn't help

I dont get it, What is ur problem exactly??

Dont you want to meet them?
If his parents actually want to see you, make hast and go if your serious!! Unless ur not serious with the guy,

;d ;d ;d ;d

He wants his parents to check you out to see if you measure up or maybe he really loves you. It is all up to you. Do what you feel comfortable with. I personally do not like the idea but I can't tell you to do anything else. Who knows he might be your one true love

It'll be quite uncomfortable for her to go and meet up with his parents without his physical presence there. Families range. . . . .

I dont get it, how in Gods name will she walk into a house and start introducing herself, as who nw?

for me its abnormal,if he really wants u to meet his parent its 2 way here,

If he cant come over and take u to them,then the parents will have to come see u,

Yes come see u,because right now u are not only important to the son but the family,

The perseption u create in them at this stage rilly matters,if u go there is like u desperate abt the whole thing even though they knw,they have been presurising thier son abt it

Am an only sister of 5boys,and abt 6 brother in-laws,so i have an idea of whts like bringing a woman home.

He has to take u home!

Sweetmum, protocols does not count in some many cases. Put it behind you and do what ur guy wants u to do hence he is not in town and you know you love him.

All he needs to do is to introduce you to the parents before you go there. Also he needs to give you his mum's phone no. and yours to the mum so that she can invite you and you chat with her before going.

Sefeni

Exactly!

Going to his family house when he's not there (and when its the first meeting) reeks of desperation.

spike cylinder and temi I agree with you

Not totally a bad idea.
You said the relationship is just i yr old so i bet it was too early for him to take u to his parents b4 he left.Perharps the parents are disturbing him now hence hes asking u to go see them

Being in a relationship for one year, you must have gone to his house once or is parents house. and to me it all boils down to love if you know you can spend the rest of your life with him that is you are very sure of the trust you have for him then you can go and introduce your self to his parents else my sister let him come him self and do it the right way.

Bottom line : It is not normal.

okayyy, i do think its not that normal, the way you worded the topic made it a bit confusin for me so I'll just say this:
if he's going to introduce you to the family then hell, you shouldn't be so 'shy' lots of girls are waiting for that opportunity
if you're introducing yourself its kinda weird and personally I wouldn't go by myself

BUT
if you've already met them, like even a little glance at the relatives then I think you should go and meet them of your own accord

whts not good does not have another name!

Its not normal atall.