maylisa:
God bless you

. . Bless you too!

lawanson44:



See as you resemble HIV positive alien? Who wan marry you before? In the next 10 years now, na so u go relocate to Mountain of Fire. Mtchewwww

Hahahahaaha!!! See what I am talking about. Perfect example of how hateful and spiteful they can be. Proved me right as usual. Lmao! E pain you??!!!! Ntoorrrrr!

MrBasketball:

See as u just dey mumu yourself.

When you regret it hope you won't come and open a thread u have a broken marriage saying... "PLEASE HELP!!! "

I wont die if I dont get married. Besides I only date foreign men.

Guidette:


I wont die if I dont get married. Besides I only date foreign men.

You sure do look too fragile to be able to take a good beat by a big black cruise missile all up in you. So I think you made a wise decision by going for the pinky. Wise decision if you ask me.

Anyway, black women are the biggest race traitors since the moors - a lot of them ain't shyte but we still love the batty tho.

Shalom.

Guidette:

I wont die if I dont get married. Besides I only date foreign men.

Which country are you originated from?

SirShymexx:


You sure do look too fragile to be able to take a good beat by a big black cruise missile all up in you. So I think you made a wise decision by going for the pinky. Wise decision if you ask me.

Anyway, black women are the biggest race traitors since the moors - a lot of them ain't shyte but we still love the batty tho.

Shalom.

Lol, I date Caribbean and other African men too. Not a race traitor. I just dont want Naija men

Guidette:


Hahahahaaha!!! See what I am talking about. Perfect example of how hateful and spiteful they can be. Proved me right as usual. Lmao! E pain you??!!!! Ntoorrrrr!

Oh really? Tell us how hateful and spiteful your father is...it's gonna be an interesting story! *grabs chair with popcorn at hand*

Jman06:
Thank you @bukatyne. Was about typing the above.
Most Nigerian girls are confused and don't know what is good for them in relationships. I have dated a girl who said that I was 'too emotional' just because I was doing the lovey-dovey things with her,yet when you develop "iron" heart and stop showing them love, they still complain. They think that a guy showing his affections for the lady he loves is a sign of weakness, forgeting that it takes the love of a woman to calm even the strongest of men. Think about the biblical story of Sampson and Delilah.
Some of them also think that guys show affection only
when they are broke, so even when a guy is genuinely showing his love, they think he is doing that because he's broke. You see, confusion everywhere.
Thank goodness for your likes tho, who have got some functional brain cells in their skulls.

That is the issue

Everyone has different preferences...

There are more that 5m girls of dateble age; some like lovey dovey; some like commander in chief; some like tough love, some like beating etc. same with guys.

Get someone with the same preference as yours...

liquidmetall:





what quality do you have?

Question

If you do not understand that the 'we' was referring to women in general,

Well well

Guidette:

Lol, I date Caribbean and other African men too. Not a race traitor. I just dont want Naija men

Good for you. Even if you're strictly team-pink-willy - you don't need to blow the trumpet. Doing that reeks of being bitter and insecure about something. And with the way these naij heaux create threads with epistles and make videos about how much they hate certain men - you just have to wonder if these heaux aren't suffering from acute depression induced by excessive big black cruise missile syndrome, smacked hard upside the head as a kid, or just wankers who're naturally/innately sociopaths. Tough luck, I guess.

I don't even like naija heaux, but since they always fall on my palm - I just take them. Nyggahs shouldn't discriminate against other nyggahs in niggerdom, while putting others on a pedestal. But always keep ya options open.

Shalom.

SirShymexx:


Good for you. Even if you're strictly team-pink-willy - you don't need to blow the trumpet. Doing that reeks of being bitter and insecure about something. And with the way these naij heaux create threads with epistles and make videos about how much they hate certain men - you just have to wonder if these heaux aren't suffering from acute depression induced by excessive big black cruise missile syndrome, smacked hard upside the head as a kid, or just wankers who're naturally/innately sociopaths. Tough luck, I guess.

I don't even like naija heaux, but since they always fall on my palm - I just take them. Nyggahs shouldn't discriminate against other nyggahs in niggerdom, while putting others on a pedestal. But always keep ya options open.

Shalom.

Lol. Look at how you talk. Like a common miscreant. A fantastic display of a naija man who's ego is bruised. What if i like white men? Or other black men? As you said, you dont want naija women. So y r u attacking me for not wanting men like u? So much hypocrisy in one post, i cant deal!!!

Honey, my options are as open as possible. I dont lack men in any way.

PS: Black men are not the only men with big dicks. Swedish/German men do as well. So forget that nonsense talk. Besides i am not a size queen. I dont need a big dick, I need a big brain.

Guidette:

Lol. Look at how you talk. Like a common miscreant. A fantastic display of a naija man who's ego is bruised. What if i like white men? Or other black men? As you said, you dont want naija women. So y r u attacking me for not wanting men like u? So much hypocrisy in one post, i cant deal!!!

PS: Black men are not the only men with big dicks. Swedish/German men do as well. So forget that nonsense talk. Besides i am not a size queen. I dont need a big dick, I need a big brain.

Lol. I doubt you'll know what a miscreant is even if a cm is added to the diameter of ya extremely big eyeballs. Keep it civil cos chatting to me is a privilege, and I doubt you'll ever have the privilege to chat to anyone on my level in the real world.

Well, let me break down my post to you cos it seems you have reading/comprehension problems (typical with folks on these sides):

- It reeks of insecurity and narcissism when folks expend so much energy and time on writing epistles and making videos about why they hate people from the same stock.

- Ditto putting folks from other race above yours is self-hating. Even if in ya twisted logic, you believe it - it's better to shut ya gob, and let it stay in ya head.

Comprehende? - now, post something sensible to show you're decent - not the typical loud, obnoxious, and disrespectful trait synonymous with Nigerian heaux.

SirShymexx:


Lol. I doubt you'll know what a miscreant is even if a cm is added to the diameter of ya extremely big eyeballs. Keep it civil cos chatting to me is a privilege, and I doubt you'll ever have the privilege to chat to anyone on my level in the real world.

Well, let me break down my post to you cos it seems you have reading/comprehension problems (typical with folks on these sides):

- It reeks of insecurity and narcissism when folks expend so much energy and time on writing epistles and making videos about why they hate people from the same stock.

- Ditto putting folks from other race above yours is self-hating. Even if in ya twisted logic, you believe it - it's better to shut ya gob, and let it stay in ya head.

Comprehende? - now, post something sensible to show you're decent - not the typical loud, obnoxious, and disrespectful trait synonymous with Nigerian heaux.

You call me disrespectful? Im done! If u think it was a priviledge 'chatting' with u, i didnt perceive it. With ur gutter language and roadside manner, it will be a miracle if u r not a wheelbarrow pusher in real life. Dont bother replying because this the last piece of my precious time i will waste on u.

Guidette:


You call me disrespectful? Im done! If u think it was a priviledge 'chatting' with u, i didnt perceive it. With ur gutter language and roadside manner, it will be a miracle if u r not a wheelbarrow pusher in real life. Dont bother replying because this the last piece of my precious time i will waste on u.

Lol. Now I get a better picture based on ya lexicon/vocab. I saw "New York" and thought you're probably from the West. However, I can see a clearer picture now - you're just another freshie who used to be stuck in some village in Nigeria. So, it's not shocking. My bad, mistake on my part.

It's "privilege" and not "priviledge". Don't get it twisted - it's a privilege. You wouldn't even know what "gutter language" is even if you get smacked with ya mouth wide open.

Like seriously, who pushes a wheelbarrow? Is that meant to be a curse or banter? I shudder!

MrBasketball:

Can u see how foolish u are?

Poverty had ruined your life that's why u think it's a white man that will solve your problem.

Dumb empty skull girl.

I am dumb but you can never be or achieve whatever I have accomplished in this life. Smoll boy pple like you can't get me angry bcus I have so much good things to think of. Work hard, engage in something meaningful so that your tomorrow will be grt and you'll stop spending your entire day on nairaland. If you need hlp you can email me so that I can help amend your life.

It is well o. Please, my people stop all these insulting posts, it wouldn't help. God bless you all as you yield to this little advice. Let's embrace peace.

maylisa:
[s] I am dumb but you can never be or achieve whatever I have accomplished in this life. Smoll boy pple like you can't get me angry bcus I have so much good things to think of. Work hard, engage in something meaningful so that your tomorrow will be grt and you'll stop spending your entire day on nairaland. If you need hlp you can email me so that I can help amend your life. [/s]

Look at this haggard prostitute, u don't have words against me coz i am not retarrded like u are.

You are nothing like a frustrated coward.

Mr. Basketball, what do you want to gain from this exchange of abusive words?

fibonacciseries:
We married legally, willingly. There was a time (recently) I reacted to all these ill-treatments from him, he is now using it as the basis for what he has been doing(he rented another apartment with an Igbo lady) without my knowledge, he only told me he has a program me he's running so, he may not be coming home frequently, unknowing to me then that he was lying. I confronted him when I discovered but he used antagonizing method to answer me and I reacted, he's now basing his bad habit on that reaction(that's what he said) and I don't want to commit adultery. I've never turned him down b4, he used to come and sleep with me when there's no other option for him. But now for the past months, he's neglected me. He only comes home to see his kids when he feels like. He's above advice, some of his family members support what he's doing while some God feariing among them have tried to talk sense into his head but he ended up making them his enemies, he walks out on them, so when they could no longer bear the insults, they keep looking.

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I grief over the trauma u're passing!
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Understand that... You don't have to give up on him!
Reasons are that... These could be the reason God gave this man to ur care..knowing very well that you're the only woman that will be able to handle him!
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Sincerely speaking,... I'd like u to look deep on urself... A lot of things turn men off... He's either regretting for marrying you or there is something that he's holding grudges to..and u have to find out what he's angry over.. He might nt say it out but u jst have to think back!
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Look into the mirror...are u really pretty?... How about Body odour?... Do u have sexy shapes? Please am jst being matured about this questions!... Just to look into the exact thing that has deviate his interest on you!.... Are u depending totally on him for ur upkeep?
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Try and get a job if u're not working!... Save money and do matured make-ups... Get nice dresses... Turn urself into a teen-like mother... Mostly, try and look matured on ur dresses!... Look at what most local/foreign celebrities are wearing! Get the ones u can and make ur looks more enticing and appealing...
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Are u a good cook? You have to try and spice up ur recipes...
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Do u maintain jst one position during love making? How about sounds when having intercourse?... This things will move him...
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Just try something! Good luck!

Thank you sir for this beautiful and reasonable advice. Actually, I'm not failing in any of these points you raised. I'm fashion conscious, a good cook, trying my best in bed (I even watch pornographic films occasionally to improve on my sexual life.

The problem started when God began to answer our prayers(when he bought car and we started building). He said sometimes ago that "the people he's controlling in his working place are more than 20, that a small lady like me can never get His attention again no matter what I do"(that was when he was just be promoted, I was beaten to coma when I tried to seek for his attention, some neighbors rushed me to a nearby hospital, when I was revived back to life and regained my health, I was advised not to seek his attention again if I really want to live long) I think he spoke under the influence of alcohol' and influence from some bad friends and family because, practically, his brothers are like that too, his own case is even better than two of his brothers.

He's been manipulated because he subjected himself to it. I've vowed that no other man will sleep with me except my husband, but he's starving me. I've good physique and look very younger than my age. If I want to remarry before this year ends, I can. Which as times goes on, I might put into consideration because this is the time I need companionship. Everybody keeps telling me he will change. When will that be? Is it when he's no more useful? He will be telling me it was the work of Satan and people will now be asking me that "are you not a christian? Yes, I'm a christian and I've been begging him on my knees to forgive me of all what I might have done wrong but instead my plead is aggravating the matter. He's already made up his mind because he thinks he's found the love of his life in someone else and he is even proud of it to tell some people. 'Aye yi KO le rara' let him go ahead and marry whosoever he wants to marry but let him set me free, I deserve to be happy in my life.

Thank you for your concern sir.
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foxxynik:

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I grief over the trauma u're passing!
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Understand that... You don't have to give up on him!
Reasons are that... These could be the reason God gave this man to ur care..knowing very well that you're the only woman that will be able to handle him!
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Sincerely speaking,... I'd like u to look deep on urself... A lot of things turn men off... He's either regretting for marrying you or there is something that he's holding grudges to..and u have to find out what he's angry over.. He might nt say it out but u jst have to think back!
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Look into the mirror...are u really pretty?... How about Body odour?... Do u have sexy shapes? Please am jst being matured about this questions!... Just to look into the exact thing that has deviate his interest on you!.... Are u depending totally on him for ur upkeep?
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Try and get a job if u're not working!... Save money and do matured make-ups... Get nice dresses... Turn urself into a teen-like mother... Mostly, try and look matured on ur dresses!... Look at what most local/foreign celebrities are wearing! Get the ones u can and make ur looks more enticing and appealing...
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Are u a good cook? You have to try and spice up ur recipes...
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Do u maintain jst one position during love making? How about sounds when having intercourse?... This things will move him...
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Just try something! Good luck!

fibonacciseries:
Thank you sir for this beautiful and reasonable advice. Actually, I'm not failing in any of these points you raised. I'm fashion conscious, a good cook, trying my best in bed (I even watch pornographic films occasionally to improve on my sexual life.

The problem started when God began to answer our prayers(when he bought car and we started building). He said sometimes ago that "the people he's controlling in his working place are more than 20, that a small lady like me can never get His attention again no matter what I do"(that was when he was just be promoted, I was beaten to coma when I tried to seek for his attention, some neighbors rushed me to a nearby hospital, when I was revived back to life and regained my health, I was advised not to seek his attention again if I really want to live long) I think he spoke under the influence of alcohol' and influence from some bad friends and family because, practically, his brothers are like that too, his own case is even better than two of his brothers.

He's been manipulated because he subjected himself to it. I've vowed that no other man will sleep with me except my husband, but he's starving me. I've good physique and look very younger than my age. If I want to remarry before this year ends, I can. Which as times goes on, I might put into consideration because this is the time I need companionship. Everybody keeps telling me he will change. When will that be? Is it when he's no more useful? He will be telling me it was the work of Satan and people will now be asking me that "are you not a christian? Yes, I'm a christian and I've been begging him on my knees to forgive me of all what I might have done wrong but instead my plead is aggravating the matter. He's already made up his mind because he thinks he's found the love of his life in someone else and he is even proud of it to tell some people. 'Aye yi KO le rara' let him go ahead and marry whosoever he wants to marry but let him set me free, I deserve to be happy in my life.

Thank you for your concern sir.
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That isn't the solution!... I believe you've bore him his first male child... And so...you remain his number one wife...
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I'll say!...you shld not give up!... Celibating won't kill you!... Masturbating isn't a crime though..... If he's starving you...just try and put ur mind away from temptations!
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And please... Considering another marriage will only make u a laughing stock! And it'll mean that u're a loser on this battle..... Consider the vows you made on the altar... I believe u had pre-counselling and post-counselling before and after ur marriage!
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Please, don't dig into his affairs... Deviate ur interest and your love to ur children!... The more u seek to know what he's doing....the painful it'd become for u to bear! Just shut ur mind over his sexual indulgence and move on... If you're working.. Match ur focus on ur job!... And please! Stop relaying ur marriage problems to ppl or in a media like this...
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A lot of people u see smiling everyday, have diffrent problems... But the ability for u to swallow it and put a smile on ur face makes u a superhuman!
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In my university days!... There was a girl who had her womb cut off coz of several abortions!... Then it affected her and she started bleeding for years!... You'll never know she was in pains.. She knows that she'll never put to birth and she will find it hard to sleep with a man coz the blood started getting old and was oozing!!... Nobdy knew what she was passing thro until she fainted in school and we volunteered to take her to the teaching hospital... The doctor seeked for her family person and I agreed to stand for her as her cousin... I was told everythng... We contributed to her bills and after she came out...I took her out and discuss with her...she cried and told me nobdy knew it except me! The bleeding was treated and she was jst left with no womb!... And ever since then! Today is the only day am saying this...
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Another girl was a serious ulcer patient.... She take drugs that cost a thousand to 3thousand naira a day for her not be pass thro pains... She misses lectures most days and yet u can never see her frown or look frustrated!... That we were so much happy with her...and she was fun to be with...
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Am taking my time to tell you this...becoz... You can smile and leave with ur husband even when he's not acting like a husband...yet neighbours will never get to know!
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There is a husband and wife...that I was told.. They've quarelled for years after their marriage... This happened till their old age...and the husband died without reconciling with the wife... They have different pots and diferent bed... They don't discuss as husband n wife... They bareely look at each other or communicate with each other... They fecth water separately!... But when somebdy visits them....they'll sit together...smile and rub themselves as if they're very happy with each other... The moment the person leave...they will immediately return back to their malice. It happened for years! Till the man dies!... You can pretend and be happy!
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You can plan and work things out...and have ur marriage back... This movie... "Mr and Mrs" should tell u how u can gain ur husband back... Whether he has conscience or not!
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I often say that... Anybody who's into TROUBLE knows why and so should also know the solution to it's trouble!
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Am compelled to say that u know the solution..u jst have to plan it well... And divorcing him isn't the solution! Please!

I'm grateful sir.

foxxynik:

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That isn't the solution!... I believe you've bore him his first male child... And so...you remain his number one wife...
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I'll say!...you shld not give up!... Celibating won't kill you!... Masturbating isn't a crime though..... If he's starving you...just try and put ur mind away from temptations!
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And please... Considering another marriage will only make u a laughing stock! And it'll mean that u're a loser on this battle..... Consider the vows you made on the altar... I believe u had pre-counselling and post-counselling before and after ur marriage!
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Please, don't dig into his affairs... Deviate ur interest and your love to ur children!... The more u seek to know what he's doing....the painful it'd become for u to bear! Just shut ur mind over his sexual indulgence and move on... If you're working.. Match ur focus on ur job!... And please! Stop relaying ur marriage problems to ppl or in a media like this...
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A lot of people u see smiling everyday, have diffrent problems... But the ability for u to swallow it and put a smile on ur face makes u a superhuman!
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In my university days!... There was a girl who had her womb cut off coz of several abortions!... Then it affected her and she started bleeding for years!... You'll never know she was in pains.. She knows that she'll never put to birth and she will find it hard to sleep with a man coz the blood started getting old and was oozing!!... Nobdy knew what she was passing thro until she fainted in school and we volunteered to take her to the teaching hospital... The doctor seeked for her family person and I agreed to stand for her as her cousin... I was told everythng... We contributed to her bills and after she came out...I took her out and discuss with her...she cried and told me nobdy knew it except me! The bleeding was treated and she was jst left with no womb!... And ever since then! Today is the only day am saying this...
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Another girl was a serious ulcer patient.... She take drugs that cost a thousand to 3thousand naira a day for her not be pass thro pains... She misses lectures most days and yet u can never see her frown or look frustrated!... That we were so much happy with her...and she was fun to be with...
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Am taking my time to tell you this...becoz... You can smile and leave with ur husband even when he's not acting like a husband...yet neighbours will never get to know!
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There is a husband and wife...that I was told.. They've quarelled for years after their marriage... This happened till their old age...and the husband died without reconciling with the wife... They have different pots and diferent bed... They don't discuss as husband n wife... They bareely look at each other or communicate with each other... They fecth water separately!... But when somebdy visits them....they'll sit together...smile and rub themselves as if they're very happy with each other... The moment the person leave...they will immediately return back to their malice. It happened for years! Till the man dies!... You can pretend and be happy!
.
.
You can plan and work things out...and have ur marriage back... This movie... "Mr and Mrs" should tell u how u can gain ur husband back... Whether he has conscience or not!
.
.
I often say that... Anybody who's into TROUBLE knows why and so should also know the solution to it's trouble!
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Am compelled to say that u know the solution..u jst have to plan it well... And divorcing him isn't the solution! Please!

Damn!@comments... Nigerians are bitter people. What a dark continent!! Africa my Africa!

But most of it is true now. if y'all are honest with yourselves, you'll agree that you can pinpoint a lot of Nigerian men that behave like that. Thankfully my man is a rare exception.