or a burden?

i hear things, from they dont know what love is

they confuse even hate for love

to he says he loves me, but all he wants is to get laid

so please does this mean love is a curse

for men not to feel and at the same time use its name to get laid

the trend here suggests, if one dare says he is in love 98% of the time he/she would be scorned

do i need to love in my lifetime?

love brings heartbreak when unreturned doesnt it?

please why should we love?

love IS a curse I have no doubt

Ehise99:

love IS a curse I have no doubt

should it be so?

It can be, in a sense

love is no curse, just alot of us abuse it, and sometimes confuse it with lust/hate.

smooooooth:

love is NO curse, just alot of us abuse it, and sometimes confuse it with lust/hate.

Seconded. . .

na curse o!  ;d  ;d

smooooooth:

love is no curse, just alot of us abuse it, and sometimes confuse it with lust/hate.

how do we abuse it?

do we abuse in the name of love

or we abuse the act of loving itself

and please i will like to know how a grown man who has being around the bloc

for a while will confuse love for lust/hate

i have felt hate

i have felt like

i have felt lust

i have felt indifference

i am just feeling love for the first time in life

tell me the scenerio above, how can a person confuse that?

Is Love a Curse??
I've got 5 words -A gift and a Curse

Love can be a very beautiful thing if it is felt in almost equal amounts by two people in the same place (mentally and geographically) and at the same time.

Trying to achieve that balance is what sucks.

ariblaze:


how do we abuse it?

do we abuse in the name of love

or we abuse the act of loving itself

and please i will like to know how a grown man who has being around the bloc

for a while will confuse love for lust/hate

i have felt hate

i have felt like

i have felt lust

i have felt indifference

i am just feeling love for the first time in life

tell me the scenerio above, how can a person confuse that?

we abuse love when we take it for granted,

love has nothing to do with age, grown up still mix it up

if you sure what u feel is real love, u are lucky, cos love

is the best thing in the whole wide world.

Love can be a curse if it's not shared. Before u can feel the full impact of love, it must be genuinely shared btw two people.

very intelligent writes

if i say so myself

but you all seem to be of the opinion that love has to be fifty fifty

no it doesnt,i respectfully disagree

i dont think one shoul love because you expect to be loved back

it is wonderful when it is returned in equal fold but its not mandatory

hence the love triangle

love is not a curse. it depend on the individual[sub][/sub]

minne:

love is not a curse. it depend on the individual[sub][/sub]

depends on the individual huh?

meaning if an individual is cursed love would be cursed