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What You Should Do If Your Boyfriend Stop Showing You Love by sprincoolman: 1:49pm On May 03, 2015
What You Should If Your Boyfriend Stop Showing You Love
Hi Ladies,
Welcome to my Blog, Am here to About This Topic Cus Lot of Ladies as been questioning me for this for long here..
Here are steps below:

1.“It sounds like the spark might be gone for the moment. That doesn’t mean you can’t get it back. Not seeing each other for a while could help. But if it doesn’t come back, maybe it’s just not meant to be if sex is that important for you (which to most people it is..so don’t feel bad for that) Have you thought of trying new things in the bed room? Role play? intimacy gadgets? Food play? Kink? It might make you more eager for sex.”

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2.“I was just wondering have u ever considered going to a sex therapist as a couple and see if that might help?”
I’ve totally been in this situation. I dated my college boyfriend for three years. At the beginning of our relationship, we were completely in love and all over each other. But then our relationship started getting rocky and turned toxic. We loved each other and didn’t want to lose what we had, even if things were bad.
I felt like it was really over during the last sixth months of our relationship. During that time, I never wanted to have sex with him. I didn’t even want to kiss him. Every time he touched me, I felt uncomfortable and like I needed to take a shower. I wasn’t willing to continue a relationship where I felt repulsed by my boyfriend. That and the other problems we had led me to end it for good, and I’m glad that I did.
I will say that love does change and grow. Sometimes you can stop being in love with and attracted to someone, but it doesn’t mean you don’t love and care about them as a person.

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Just because it didn’t work out for me though doesn’t mean it can’t work out for you. Couples go through rough patches all the time. I highly recommend talking to your partner about how you feel and discuss ways you can spice things up to see if that changes anything. Relationships take work, even when it comes to sex. If you feel like you’ve lost that chemistry, you can get it back with a little extra effort
I hope it helps?

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