Meeting ladies is a challenge for most guys, but it can be difficult for those guys who suffer extreme shyness. After all,it is pretty hard to meet a lady if you can't talk to them, if you find out you are kind of shy, and its hindering your ability to communicate with women, here are some tips for you guys. 1. TAKE BABY STEPS: you don't have to become Mr. Outgoing overnight,start by pushing yourself to talk to two or three random strangers everytime you go out, and just become comfortable with the interactions. Your words don't need to be deep or meaningful, they just need to get the interaction moving. 2.MAN UP: beating your shyness is a process that takes time, you can also do it. Just accept the fact that its going to be uncomfortable and possibly even terrifying,accept the fear, do it anyway, its the only way you are going to grow. 3.IMPROVE YOUR BODY LANGUAGE: do not slouch when you walk, stare at the ground(I know most people dat sef), shove your hands into your pocket (money no dey dere o) focus on having strong, confident body language and you will begin to feel more confident, make sure you smile too, because when you force yourself to behave in a specific manner, your brain then produces the appropriate chemicals and the feelings become real. 4. FIND FRIENDS WHO ARE MORE OUTGOING THAN YOU ARE: by simply going out with trusted friends who are already the life of the party you will find it more easier to loosen up, and come out of your shell, do this often,and you will find yourself naturally becoming more like your outgoing friends. 5. COMMIT: when you make decisions to approach a woman and speak to her, remain committed no matter how uncomfortable you feel. Never run away from the interaction, put practice managing tensions, any interaction can go really well or really poorly, but if you are going for it, don't do it halfway, stand tall and maintain your positive attitude no matter how she reacts. 6. DO WHAT YOU LOVE: do you love to watch football or going for musical concerts, find those people who share same interest with you, and join them. Its hard to be shy when you are doing something that gets you excited. Women will notice you when you are at your best. Happy Sunday and Have a Wonderful week ahead. Cheers!!

This is a romance thread oooo

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I really need this one....my own shyness don enter stupidity,people wNts to interact with me but I don't want to,and after I will start saying I don't have friends

Mega2010:
I really need this one....my own shyness don enter stupidity,people wNts to interact with me but I don't want to,and after I will start saying I don't have friends

My guy no b only you oh... I'm having the same problem here

ClassyAdewumi:
TAKE BABY STEPS: you don't have to become Mr. Outgoing overnight,start by pushing yourself to talk to two or three random strangers everytime you go out, and just become comfortable with the interactions. Your words don't need to be deep or meaningful, they just need to get the interaction moving.

thats the exact problem with social anxiety, needing to say something to push the convo.

Are u shy?

Plz take this serious... This write up is nice tho

I believe I'm not shy anymore,

(My story long o)
Nairaland helped me sha
I nw go on dates...

Pilot4Airbus:
Are u shy?

Plz take this serious... This write up is nice tho

I believe I'm not shy anymore,

(My story long o)
Nairaland helped me sha
I nw go on dates...

thanks bro.. Just so sad I posted it on a wrong room. How can I change that?

What am I doing here?

Vote for Sandra, Nairaland can be great again.

Am I shy?? I think I'm overcoming my shyness now