Since the Last time a brother talk about the purpose of Nairaland I thought to myself starling you can contribute to the essence of Nairaland. And there are two ways to do that either Relationship or Religion. And tonight I come with a writing on "Essential Element In A Relationship".
Since am writing to nairalanders I will skip the introduction and move to the Hallmark and essence of this writing in relation to the Topic.

1. CO-OPERATION: Otherwise known as unity. One important and essential element in a Relationship is Co-operation. Relationship involves getting ideas and views together and making them work.And it's a common knowledge that building a house does not involve only the bricklayer but people from every profession with perfect co-operation. If you are the type Looking for the best and not the beast in your relationship I guess it's hightime you started co-operating with her in building instead of forwarding your motion always.

2. SUPPORT: While it's somehow related to the first element there remains a distinctive difference between the two. While the former requires you working hands in hands with your partner the latter requires you working hands in hands and at the same time creating backup for your plan in case it fails. There is,of course different ways to support your partner the most being Financial and Emotional support.

3. TRUST: This ought to be number one element for some reasons.But nevertheless it still serves it's purpose irrespective of the position and number it carries. In a Relationship Trust is the ability to bygone the forgone,that is to say the ability to vouch for your partner in Face of available evidence. Trust can be build and lose while the latter is easy the former is hard to rebuild.

4. CHARACTER: The entity of humanity lies in their personality. In other words What makes man different from other apes is their character.So Good it has been proved that robots can recognize anything as human in as long as it behaves as human. Many relationship has been chartered all because of bad character (a blood relation has been a victim). There is a need for personal examination in which Transformation might not be sufficient but total Change might be all to get things right.

5. GOD: The foundation of your relationship matters a lot... as it is the matter that defines the success of your relationship. God cares about everything he made and about their well-being and all that concerns them;your relationship not excluded. If you want your relationship to succeed and prosper I think it's hightime you invited God.

Wish you All A Successful Relationship and Happy ending.

©Starlingslimnet

Interesting

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dharay88:

wish i culd read ds ur romance textbook...

Boss....since you wish you can I believe you have

op u ve said it all,nice list tho.Especially no3&5.

prettythicksme:
op u ve said it all,nice list tho.Especially no3&5.

dharay88:

yhuv finally uploaded ur pix.
Hmmm, u got ma precious like on dat.

#u look more ok dan i tut

hmmm like seriously #thanks

All dis sums up to one thing money... before u start judging me guys would u advice ur sis to date a broke ass with a bright future or a ready made business man... ladies would u turn down a marriage proposal of a millionare for dat guy u've been dating for long

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dharay88:

see arrest...
Only read d bold points...lemme see if I can read it full.

Also help with a share

ta4ba3:
All dis sums up to one thing money... before u start judging me guys would u advice ur sis to date a broke ass with a bright future or a ready made business man... ladies would u turn down a marriage proposal of a millionare for dat guy u've been dating for long

No denying the fact that money contribute to how far and how well you can show,prove and live Love nevertheless if you want a successful relationship it's hightime you saw money as a supportive tool instead of seeing it as an essential tool for a successful relationship.. my 2cents

Nice one

Thumbs up to u op!!!
Everything coupled wit understanding makes a good relationship