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| Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by AOjoeguari(m): 6:45am On May 11, 2015 |
See, I am a responsible man to the core and I am enlightened to a reasonable standard. The only time a man shouldn't gun for s3x in the first COUPLE OF WEEKS (only) in a spending-spree-relationship, is when the lady is a VIRGIN. That's the privilege she should enjoy for such dignity. It is forbidden for a loose or 's3xually active' lady to ask a man to wait until marriage while she keeps milking his pocket dry. It is the height of foolishness and your forefathers wouldn't be proud of you as a man. Better to beget a thief than a fool. Afterall, politicians are thieves. Fine, s3x is a sin, the entire relationship is also a fvcking 'sin', so is the unnecessary 'spending'. If you are not ready for sex, you have no business being in a relationship. Go for a 'friendship' where men don't spend and women don't give s3x until marriage; where there are only in to know themselves better. Women think they are so smart. I have seen a smarter man who went as far as doing 'introduction' for a lady - who has milked him dry - only for him to have s3x with her and dumped her the next few days. Men should be 'actors' to selfish ladies. I am not here for a tea party, so I don't expect you to like me for saying the truth. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by donbenedict(m): 6:49am On May 11, 2015 |
Lol... Some of these ladies just need to be taught a huge lesson... |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by stan241(m): 7:01am On May 11, 2015 |
If the main reason a guy approaches a lady is for "consumation" then why not go for the commercial sex workers instead, I'm sorry but your topic makes no sense whatsoever 1 Like |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by Basildvalour(m): 7:26am On May 11, 2015 |
Love does not wait for consummation before it begins to manifest care. If love is the true driving force, then, the guy could spend the whole earth if he has it and wouldn't' feel any bad. Consummation always has a price and it is with the pros*itut*s 1 Like |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by ivyT(f): 8:41am On May 11, 2015 |
the op is quite right.. this doesnt apply to virgins becos we plenty wellwell 1 Like |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by robosky02(m): 8:45am On May 11, 2015 |
ivyT: babe......... were you dey since |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by Nobody: 8:52am On May 11, 2015 |
ivyT: So my baby is a V? Hmmm, I'm soo proud of you.  |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by ivyT(f): 9:23am On May 11, 2015 |
robosky02: i took a break i tire for this romance section. |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by ivyT(f): 9:24am On May 11, 2015 |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by AOjoeguari(m): 9:34am On May 11, 2015 |
stan241: Good. I hope you also know that 'boyfriends' aren't banks? Do you? In the same vain, if the reason a lady 'appreciates' a man is because of how much he spends on her, then she should go to... Mars? Please. As long as she sees the man as a 'source of income' and defines that as LOVE, she should also be ready to give back whatever the man defines as love. Afterall, the best kinda love is an ACTIVE act, not passive. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by Nobody: 9:40am On May 11, 2015 |
Useless topic. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by Nobody: 9:40am On May 11, 2015 |
The sentimentality of the OP has led to degrading of his mentality... It beats my imagination why people will come up with vain explanation and accusation to justify the course of perversion. Relationship is not what you call it and if I can understand you perfectly well you are saying in a nutshell Relationship is dependent and independent of Sex? That I must say is an argumentative fallacy that burge on moral decadence, a baseless, useless opinion springing moral degradation. Not everyone have the same entity as regard your mentality nd I think you have to redefine Relationship in a Good perspective. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by AOjoeguari(m): 9:42am On May 11, 2015 |
Basildvalour: How on earth do you guys even define LOVE? Just how? A girl who milks a man dry deserves the so-called effete love? Please, spare me! You can't demand for what you aren't ready to give. If a man spends at his will without asking for s3x, fine. If she pressures the man to spend on her, then she should be pressured to give too. Afterall, she has probably given someone else severally. My point exactly. |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by stan241(m): 9:43am On May 11, 2015 |
AOjoeguari:sure i get your point but unless you dating some kind of "love peddler" the guy alone shouldn't be the one doing all the spending it should be reciprocal, I'm also against guys doing all the spending but as a guy, you can't really go into a relationship and not spend that's why i said if its just the s3x you want you are better off going after a hooker |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by Basildvalour(m): 9:49am On May 11, 2015 |
AOjoeguari:Milking a guy dry is an option for the guy to bulge or not. He has his senses and can choose whether or not to spend or is he a kid not to know when he is being milked by a girl  Now, my point is this: spending for a girl is a wilful act and it is only love that can propel that into motion without the host asking for s3x in return. I hope you got me right now! Have a nice day |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by TheSonOfMark(m): 9:50am On May 11, 2015 |
ivyT: Virgin? Swear on your womb that you are! You hypocritic, lying, two-timing viper! Tell that to the last 19 boys who screwed you. You call girls hide behind the cover of the internet to spread deceit. EVEN YOUR JEZEBEL-LIKE LONG NAILS AND YOUR EMULSION PAINT MASKED FACE GIVE YOU AWAY.  |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by AOjoeguari(m): 9:53am On May 11, 2015 |
starlingslimnet: Useless topic, yet you are commenting. Okay. Just as sex in a relationship is a moral decadence, the pervasive 'milking of a man' in the name of it is also an utter moral dirtiness. I don't live in a world of make-believe. I am a rugged realist. You don't correct madness with madness. NO! If we must redefine relationship, it must be done in all fronts, not with selective amnesia or with a 'siege mentality'. We must begin to practice it how our forefathers use to. Only then you can be in a moral high ground to nullify my assertions. Wake up! |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by robosky02(m): 9:53am On May 11, 2015 |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by Nobody: 10:33am On May 11, 2015 |
AOjoeguari:Good... let me then ask you a question, Do Ladies forced money out of guys pocket? |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by amokeme(f): 11:10am On May 11, 2015 |
sigh... I just wish ladies will stop this habit. honestly, it gives guys the room to talk trash about us  |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by Nobody: 11:15am On May 11, 2015 |
starlingslimnet:dude, you're missing the point. The op is actually advicing men to disallow women from coercing money out of their pockets. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by MrsChima(f): 11:20am On May 11, 2015 |
This is a result of Nigerian poverty.  . |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by Nobody: 11:20am On May 11, 2015 |
Teempakguy:We are not playing Lawn tennis here bro....how come am missing point? |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by Nobody: 11:23am On May 11, 2015 |
starlingslimnet:  |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by Nobody: 11:25am On May 11, 2015 |
MrsChima:yeah . . in developed countries, they usually care about handsomeness. Which is why I'm going to move to America to ladies who appreciate my fineboiyness. Despite the fact that my pocket is shallow |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by MrsChima(f): 11:29am On May 11, 2015 |
Teempakguy: Chicks in America don't want broke niggas either. |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by Nobody: 11:33am On May 11, 2015 |
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| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by UncleJudax(m): 1:52pm On May 11, 2015 |
Basildvalour:Asking a lady for sex, is also a choice the lady may consent to or turn down. It is not as if the Op is advocating for rape.  1 Like |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by Basildvalour(m): 2:01pm On May 11, 2015 |
UncleJudax:Oh men! You don't even get the topic for discussion Too bad |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by UncleJudax(m): 2:05pm On May 11, 2015 |
Basildvalour:And you do? If you feel a man has the right not to be milked, then a lady also has the right not to give her punny. Was that hard for you to comprehend?  |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by marvelous000: 2:11pm On May 11, 2015 |
AOjoeguari:FIXED  1 Like |
| Re: Why Would You Spend So Much On A Woman You Have Not 'Consummated'? by Basildvalour(m): 2:16pm On May 11, 2015 |
UncleJudax:You are still reasoning out of point totally. The question is, should a man spend for a girl he hasn't had sex with Now, what concerns the girl and whether she gives a f.uck to the guy? You spend cos u want to spend and if you request for s3x before you spend, then you are only patronising a prostit*te and that's not love. Go back and read my comment, the very first one you quoted Have a nice day! |
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