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What Is Expected Of A Married Man by honeric01(m): 3:35pm On May 11, 2015
A Real godly man is proud of his wife and proud to talk positively about her at work and with friends.

Husband is not just a title, husband is not just the ability to get a wife pregnant. Husband means great responsibility. It means House band,the band that binds the house together. A godly husband is a priest, a provider and a protector. 
As a priest; a husband subjects himself to Christ and opens the Word and leads his family daily through worship. 
As a provider; the husband works hard to ensure that the family is well fed and nourished decently dressed and taken care of in all areas. 

As a protector; he shelters his family from physical, emotional and spiritual attacks/harms. A godly husband the man of the house will stand up for his marriage and defend his wife and children and fight for his family's salvation.

As a husband never hold on to your wife's past mistakes ( which are many) be ready to forgive her even for the ones she is yet to commit. Practice forgiveness daily
Husbands no wife has ever died from too much love, care and affection.
Don't be deceived, bad company corrupts good morals watch the friends you keep, make sure your friends are those who value marriage creed and have less singles as friends. 

Marriage is a union/ fission of two becoming one, feel your wife's pain and regard her problems as your challenges, seek to feel what she feels,desire what she desires. Give her the same consideration you give your own body.
Your mother is your mother no one can change that, but your wife is you and should be seen as you. Treat her with much love and respect. No one will treat her otherwise including your mother.

Husband, there is nothing that threatens the security of a wife than the thought of another woman competing for the attention and affection of her man. Nothing is more disrespecting, nothing is more insulting please avoid that road. Every wife needs to know she is still the one and only for you. Reassure her daily.

Don't preach to your wife, don't demand love and affection,respect and attention from her. Rather show her how it is supposed to be done. Live your sermon don't preach it. Demonstrate your love.
A woman who doesn't ask for anything deserves everything.
Finally Husbands and wives whatever you do separately will separate you. Marriage is TEAMWORK. Have a blessed weekend.

Remain Blessed!.

-Gift Samson-

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Re: What Is Expected Of A Married Man by martius101(m): 3:55pm On May 11, 2015
F*CK HIS WIFE
Re: What Is Expected Of A Married Man by Eggcelent(m): 4:14pm On May 11, 2015
OP. Thanks. Beautiful piece. I especially love the aspect that says whatever you do separately will separate you.
Re: What Is Expected Of A Married Man by KanwuliaJara: 2:03am On May 12, 2015
Whatever THE WIFE expects of him! cool

For me?
1. PAY HIS OWN SHARE OF THE BILLS!
2. KNOW HOW TO COOK AND CLEAN!

Godly? IRRELEVANT!!!!! kiss

*fighting sleep SEHriously . . . . . . . after enjoying the SWEEEEEEEEET fufu and fresh-fish banga-soup cooked by my husband for dinner. Godly ko, Satanic ni! Shior!!!* cool

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Re: What Is Expected Of A Married Man by honeric01(m): 10:00pm On Jul 01, 2015
hehehe..this woman again!
Re: What Is Expected Of A Married Man by Royver(m): 10:25pm On Jul 01, 2015
Nice one,
Complete.
A husband isnt just the woman impregnator, but the woman protector and family nurturer.
Re: What Is Expected Of A Married Man by cococandy(f): 10:36pm On Jul 01, 2015
As a priest; a husband subjects himself to Christ and opens the Word and leads his family daily through worship.
As a provider; the husband works hard to ensure that the family is well fed and nourished decently dressed and taken care of in all areas.

As a protector; he shelters his family from physical, emotional and spiritual attacks/harms. A godly husband the man of the house will stand up for his marriage and defend his wife and children and fight for his family's salvation.
1)not everybody is religious. So some married folks can be fine and successful even if the man is not leading them to Christ and daily worship.

2)that's a combined duty. Not for the man alone and doesn't mean if a man can't do all that, he's not worthy to be married. If in partnership with his wife, they can both achieve that, they are good to go. He doesn't have to be a mule or over worked. That's why he has a partner.

3) what's that? grin
Spiritual harms? Seriously? do you mean like warding off blows from amadioha and co?

And sheltering them from physical harm involves what exactly? Fighting a group of 4 robbers who attack their home or what? You guys are funny.
Nobody expects that from you. I certainly don't expect that from my man. Even though he'd sometimes be like "anyone who wants to physically hurt you will have to go through me"
Aww sweet. But no. Like I tell him and I'm telling you, pls don't be a hero when there's no need for it. That's for novels and movies. In the face of real physical harm, Let's just both run from danger. We don't wanna lose you while you're trying to save us.

On emotional harm, I agree. When you're married to someone, they've given you the power to hurt them emotionally and vice versa. So here you've to protect that person by not doing what will harm them emotionally or be an avenue for other people to get into them and hurt them that way too.

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Re: What Is Expected Of A Married Man by bukatyne(f): 10:42pm On Jul 01, 2015
honeric01:
A Real godly man is proud of his wife and proud to talk positively about her at work and with friends.

Husband is not just a title, husband is not just the ability to get a wife pregnant. Husband means great responsibility. It means House band,the band that binds the house together. A godly husband is a priest, a provider and a protector. 
As a priest; a husband subjects himself to Christ and opens the Word and leads his family daily through worship. 
As a provider; the husband works hard to ensure that the family is well fed and nourished decently dressed and taken care of in all areas. 

As a protector; he shelters his family from physical, emotional and spiritual attacks/harms. A godly husband the man of the house will stand up for his marriage and defend his wife and children and fight for his family's salvation.

As a husband never hold on to your wife's past mistakes ( which are many) be ready to forgive her even for the ones she is yet to commit. Practice forgiveness daily
Husbands no wife has ever died from too much love, care and affection.
Don't be deceived, bad company corrupts good morals watch the friends you keep, make sure your friends are those who value marriage creed and have less singles as friends. 

Marriage is a union/ fission of two becoming one, feel your wife's pain and regard her problems as your challenges, seek to feel what she feels,desire what she desires. Give her the same consideration you give your own body.
Your mother is your mother no one can change that, but your wife is you and should be seen as you. Treat her with much love and respect. No one will treat her otherwise including your mother.

Husband, there is nothing that threatens the security of a wife than the thought of another woman competing for the attention and affection of her man. Nothing is more disrespecting, nothing is more insulting please avoid that road. Every wife needs to know she is still the one and only for you. Reassure her daily.

Don't preach to your wife, don't demand love and affection,respect and attention from her. Rather show her how it is supposed to be done. Live your sermon don't preach it. Demonstrate your love.

A woman who doesn't ask for anything deserves everything.
Finally Husbands and wives whatever you do separately will separate you. Marriage is TEAMWORK. Have a blessed weekend.

Remain Blessed!.

-Gift Samson-

@Bold:

Beautiful kiss
Re: What Is Expected Of A Married Man by honeric01(m): 10:50pm On Jul 01, 2015
bukatyne:

@Bold:
Beautiful kiss
Before nko Bukayatulahi.
Re: What Is Expected Of A Married Man by bukatyne(f): 11:03pm On Jul 01, 2015
honeric01:


Before nko Bukayatulahi.

Asamaleku
Re: What Is Expected Of A Married Man by honeric01(m): 11:17pm On Jul 01, 2015
bukatyne:

Asamaleku
When are you coming up with that of a woman?
Re: What Is Expected Of A Married Man by aboyaji(m): 2:28am On Jul 02, 2015
Building up a good family
Re: What Is Expected Of A Married Man by saintneo2: 4:24am On Jul 02, 2015
nice! But it ain't easy.




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