This thread has gone past its prime,
I'd say lock it!!

why?

binhozie:

This thread has gone past its prime,
I'd say lock it!!

d-ROC's back in the building! Now where were we?

binhozie:

This thread has gone past its prime,
I'd say lock it!!

Turn to iice and lock it.

d-ROC:

d-ROC's back in the building! Now where were we?

d-ROC, Thanks for this thread o jare, I wonder why Mr get around on every thread_eyonigger has not been here yet. To topic: I would say it does not really matter dating poor girls. As a guy wey soji, you do not need to do a whole year survey and test and see if the girl is all about the money or not. Abi some dey wey fit pretend?? Anyway as for me, if its a girl I love and I know she aint about my money, then I dnt see any reason nt dating the poor girl. I think I am making a point here.

Lets be frank about this. i think the problem is due to the misuse of the word "love"
what really is love? what does it mean to some people? is there really anything like love?
if you dwell on these issues critically you now see that people do certain things for some reasons. yeah, there's always a motive for our actions
people enter relationships for different reasons: some desire company, sex, someone to meet their needs, a sense of belonging, etc.

so ask urself "y do i get involved in the first place?" certainly not love at first cos there's nothing like love @ first sight. love grows with time.

but can we love without giving? absolutely NO. can you give without loving? absolutely YES

love is a responsibility, a decision you make to give your very all to the benefit of the other person without something else in return.
it should be both sided. its wrong to approach a relationship based on what you intend to benefit from.

for the girls, try and add value to ur man else u'll become a pest and he'll treat you as such. but if you add value to him, he'll respect you forever

bonnez:

Lets be frank about this. i think the problem is due to the misuse of the word "love"
what really is love? what does it mean to some people? is there really anything like love?
if you dwell on these issues critically you now see that people do certain things for some reasons. yeah, there's always a motive for our actions
people enter relationships for different reasons: some desire company, sex, someone to meet their needs, a sense of belonging, etc.

so ask urself "y do i get involved in the first place?" certainly not love at first cos there's nothing like love @ first sight. love grows with time.

but can we love without giving? absolutely NO. can you give without loving? absolutely YES

love is a responsibility, a decision you make to give your very all to the benefit of the other person without something else in return.
it should be both sided. its wrong to approach a relationship based on what you intend to benefit from.

for the girls, try and add value to ur man else u'll become a pest and he'll treat you as such. but if you add value to him, he'll respect you forever

I totally agree with you. Bonnez and SeanT21 were the most objective on this thread. There was a lot wisdom in your replies.

binhozie:

This thread has gone past its prime,
I'd say lock it!!

If you don't like it then lock yourself in your room or move over, sheesh some people sha

Life's all about giving, you get attracted to a girl and you get close to her and she's Bam! what you've been searching for but she's poor and very dependent on you. Some guys need to know that ladies are expensive most times not because of greed but because of a lack of security. They want to have something after we've walked away. That's why some girls from rich background behave like gold diggers. So, we have to give them that security in our relationship and all this, I believe will change.

@Poster
I partially dey your back

a girl with no dream or goal in life and that cannot add (or not ready to add) value to your existence should be avoided.
Its a 2 way thing, ain't it?

FBS:

a girl with no dream or goal in life and that cannot add (or not ready to add) value to your existence should be avoided.
Its a 2 way thing, ain't it?

simple

FBS:

a girl with no dream or goal in life and that cannot add (or not ready to add) value to your existence should be avoided.
Its a 2 way thing, ain't it?

what if she had a nice buttique and well-branded BOOBS, ?

en-fuse:

Life's all about giving, you get attracted to a girl and you get close to her and she's Bam! what you've been searching for but she's poor and very dependent on you. Some guys need to know that ladies are expensive most times not because of greed but because of a lack of security. They want to have something after we've walked away. That's why some girls from rich background behave like gold diggers. So, we have to give them that security in our relationship and all this, I believe will change.

THIS ONE NA PHILOSOPHY,

A girl with no car.
A girl from a poor family.
A girl who can't pay her own bills.
Any girl who doesn't match your status.
let me start by pointing out to you that you dont measure wealth by CAR, most guys i know have cars but cant gas there cars, (false life)
i pay my bills and if i need help will talk to my dad or my fiance. Matching your status with gal its a MUST to know where you stand.
my only stand in all these is that we LADIES try hard not leave A FALSE LIFE i dont stay in nigeria but meant alot a guys and LADIES who are in this category. peace

I want to agree with OP, but the problem is that an erect penis doesnt know neither does it care if a girl is broke or not neither can it (erect penis) be ignored.

In fact there are some joysticks that wont even stand up if a girl is too rich but this is understandable if the natural concept of opposite attraction is considered.

kingsikaz:

what if she had a nice buttique and well-branded BOOBS, ?

Don't tell me you're not funny

kingsikaz:

what if she had a nice buttique and well-branded BOOBS, ?

Now that's pretty hard to resist, rich or poor!

ijleke:

A girl with no car.
A girl from a poor family.
A girl who can't pay her own bills.
Any girl who doesn't match your status.
let me start by pointing out to you that you dont measure wealth by CAR, most guys i know have cars but cant gas there cars, (false life)
i pay my bills and if i need help will talk to my dad or my fiance. Matching your status with gal its a MUST to know where you stand.
my only stand in all these is that we LADIES try hard not leave A FALSE LIFE i dont stay in nigeria but meant alot a guys and LADIES who are in this category. peace

True! So why do some ladies say they won't date a guy without a car? especially the "Po ones". Cheers

Pennywise:

I want to agree with OP, but the problem is that an erect penis doesnt know neither does it care if a girl is broke or not neither can it (erect penis) be ignored.

In fact there are some joysticks that wont even stand up if a girl is too rich but this is understandable if the natural concept of opposite attraction is considered.

Weird Philosophy, but equally true.

wbb

UNLEASHED:

Don't tell me you're not funny

any how,

d-ROC:

True! So why do some ladies say they won't date a guy without a car? especially the "Po ones". Cheers


Weird Philosophy, but equally true.

i don't think a vig can be poor also

d-ROC:

Now that's pretty hard to resist, rich or poor!

especially when she's from da village,

kingsikaz:

what if she had a nice buttique and well-branded BOOBS, ?

THIS ONE NA PHILOSOPHY,

well, if that is your own version of adding value to your life then it's yours for the taking. Different people, different strokes. There is no single formular to adding value. . .ain't it?

Sean T 21!! you are more than blessed with that word.

Gabrywyl my girl!! but what been happening now. too bad though we just have accept it. who would change it? you, me, them or us??

D ROC i agree wit all u say, Na true u talk oh.

I think there's nothing wrong in dating a girl from a poor home. It's her attitude and character that matters.

I would quote the dream here:

if she fine ur shawty a dime u shud tip her, u shud tip her/ if she poor and u love her u shud tip her, u shud tip her/ ,

Cho ha ba, see as the babes dey provoke, but i concur wit a bruv, SAY NO TO POOR GIRLS, DEM GO HEAR AM. THE THING CAN PAIN

This so true of so many girls in 9ja, ask d married men what makes dem tick _{money & stability} . D sad thing is d poster is correct in his deduction, wat makes it more annoying is,  d girl giving u this bullshit is a 100% liability with no hope of eva adding any value 2 ur life.
If u want a rich husband or boyf come along with ur own fat cheque book then it will b a perfect match otherwise, _{make dem no make me lose my temperature make i no vomit,  cos if i do ehn,}

no money ,no love.
thats wat most girls think and say,
it just has to swing both ways.

women marry for security reasons( financial, emotional and otherwise), what do men marry for?

Watch out for a new thread by d-ROC dealing with the topic. Cheers.

is any body there? i've got something bothering me which i will like to share it with nairaland forum. can someone direct me on how to post a weave on this trend. i have nurtured this problem over a month now, still can't find how to post a new topic

ohaechesi:

is any body there? i've got something bothering me which i will like to share it with nairaland forum. can someone direct me on how to post a weave on this trend. i have nurtured this problem over a month now, still can't find how to post a new topic

Simply got to the romance page and scroll down to the end and click on new topic. Lets hear what you have to say.

zhiggy:

Cho ha ba, see as the babes dey provoke, but i concur wit a bruv, SAY NO TO POOR GIRLS, DEM GO HEAR AM. THE THING CAN PAIN

Don't just tell me there's someone who is yet to say NO TO POOR GIRLS