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Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by iice(f): 2:25pm On Sep 15, 2006 |
Please some men don't need you to give them anything, they just see you and ask you to marry them, they assume that you are dying to get married so any man will do. What about those on the net, you talk to them once, next thing they tell you they love you like your some dummy duhhh. Maybe considering you're not a woman, you dont have those experiences. Ladies who here has been toasted with words of i will marry someday? ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Gettolove(m): 2:27pm On Sep 15, 2006 |
obong: I quite agree with you my guy cos i dont understand what she is talking about. sometimes girls think they are smart by having flocks of boyfriends and settle with probably the richest of them. see girl, i guess you are still searching and you have same feelings for all these guys including the one you are expecting to say I WILL MARRY YOU. dont waste your time with someone you are not sure if he will ever say he will marry you, and if those saying they want to marry you are not as rich as this guy, you can take the risk and be HAPPY. What you dont know this guy may have another chik elsewhere that he has been hiding may be in unilag( e.g. part3) and you may be shocked ![]() i am not poisoning your heart about this guy but it is not impossible that stuffs like this could happen. MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY GIRL NO DULLING THIS IS 2006 ARE YOU NOT SWEET |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by earthrealm(m): 2:59pm On Sep 15, 2006 |
what u need to know is his financial status, is he financially stable enough 2 marry/keep a wife, that is one of the major things that delay/prevent a guy 4rm popping the question, cos what if he pops it n u say yes, then he has no money to marry u, in naija here, u need like a min of 1m to 1.5million to prepeare 4 both trad n church wedding, n back to u, how old are u?, how old is he?, are u both xtians? ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Bubus(m): 4:37pm On Sep 15, 2006 |
Desperation is a byotch!! You apparently don't know what you want. You are willing to settle down with the next thing that proposes to you and looks remotely like a man. Carry on, I ain't mad at you. |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Gettolove(m): 5:12pm On Sep 15, 2006 |
@ bubus don't mind her jare, she thought the guy na mumu, she wants him to say he will marry her while she is still seeing some other people saying they want to marry her, you know she has been given these people something to chop ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() boys watchout ooo, girls are sampling us |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Greatpeter(m): 5:12pm On Sep 15, 2006 |
Wahala dey this world ooo! |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Damollar(m): 5:35pm On Sep 15, 2006 |
earthrealm: @earthrealm - does it matter? |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Radiant(f): 12:41am On Sep 16, 2006 |
@ lIONESS Men have a way of flaunting marriage in the face of "ripe" ladies. OOUUCCHH!!! ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Uche2nna(m): 1:05am On Sep 16, 2006 |
Radiant:I thot it was the females who expert in that department.Haba,what is up with this your reverse psychology ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Abi dey don flaunt for your face b/4? |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by ky4real(m): 12:15pm On Sep 16, 2006 |
may be is not ready, bt u can just do urself a favour by followin ur heart ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by idiot(m): 6:50pm On Sep 16, 2006 |
i don't think there is anything wrong with being concerned that marriage is not coming up 15 months into the relationship. She does not give her age (if she was 20 - we can say she's moving too fast, if she's 40 - she has a serious point). Now, she mentions that there are other guys proposing to her (concurrent to her relationship). That I find to be weird. Maybe if she could explain how she's in a relationship with a guy she "loves" there are still other men who are making proposals. |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by chinani(f): 11:41pm On Sep 16, 2006 |
@Idiot The issues you raised were raised and answered (by me, just my guess) on pg 2. Also on pg 2, she said she is 30. @Ally If he mentions marriage that is a good sign. Why don't you mention it too? If you do already than mention it a bit more to give him a hint. That way he knows what's on your mind w/o you having to propose. But I don't think you need to worry. 30 is not old & you're relationship is not 2 yrs old yet. You wouldn't want to rush things & then be disappointed. |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Seun(m): 11:46pm On Sep 16, 2006 |
30 is not old? You must be joking!! |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by chinani(f): 11:58pm On Sep 16, 2006 |
I don't think 30 is old. Why should it be? 30 may not be 'young' but it's not old either. Ask Oprah. ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Uche2nna(m): 1:40am On Sep 17, 2006 |
So if Ophrah is 60yrs and unmarried that makes it Ok.C'mon chinani you don't expect me to believe that you are praying to be unmarried in your thirties ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Uche2nna(m): 1:42am On Sep 17, 2006 |
And which one is that she may not be young but not old.An ambiguous stmt that does not apply to women.No hard feelings in terms of age a woman can be 2 things, young or Old! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by chinani(f): 3:34am On Sep 17, 2006 |
Uche2nna:The Oprah comment was meant as a joke. I didn't mean to imply anything about Oprah's marital status especially since she's been w/ the same man for almost 25 years & doesn't wish to marry. As for me, I'm not praying to be married or unmarried since either one can leave you miserable or content. My statement wasn't meant to be ambiguous. Au contrarie I was suggesting there is an age between young & old. The 30s is that age (decade). (Even 40 is not "old" it is 'older' but not "old". Not yet. That's 50. ![]() If you think that ladies are either "young or old" then that is your opinion. I don't have to accept your opinion & you don't have to accept mine. |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Uche2nna(m): 3:54am On Sep 17, 2006 |
There you go again with your ambiguity.Quote I am not praying to be married or unmarried Unquote ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by chinani(f): 10:39pm On Sep 17, 2006 |
How is that ambiguous? Maybe you're too obtuse to understand. ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Uche2nna(m): 11:10pm On Sep 17, 2006 |
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Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by chinani(f): 11:28pm On Sep 17, 2006 |
You're such a good sport Uche. ![]() While I'm not praying to be unmarried, I don't pray to be married either. I have nothing against marriage but it's not something I pray about. So when I added my 20 kobo to the thread this was my mindset. Understand me now? |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Radiant(f): 11:38pm On Sep 17, 2006 |
chinani:Chinani, please I'm curious to know why you're not keen on marriage? |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Uche2nna(m): 11:46pm On Sep 17, 2006 |
Good Sport!Wetin that one mean!I be futboll abi basketball ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yeah I understand you.But just like Radiant I want to know y marriage is not a hot topic for you. And please no drink poison,If worst comes to worst I go come marry u if you go fit manage me ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by hotangel2(f): 3:42am On Sep 18, 2006 |
This man don't want to marry you. WHat else do u want to hear? Read my signature. ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by chinani(f): 5:37am On Sep 18, 2006 |
@Radiant & Uche2nna I don't think of myself as not being "keen" on marriage but like I said people are content and/or miserable whether they're married or single. Being married doesn't "make" you happy like yeast makes bread rise. It can contribute to happiness but I think happiness, joy, contentment are things people must feel for themselves -- marriage works best that way. (These are all just ideas as I've never been married.) If I pray to be married & am miserable, people will say "be careful what you wish for". So in the interest of being careful what I wish for, I don't wish for any[i]one[/i]. ![]() [center]Having said all that, men are mean. ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by earthrealm(m): 9:45am On Sep 18, 2006 |
hmmmmmmmmmmmmm ok i see, in nigeria, 30 is considered old 4 a woman 2 be unmarried, how old is ur b/f?. so i now kinda understand why the gal is desparate, my advice 2 u, is give the guy a couple of months more.if he doesnt act serious, accept the next best guy on ur list, ![]() cest simpliscite!!! |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Seun(m): 11:24am On Sep 18, 2006 |
Why waste "a couple of months" on a relationship that is going nowhere? ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Gettolove(m): 11:51am On Sep 18, 2006 |
i think we have a seriuos problem here because it seems the original poster is expressing the feelings of many girls. |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Makeda(f): 1:32pm On Sep 18, 2006 |
If Ally1 is 30 and this guy is also around this same age, he is old enough to know what he wants and we should all stop sugar coating this for her, and tell her the truth. @Ally1 The hard truth is this guy is just not that into you honey. It is time for you to move on to someone who could really love you and give you what you truly desire, which is marriage. Please just pray on this and God will answer. I had this same issue a few years ago and I prayed and God Answered and I asked God to make me strong enough to accept His answer, and everything was ok. By surrendering to God, my real husband that God intended for me was sent to me. I did not even have to wonder anymore. By holding onto this guy you may be blocking God's real blessing. Please Ally1 I know you are going through a tough time right now and most of us have been there too, but surrender this to God and He will bless you with what you need. Don't worry about what your society says, 30 is not too old. you are at a great age, just don't rush. God will bless you with a husband at any age. His time is not our time. Just slow down honey and let God move. |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by valianty(m): 4:26pm On Sep 18, 2006 |
15 MONTH IS TOO LONG TO KNOW WHERE A RELATIONSHIP IS HEADING TO. BUT WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN TALKING ABOUT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP? I HOPE YOU ARE NOT PRESUMPTOUS ABOUT THE GUY . MAY BE HE LOVE HIM MORE THAN HE LOVES YOU. PERHAPS HE LOVES SOMEBODY ELSE BUT YOU ARE BLIND ABOUT IT. OPEN YOUR EYES ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by lioness(f): 4:51pm On Sep 18, 2006 |
IMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Una go kill me for the nairalnad one day ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Hasn't Asked Me To Marry Him by Uche2nna(m): 8:15pm On Sep 18, 2006 |
chinani:Yeah! And if you extrapolate ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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